Women take a more passive approach with dating than men do, usually not making the first move and relying on the guy to pursue them and push things forward. What I would like to understand is does getting into a relationship feel essentially automatic for women? As though it’s something that happens naturally, just from existing out in the world? This is a foreign concept for most men. A man who expects to meet someone “naturally” and “lets women come to” him will likely just be always alone.