A lot of women seem perfectly fine with saying “most men aren’t physically appealing” or “there’s so many beautiful women and not enough good looking men” and I’m honestly ok with that. I’m 31 now and I think most guys like myself should put in the work to improve looks and wealth. But once that’s achieved you shouldn’t be suprised when guys are now sitting on the thrown exercising their options. If you make a commodity scarce you’re simply raising the price you have to pay to get it. If most women want the same sliver of men you need to compete and outpace those men. This is the market that you are ok living with