LTR Deleted our pics together.

-sho-ryu-ken- · 2018-11-01T16:14:53+00:00

Don’t bother asking. You know why.

Duzand · 2018-11-01T16:53:18+00:00

"LTR"

"2 months"

Methinks someone over-invested.

RedSkeller · 2018-11-01T16:22:57+00:00

she's got her grip firm on a new branch

SniXSniPe · 2018-11-01T17:33:27+00:00

UPDATE: Shit just got spicy boys. She randomly texted me saying that after work she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”. Should I use this opportunity to end it with her?

Tell her you can't because you got a date to get ready for tonight.

Trololol

bosshawg502 · 2018-11-01T18:12:27+00:00

lol she's coming over to dump your ass. You should one up her and have any of her things she left at your place piled up on the porch so she sees it when she drives up 😂. You know, she knows, we know.

suckisuckilongtime · 2018-11-01T16:24:21+00:00

She’s about to swing so be ready

derrtderr · 2018-11-01T17:36:30+00:00

She already broke up with you. Your brain just doesn’t know it yet.

throwinghthisoneaway · 2018-11-01T18:43:53+00:00

Youre so lucky right now man. You know you guys are breaking up, spend 10 minutes resting in soticism and be ready to break up with her and act completely fine. Look up trp breakup, it all says to just be fine with it during that conversation, smile, tell her ok and turn around knowing that she will be back on your dick in a couple months.

Youre lucky because its not as sprung on you and random as you think, so she wont get to see the stunned look on your face when she tells you its over.

I envy you

vandaalen · 2018-11-01T17:39:50+00:00

LTR of two months

LTR - long term relationship. how is two fucking months a long term relationship? i've been waring the same pair of underpants for longer than that.

she is some random hoe you barely know. Who gives a fuck what she deletes or not. how do you even know? Do you stalk her?

If you want "to cut if off with her" just block her everywhere and ghost instead of praying for some juicy drama to pet your ego.

http://archive.is/yxzC1

irvingwashington12 · 2018-11-01T16:49:54+00:00

Put yourself her in situation. You already know what's about to happen.

eatingaburritoatm · 2018-11-01T18:10:25+00:00

Updates op

DebonairD · 2018-11-01T16:35:49+00:00

Delete her from your life

Psychocist · 2018-11-01T18:32:59+00:00

Im thinking about just cutting it off with her because I find that flat out disrespectful

It could easily be a shit test. It's pretty weak to be spying on social media.

Regardless, the answer is always the same: soft next.

Those who give a shit will chase you without ANY effort on your part. I've just got done with a 12 month relationship where I barely texted her, didn't friend her on FB, and she just used messenger to arrange to come round to my place where we hung out and fucked. Not a booty call, either, we enjoyed the full spectrum of a relationship. I didn't give her any money. It was only towards the end she started trying to bleed for me something (which didn't work because I knew it was over).

So when I say soft next EVERY time she walks out the door I mean it! Women who want to be with you will not take any convincing. The only two things you need to do: 1) fuck her good, 2) be a valuable man (read: focus on you). But know this: women with less experience need less pleasing compared to those already on the CC. Commitment is joke. Committing to a slag 2 months in is a catastrophe.

Learn from it and move on. Go fuck ten other women as they say. Start focusing on you and your mission and leave women a good few pegs down your priority list filed under "entertainment". Get your fucking head straight because men ruin their entire lives over pussy and it is a damn shame they fight their existence for something which doesn't exist.

downvotesanimals · 2018-11-01T22:01:32+00:00

Lots of this advice is horrible.

The correct response is indifference. Trust your gut and move on. If she has 'the talk' with you at some point just say 'ok. Bye.' Like it's nothing. Because you've moved on to gaming other chicks, and it really is nothing.

No need to beat her to the punch like a 13 year old gossippy schoolgirl.

CalvinRichland · 2018-11-01T16:19:32+00:00

Ghost her

the13thzac · 2018-11-01T18:01:48+00:00

Just say don’t bother.

There is literally no other reason for her to delete pics and come by to say “hi” other than she’s out

Instead of seeing her again remember her like when it was happy, delete her off of all social media’s, pretend like she no longer exists.

And when you remember she does, that’s chill. Be sad if you need to be.

But she no longer exists

TheEarlyMan · 2018-11-01T18:03:18+00:00

Lmao. You better break it off with her as soon as possible. As in, before she comes over to say “hi”. Don’t show emotion, either. The fewer words the better. After breaking it off, completely ghost her. If she’s still trying to talk to you in a week, plate her.

OxfordCommasRGud · 2018-11-01T18:36:07+00:00

Amused Mastery, Abundance Mentality and an IDGAF attitude: “that’s cool... no need to apologise (if she does)... I had fun” then usher her out unless she gives IOIs for break up sex.

Could plate her if/when her new branch snaps.

anonymouspotatoe69 · 2018-11-02T06:09:54+00:00

Waiting for updates.

DadOnDabs · 2018-11-01T17:45:59+00:00

Just text her back and say, "no need, your shit will be in a box by the door"

If she doesn't have anything at your place just say, "no need, it's been fun" or something like that

ticklethegooch1 · 2018-11-01T21:08:50+00:00

Don't make a game out of it who ends it first.

Treat her normal when she comes in and play it cool (you don't know if she wants to call it the quits). When she breaks the news to you, you are having the opportunity now to just reply: "ok". She will be shocked by your reaction and demands an explanation. You could answer something like this: "It's ok, I like you, but we are just dating for 2 months now and it is ok if you want to look for something else."

Say goodbye and move on.

This is much better and she will always look up to you because she will never be sure if you were more valuable than she perceived it.

mabden · 2018-11-02T14:53:53+00:00

>today she randomly deletes our photos together on all social media

She just got hit up by a higher SMV guy.

> she wants to stop by my place and say “hi”.

She wants to string you along until the new guy pans/flames out.

Odawg225 · 2018-11-03T13:28:50+00:00

Downvoting since no update.

effyouasshole · 2018-11-01T17:36:06+00:00

Silently demote her to plate status, and treat her accordingly. No need to talk about anything, nor formally end the LTR.

Since you're single now, start gaming other women and continue working on your mission.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-11-01T17:06:26+00:00

She's probably just throwing a tantrum. Ignore her.

Zanford · 2018-11-01T19:09:44+00:00

She's getting ready to branch swing. She's FB friends with some dude that she wants to look more available for.

You know this in your heart already. So just calmly break up with her and walk away.

judethedude · 2018-11-01T20:21:40+00:00

I think guys on here can get kinda mean. What’s important to remember regardless of outcome is to remain stoic. She’s not feeling it anymore? Hey that’s fine we had some good times, bye. You aren’t hurt (at least don’t show it) and you aren’t groveling. Respect yourself and keep your dignity intact.

actually-guy · 2018-11-01T22:27:04+00:00

This should be added to the side bar:

If your question includes "Should I confront her?" The answer is no. The answer is always no, 100% of the time.

Abeham10 · 2018-11-02T12:45:38+00:00

Update .

Bedtimeshine · 2018-11-02T23:10:44+00:00

So, it’s been a day...

dariusjames · 2018-11-01T16:59:14+00:00

Do not be reactivate. Just be ready whatever happens..stay calm. Or just use dread. That will teach her

jakethesnake5000 · 2018-11-01T17:12:04+00:00

Don’t seem butt hurt. But go with the preemptive breakup via text. Tell her it’s not working out

lovs2spuge · 2018-11-01T17:37:06+00:00

The writing is on the wall my friend

ChadFromColumbus · 2018-11-01T17:44:11+00:00

Why would she even post pics of you after only 2 months? Sounds like you rushed in and caught feels too fast.

Musicgoon · 2018-11-01T18:07:15+00:00

Just ghost on her. Move on from this bullshit.

satanicpriest13 · 2018-11-01T18:53:28+00:00

End it.

Also, GetOffSocialMedia.varg

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2018-11-01T19:18:38+00:00

Sounds like she’s gonna use this opportunity to end it with you bredda

nofilmynofucky · 2018-11-01T20:44:46+00:00

Re your edit - calling it now, she's coming over to dump you

Like everyone else has said: you handed her the keys way too soon dude. Next time vet a girl for much longer.

nummas · 2018-11-01T21:38:11+00:00

When she tells you it's over, just be overly cool about it and say, "no problem, it was fun, best of luck" with a smile at the end. And tell her you have to go cause you have something on. Have her things ready for her to take as she leaves.

Don't discuss it or let her try and explain her decision to you. Just move on and go do something fun. The fact that you are not phased by it or providing her any sort of drama will be the best form of retribution.

RedHoodhandles · 2018-11-01T22:00:31+00:00

Guess I'm gonna get some popcorn.

TatumBetterFultz · 2018-11-01T22:30:17+00:00

Yikes

Goal10der · 2018-11-02T01:03:28+00:00

Bro, read the fkn sidebar, you are obv young/new here.

You are jumping to a conclusion faster than woman. Just meet with her, and see what she wants. If she breaks it off, peace out and redownlaod tinder.

furcryingoutloud · 2018-11-02T02:04:08+00:00

LTR? 2 months?

And who gives a fuck about pictures on social media? You even look?

apost54 · 2018-11-02T03:25:16+00:00

ice_jj · 2018-11-02T05:50:35+00:00

Dude you’ve known her for 2 months if she doesn’t want your guys pics on her personal profile than thats her decision. She probably feels like she’s too invested in you

Shaka9 · 2018-11-02T21:20:48+00:00

Are we gonna get an update or what.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-11-01T18:32:36+00:00

Meet up if you want. If you don't want to go out of your way, just call her and ask what's up.

Be completely indifferent and stoic.

her - "I'm breaking up with you"

you - "ok. good luck to you"

Brushyourteethm8 · 2018-11-01T19:02:22+00:00

Buy a dog together.

/thread

friendandadvisor · 2018-11-01T19:12:06+00:00

No, maybe there is a strange explanation for her behavior.

OTOH, just be ready for her to give you the old heave-ho. I don't recall hearing 'to say hi', whenever I've been dumped. It's strange wording, so, maybe you're still in.

TopOccasion29 · 2018-11-01T19:44:39+00:00

She wants to seem available to some other guys. She's already dumped you. Ghost and block her or demote to plate.

Give an update

joeswo214 · 2018-11-01T19:59:24+00:00

The BEST thing you can do is never talk to her again. Hopefully you didnt respond to that text.

sjn2203 · 2018-11-01T21:05:38+00:00

She’s dumping you homie. Other dicks have been sucked and you’re the last to find out.

hiddenpleasures123 · 2018-11-01T21:25:53+00:00

Tell her "nah, I got another girl coming over tonight to say 'hi'".

SlappaDaBayssMon · 2018-11-01T21:27:51+00:00

It's clear she's about to break up. Just text her back and be real about it. Don't be all pissy and "alpha" about it like half these dudes are telling you to, this isn't a zero sum game, you don't have to "win".

Tell her you know what the deal is, that she doesn't need to drop by, and that's it was fun, best of luck.

Don't get butthurt or try to make some dumb "your shit is out front" power move.

It's over, and you're completely okay with that.

p3n3lop3 · 2018-11-01T21:32:35+00:00

How is 2 months an "LTR"?? lol

NEPat10 · 2018-11-01T22:44:36+00:00

So two months into my LTR my ex started neglecting me left and right and I knew what was coming. Rather than fight it or try to beat her to it, I sat down and took it and haven't talked with her since. With that said...

Do what u/SniXSniPe suggested and apply some dread game. "Can't. I have a date this Saturday"

wobbleelbbow · 2018-11-01T22:50:34+00:00

You should grow a pair, man.

classicrando · 2018-11-01T23:02:57+00:00

YOU'VE GOT BREAKUP

gsp9511 · 2018-11-01T23:29:05+00:00

Bro, just let it play out. There's no point in precipitating things. Let her come by and listen to what she has to say. Then you can make a decision.

CaptainBW · 2018-11-01T23:31:51+00:00

Things are born just to die. Such is the way of the world. Sometimes I'll zone out here, but sometimes I'll remember back to when a woman gave me her love and meant it. Then I remember how fast it went away. She is using you for attention or to satisfy her feelings. Please wake up. Please don't be like me and over-analyze everything she does, and when she comes back weeks and weeks later you think things will be different. She might not be whoring it up, but she's spending her time without you, and that's worthy of thought.

Andgelyo · 2018-11-02T00:24:24+00:00

Ghost/dread her. If she was a real LTR, she would’ve kept it there. Maybe she was ashamed of you, idk. Either way, move on bro.

Ricklogical · 2018-11-02T01:06:18+00:00

LOL deleted all her pics WOW who the fuck did she just friend and not want to show she was taken to?

DAMN DUDE THAT'S CRAZY.

128bitworm · 2018-11-02T01:09:29+00:00

Don't waste time or thought on her. Move on.

jessne1 · 2018-11-02T01:20:40+00:00

Where’s the update OP, gonna grab some pop corn

Hunter2isit · 2018-11-02T02:30:05+00:00

Been dating the same girl for 4 years, 0 pictures online, 0 in the apartment

Nov51605 · 2018-11-02T02:32:42+00:00

Always DARE never DEER

idontevenlift37 · 2018-11-02T05:55:33+00:00

Been there fam. She’s already made up her mind and is planning on letting you down easy. Only thing you can do now is try and be one step ahead of her and keep your frame throughout all of it. DO NOT show her any signs of weakness(etc sadness, crying) retain your dignity.

Derfaust · 2018-11-02T07:21:27+00:00

2 months? LTR?? No.

Adreamdead · 2018-11-02T09:34:45+00:00

Are you,12?

HeadingRed · 2018-11-02T10:26:39+00:00

I've got to ask - since when does 2 months = LTR?

NPC72521 · 2018-11-02T11:03:32+00:00

2 months and LTR? You've got a case of oneitis my brother.

We don't have enough information, but based only on what I know, she's about to turn you into her plate.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-11-02T11:58:36+00:00

She Doesn’t want some other guy to see her with you. You what this means and you should act accordingly. No need to even bring it up. Let this be casual. Let her come over, fuck Her, have fun, send her on her way.

ppanthero · 2018-11-02T13:22:47+00:00

No, don't mention it. Nothing can be won. She will picture you as insecure. Then again, she already kind of broke it off with you. The mistake was the LTR after not even 2 months and probably being overly attached. Just play it cool. Either ignore her or just start dating other girls. Up to you. But don't argue with her. And for sure don't tell her that it hurts your feelings or crap like that.

pame12 · 2018-11-01T16:27:23+00:00

I think wait like a week and see what happens.

Kommanderdude · 2018-11-01T19:17:42+00:00

2 months isn’t an ltr. What happened is she realized you are a clingy man bitch shit stain and she’s coming to break up with your beta cock fag ass.

Title	LTR Deleted our pics together.
Author	QuesXt
Upvotes	102
Comments	184
Date	November 1, 2018 4:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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