I don't tell any of the women that I'm with about my plans to paternity test the children that I've potentially fathered. Do I need to inform my partners that I want to breathe or drink water? No, because that's a given. It is my absolute right as someone who will have to devote exorbitant resources in raising a child, to check whether that child is indeed mine.

Logically speaking, there is no downside to paternity testing in secret. If the child is mine, then nobody gets offended and I will devote my life to ensuring that my child is healthy and happy. If the child isn't mine, then I can move on with my life and find someone else.

The biggest reason why there is such a strong pushback from women against paternity testing is that it goes against nature. In nature, a minority of males mate with the majority of females. This is due to differences in sex drive between sexes(I can't wait to hear the "Um, but I'm way hornier than my boyfriend!"), the value of eggs vs sperm(sperm is cheap and mass produced), and women having to bear the burden of reproduction via pregnancy and childbirth. These minority of males cannot commit to every single female that they impregnate. Thus, cucking and paternity fraud is a natural phenomenon in nature.

Women have nothing to gain and everything to lose from men doing paternity tests. Paternity tests are essentially a man's way to completely circumvent the natural phenomenon of cucking. Women are upset about this. They will call us names and perform mental gymnastics. That's perfectly okay because in the case of paternity testing, the ball is 100% in the man's court. They have no say in the matter, so the responsibility lies entirely on you, my fellow man.

Of course, there's plenty of suckers in this world which means plenty of men raising kids that aren't theirs. Remember, there's a sucker born every minute. Just make sure that sucker is actually yours.