Many men strongly believe that asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating and is for the man’s peace of mind. Imagine a scenario in which your wife thought you were getting too close with a female coworker or friend, working too late, being distant, etc. and you told her not to worry about this person and didn’t change the behaviour much. One day, this woman announces she’s pregnant and isn’t sharing who the father is. Would you be ok with getting a paternity test to ensure your wife has the peace of mind that you aren’t in fact siring and abandoning your child, since your behaviour has been off and the timing is suspicious?