Background: I have had sex with plenty of both non-virgins and virgins, and I definitely preferred a virgin for marriage and long-term commitment because 1. they bond better due to less/no previous problems. 2. I want a daughter someday, and she should have a good role model to look up to as her mom. 3. the non-virgins I used to fck usually had some kind of insecurity. It was always, “I feel like I’m not good enough” or something like that. (It was always understood upfront when it was a hookup that my standard was a virgin for marriage, but those women still wanted to go at it with me but then complain later. For the ones I actually dated, I didn’t know they were non-virgins until we fcked or either they told me something about their past experiences. So I’d still f*ck with them, but I would take the relationship label off and just be FWBs or they would get upset and leave.)

So my point is 1. My reason can’t be insecurity, since I perform well sexually with both virgins and non-virgins, and I’m not “small.” 2. Virgins are more discriminate (literally the opposite of promiscuous women), aka selective. Men here also talk about fear of having a woman with a low libido/desire. So if a man is desired by both virgins and non-virgins, he is of much higher value than a man who is only desired by experienced women, as they just want the activity and are less likely to bond. Also, if you fck an experienced woman and she likes it, what have you accomplished? If you fck a virgin and she dedicates to you and desires you sexually and strongly from that point forward, that would be the real accomplishment.

So as someone who had experiences with both, I really think the insecurity shows in guys who can’t break in virgins and are scared they won’t be able to satisfy and make her crave him, hence they need someone who automatically enjoys the activity with others as well and isn’t selective.