[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)

Mexcol · 2013-08-05T19:33:13+00:00

I get so attracted to some girls and after I get their attention/start to like me, i totally lose interest. What gives? Why?

asad16 · 2013-08-05T19:03:57+00:00

Any tips on dating shy girls? A couple days ago I went on a date with a really shy girl who didn't really talk. I found myself carrying the load of the conversation, but even then, there were tons of silences. Any tips to get her to open up?

ColinFeely · 2013-08-05T20:16:53+00:00

How do you escalate with someone you've been friends with for a long time? I have a friend that I am becoming interested in but I put myself in the friend zone on purpose.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-08-05T23:43:36+00:00

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ss33o23 · 2013-08-05T18:32:10+00:00

I'm casually seeing a few people right now. How do I handle it if one of them asks if I'm seeing other people?

throwmc1 · 2013-08-05T19:21:56+00:00

How do you approach girls that are in a group of more than two, without losing interest of the girls other than the target?
When can you tell that it's ok to escalate to the next level of physical contact with a girl - ex. From slightly putting your hand on her arm to kissing.
What is a good spot to practice daygame with a friend? Preferably with lots of single girls that are more open to conversation based on where they are (easier to branch into other topics).

bl1y · 2013-08-05T22:42:09+00:00

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frogma · 2013-08-06T00:42:15+00:00

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davydog187 · 2013-08-06T02:50:46+00:00

Tomorrow night I'm taking a girl out that I had a one night stand with two weekends back. I'm taking her to a tapas bar then getting some drinks afterwards. My question is, how do I talk about myself and display DHV without seeming like I'm bragging? I struggle with this.

throwmc1 · 2013-08-05T20:29:21+00:00

How do you respond if the girl says she has a boyfriend? I usually eject as soon as she says it, even if I don't believe it :(
Standing behind a 10 at the airport. She is listening to headphones, but makes eye contact a few times. Would this be a viable opener (I was just brainstorming, got major AA but figured it might have been worth a shot. Sad that I didn't do it)? Create a new text message, type "Are you as adventurous as you look?", leave number space open, hand her phone.

Thoughts?

Dbossman · 2013-08-06T02:29:10+00:00

How do I shave my balls like a PUA?

spivey378 · 2013-08-05T23:06:18+00:00

thoughts on backpacking and travel game. in malasia now. hard to find a place to go if both of of.you are staying in dorm rooms too.

ell0bo · 2013-08-06T00:15:20+00:00

I've got a coworker that I've flirted with on and off for a few months. I've let things die down and rarely talk to her, and other times I've gotten it to where I can sense more than a bit of tension.

I sort of asked her out casually a couple months ago, but she had legit plans and we never ended up hanging out (I could have the next day but she responded slowly to me so I just ignored her for a few weeks after this).

Now I've picked it up again -- I think she's still single. How do I proceed? I gotta ask her out but keep it casual. I work in an office setting. What do?

frogma · 2013-08-06T00:33:29+00:00

Is it possible to reignite interest with an ex?

I recently hung out with mine and we've been broken up for a few months but when we hung out we were really flirty.. she was walking closer to me like shoulder to shoulder touching..she would joke around about how she used to grab my butt and I grabbed hers back...I was leading her with my hand on her lower back...a lot of kino but she also told me that "she doesn't see us going back to bf gf?" Yah sorry for excess information but two questions.

Is it possible to reignite interest with kino? (Or is it just generally a bad idea to go back to an ex)
I understand kino and touching and stuff but when is it a good time to just hold her hand?

ChewyRoxorz · 2013-08-06T01:01:18+00:00

When does a silence become awkward? I'm really bad at determining this. I always think any break in conversation is bad which i know can't be true, but it causes me to freeze up and lose focus on the conversation when it happens.

Working_onit · 2013-08-06T01:04:53+00:00

I need to get better at getting women to invest in me. What tips do you have for this?

lostandconfuseddd · 2013-08-06T03:12:33+00:00

I recently texted a girl I was friends with for a few years over the weekend asking if she would like to meet sometime next week to catchup. She responded with the old "I got a lot of things going on next week, but I will let you know if I'm free". What should I do from here?

Ps. I never talked to this girl since March. I initiated the convo

ShitSuxx · 2013-08-06T06:27:22+00:00

Why can't I close? I can get to the point of kino, even making out with girls, but I can't get any further, and I usually get froze out by the chick. I even had a girl who admitted she had a crush on me for months who stopped returning my calls/texts after we made out one night. She said she wanted to go out!

benbernankenonpareil · 2013-08-06T13:05:06+00:00

I've overcome my AA in the club/bar scene, yet I waver when it comes to daygame. I think I feel like I am too accosting during the day, whereas at night, women are expecting to be approached. Any advice to get past this besides "just do it"?

i_beep_to_the_boop · 2013-08-06T13:32:37+00:00

Is losing your virginity a big deal?

bl1y · 2013-08-06T13:49:48+00:00

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TheGreenReaper · 2013-08-06T16:33:44+00:00

She answers very well to my texts and won't wait more than 1 minute to respond, but when I try to ask her to hang out she suddenly stops responding. Should I drop it? Or I'm just taking things too quickly?

0newinged · 2013-08-05T21:42:00+00:00

A hb7.5 whom i made out with on two seperate nights told me that i would get sex from her eventually if i wanted.

I have no clue how to make this happen because some nights we mostly ignore each other (i refuse to chase her) and other nights it gets hot and steaming within a few minutes but she still rejects me right in front of her house while she's clearly horny.

Last time she did this i told her "why would you think i'm after sex right now? My hands wouldn't be on your lower back if i wanted sex right now".

tripsec · 2013-08-05T22:12:17+00:00

I recently f-closed on a girl that I've been fairly good friends with. She's super chill and good to open up to. I told her that I've basically always thought she was attractive (which is true) and she said she never would have thought that I was even into her. I've noticed this has been a problem with me for awhile. Girls that I'm into think that I'm not interested in them when in reality I am. I like to play it cool a lot, but I definitely have tried to give off that "I'm into you" vibe, what am I doing wrong? What can I change?

Captain_Unremarkable · 2013-08-05T19:56:14+00:00

In the past, I've learned that I have a thing for stoic girls. They tend to not show interest outwardly.

Does anyone else here have that inclination/fetish? How do I get into crazy, clever, fun women instead?

Seddit_b1ood · 2013-08-05T22:59:41+00:00

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bl1y · 2013-08-05T23:27:23+00:00

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SlightEgo · 2013-08-06T00:53:15+00:00

What do I do about a girl I find attractive from my work place? Is it ill-advised to be seeing a girl from your job?

Keep in mind I'm only 18.

Banana_Slut · 2013-08-06T10:20:44+00:00

I think I do awkward shit around this girl, then she texts me back saying it was good seeing me. Would she really text me if she didnt like me?

bl1y · 2013-08-06T10:34:40+00:00

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kkjonnykk · 2013-08-06T11:36:36+00:00

How do you change your reputation with girls? I'm not really known as anyone respectable and cool even though I've been told girls think I'm a good guy who looks good. How do you make people stop thinking you're weird and go for girls in an environment where people already know you?

ChapedAnkles · 2013-08-05T22:36:11+00:00

I've gone from beginner to advanced in the last 7 months. I think taking a job as a door to door salesman had a lot to do with it. But my question is how did you guys deal with the change in your world when you hit advanced? I feel like I can get laid almost any day of the week, and women treat me completely different. I've gone out with the intention of just having fun and not getting laid and still end up fucking girls.

I've thought a lot about that article that rsdtyler put out about how there's very few males fucking a ton of women. And I really believe it's true. I haven't had anyone to talk to about this change who really understands. I've found myself picking up girls to just be friends with them, we usually have sex but it's not even why we hang out. Have you guys gone through this same experience?

I'm feeling very lost, I don't know what I want from girls. Also I've noticed that since I've gotten into pickup my friend group has near doubled. It's due to having tons of female that I hooked up and just became friends. Did you guys experience that too?

Sorry this was kind of all over the place.

bl1y · 2013-08-05T23:22:39+00:00

When asking a girl I've hooked up with before to hang out (and potentially hook up), should I first only ask if she is free to hang out, and then if she says yes, then suggest something. Or when I ask her should I immediately suggest something before I know if she is free/down or not to hang out?

Just wondering which is thought to be the better way of asking.

bl1y · 2013-08-05T23:44:25+00:00

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frogma · 2013-08-06T02:33:26+00:00

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ButtFlute · 2013-08-06T02:49:16+00:00

So I'm going clubbing and meeting this girl I've been texting with. Only spoke to her once in real life and I at least want to get a k-close. Any tips? (Like approaching her in the club/ overall tips/ do's and dont's). Thanks a lot in advance fellas!

Alexsickkid · 2013-08-06T03:05:44+00:00

Is high school too young to read Models by Mark Manson? If so, what self improvement books would one recommend to a high school student?

ElCidVargas · 2013-08-06T03:06:27+00:00

If the first thing people notice about me is my English accent should I continue to talk about it? I'm Hispanic and live near Washington D.C I'm curious if typically people would be more confused or fascinated.

pewtercitychampion · 2013-08-06T04:26:41+00:00

How do you open a set (2 or 3) solo and, with no wing, isolate the one you're after? I'm guessing it's all body language, tone, and eye contact, but how do you get the friend to let you isolate? Is there a point at which you can/should ignore the friend(s)?

frogma · 2013-08-06T05:35:48+00:00

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dannydonuts · 2013-08-06T12:04:54+00:00

Can we get more advanced kino example posts? Inner game work is always helpful, but for people more advanced in their game looking for new ways to use kino is a big plus.

ihatewolves · 2013-08-06T14:46:30+00:00

We are all aware of the art of picking up but what about the art of puttibg down? A girl has oneitis for me and shes a great girl but oh my days she is clingy and annoying as all hell. She already knows im not attracted to her but she keeps trying advances she thinks are subtle but really aren't. How do I put her down without losing her as a friend?

bearze · 2013-08-06T19:12:15+00:00

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pua_wip · 2013-08-06T21:46:17+00:00

What do you guys think about a senior I high school opening on college girls? More details here:

http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1jrc9e/incoming_senior_who_lives_near_a_college_campus/

2013-08-07T04:26:31+00:00

I know some girls that like me as an aquaintence, how would I go about asking them out?

faux_7 · 2013-08-07T07:36:01+00:00

Went to Dennys about three days ago. There was an HB8 waiter working there I ask her for a refill she forgets it so I tease her about it leading to a # close. Well I tried setting up a meet up, but appetently she works on both days I recommended. What should I do?

Possibleworstday69 · 2013-08-07T13:57:19+00:00

Any advice for short guys, that seems to detriment my game a lot, I have confidence though.

ihatewolves · 2013-08-07T14:03:01+00:00

My friend constantly jokes about having sex with me. I don't know if she actually wants to or just likes my reaction. I don't want to run into her house dick first and have her think "what the fuck?" Anyone know anything about this?

Sherwood_ · 2013-08-05T21:36:50+00:00

Me & my ex broke up mutually as she had to move away a few years ago.

She is now back & we are clearly both into each other, so much sexual tension and flirting, she sends me texts constantly, but she has a 'boyfriend'. I'd like to get back together with her, I'm pretty sure she'd like to get back together with me. The only issue is this douche in the way. Any tips?

inb4 oneitis. I've had plenty of sex since.

isaac66 · 2013-08-05T20:52:45+00:00

Tips for the walk home? My place is about a 10 minute walk from the downtown nightlife and I've noticed that things tend to cool off between getting a girl to leave the bar with me and actually making it back to my place -- if there's even a little bit of guilt about going home with someone she just met it really seems to come out during that walk back

longlive4chan · 2013-08-05T23:26:21+00:00

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arxch126 · 2013-08-07T01:50:24+00:00

How do you get your friends who are not into game to come out. Or better yet, what are some good resources for meeting other gamers in your area?

TheGatzby · 2013-08-06T00:17:14+00:00

Hi, I'm going college soon, and I just got back from an orientation camp. I talked to everyone and made friends etc. but I have a question about approaching the "hot" girls.

they seem to be surrounded by guys talking to them and bombarding them. I don't want to be like all the other guys hitting on her, but I do want to meet them. How do I handle this situation?

Suitirc · 2013-08-12T04:46:25+00:00

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	232
Comments	262
Date	August 5, 2013 6:30 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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