S'up Seddit.

I've been lurking for a long time, but finally my game is starting to improve.

I want to share something that's reduced my flake out rate.

Calling the girl after you # Close.

Crazy right?

After seeing this video I thought I'd give it a try.

But first, let me tell you about before:

I'm part of the generation in their 20s who grew up through their teens texting girls or talking to them via MSN chat, so like you I find texting to be a matter of habit. But I used to get flaked on like ash crumbling between my fingers, when I would try and set up a date.

And I realised why, my game is spontaneous. It's all about Not Giving a Fuck and saying random things while teasing the girl. That just doesn't translate well through text for me. Especially as the girl can text back when she wishes. (About 2 hours later, after I've been anxious over 5 minutes what she's going to say, I become a nervous wreck and eat lots of peanut butter. When she texts back, I'm over this, and can't be arsed to get back into the zone of talking to her.)

So now. If I like a girl after # closing, and I have the intention to eventually try and go for the F Close, I call her.

Usually during the interaction, after I get her number, I tell her I'm going to call her and talk about [insert random topic here]. If she's a fun girl we'll probably shoot the shit over that and then I eject.

THEN I call her. When? Once I left it till 3 days, called her.

I didn't say "Oh hi HB, I'm that guy who bla bla."

I said, "Hey [reference hilarious joke/topic during our interaction]". From there my game comes naturally as I'm talking over the phone. It's like real life, except you can't make eye contact.

Better than a bunch of ASCII digits on a device smaller than my hand. People who get F closes from texting, I salute you. But it just doesn't work for me.

So if you've been getting flakes after texting, or want to mix it up. Try CALLING the girl. Be a fucking Alpha Male.