Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..

randomoose123 · 2020-06-25T04:48:22+00:00

white boys act like we’re a different species 🤦🏽‍♀️

PsychologicalBeat2 · 2020-06-25T05:51:05+00:00

Assertive white man........ What the hell is going on in his brain

chokeychokey · 2020-06-25T06:18:43+00:00

Lmao. They really now how to fetishize and give back handed compliments simultaneously. My inbox consisted of white men who made jokes about wanting mixed children and the typical “Have you ever been with a (insert race) guy before?”. So annoying.

OrchidLion · 2020-06-25T05:57:17+00:00

PUA. You can tell by the language. Who the fuck talks like this??

sweatydeath · 2020-06-25T06:54:59+00:00

He’s disgusting and too stupid to realize that there’s racism rotting in the recesses of his subconscious

RegularStatus5 · 2020-06-25T06:40:21+00:00

' Have you ever been with a caring, generous and assertive white man' I think I vomited a little in my mouth. The audacity. No pal, she spent her entire life waiting for you to grace her with your presence and do her the favour of fucking her. Also, 'white man'. As if by being a white man he is so far above what you could do, you should jump immediately on his bed out of sheer gratitude he considered you,a black woman, worthy of his attention. Throw him in the trash,where he belongs.

EugeniaAlabaster · 2020-06-25T07:28:43+00:00

This guy definitely has a kidnapping kit in his trunk.

muniherbs · 2020-06-25T04:44:31+00:00

NOTE: I absolutely hate questions like this!! Obviously not all white men are like this, majority of the men I’ve dated have been white but some of them are just so clueless on how to approach black women. This comes across so naive, uninformed.. and slightly arrogant. Bleh.

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-06-25T05:49:24+00:00

Ew creepy and gross 🤮

Chantelmorris345 · 2020-06-25T09:25:36+00:00

Ugh yuck they literally act like we’re aliens from another planet we’re women for crying out loud just talk to us like normal TF smh he gives creepo vibes anyway.

loudest_gusset · 2020-06-25T10:39:46+00:00

Why do so many men on dating apps teat women of color as an exotic species? No matter the race, men fetishize my latina-ness in an uncomfortable creepy way. Especially weird when it comes from a Latino

Bovvsette · 2020-06-25T11:00:22+00:00

Wow, starting with a neg to the entire womankind that femininity is rare these days and that you should give a fuck what entitled scrotes like him find attractive. Then he reveals his fetishism card by referring to himself as ”a white man”, obviously treating women of different races as pokemon that all need to be slept with to collect the full set, instead of treating each woman as an individual and not a stereotype. And then he projects this racism onto others, thinking you share this worldview and are interested in ”collecting” sex with different races too. ”Do you have the «white man» bingo space filled yet?”. Disgusting.

degnan1214 · 2020-06-25T05:20:58+00:00

What the hell...?

MotherofJackals · 2020-06-25T08:54:08+00:00

That gives me a serious unsettled feeling. Completely sounds like a serial rapist.

Asnwe · 2020-06-25T07:07:11+00:00

What the fuck?

jimmbie · 2020-06-25T08:51:32+00:00

Who the fuck even talks like this lmao?? What did he think would happen????

Kitty015 · 2020-06-25T06:30:31+00:00

Barf!

ivy176 · 2020-06-25T16:36:32+00:00

Wtf, he's talking like black women are non-human or like he's doing something so taboo. Is this American? Is that how white guys in USA act? Like he views it as owning and somehow saving yet controlling the woman cause she's black? What a weirdo. He acts like he's not SUPPOSED to be with a black woman or like she's not supposed to be with him based on race, or like she's not even from the same culture as him and he's approaching someone that he can't relate to at all. It's scary and reminds of the way creepy pedos talk to teen girls.

Curo_san · 2020-06-25T11:05:12+00:00

This is just as bad as that caramel macchiato princess nonsense. Into the trash you go!

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-06-25T12:19:12+00:00

What the hell? This is awful! I hope you reported him. What is so rare is that he looked? Like was he not looking before 🙄 and why tf does he have to be assertive- that’s what gets me, like my friend snatched her up a fine white man but he would Never.. this guy needs to go home and get raised to be a respectable human being

chasingxxsanity · 2020-06-25T11:00:30+00:00

Did you mean: aggressive

Nightingale1820 · 2020-06-25T12:31:50+00:00

Is his profile pic Milo Yiannopoulis or Ryan Howard?

Myplummms · 2020-06-25T14:51:52+00:00

“It’s rare these days” = “You’re not like other girls”

redpeithos · 2020-06-25T16:51:28+00:00

This warrants an instant block. No other interaction would result in anything positive.

waddamelone · 2020-06-25T21:49:05+00:00

Ughh this gives me flashbacks to when I was using OLD. I once got a message from an (adopted) black guy who said “Normally I’m not into black women but you seem different”. That’s not even a compliment so shut the hell up. 🤮

Sarcastic3 · 2020-06-25T22:11:06+00:00

This remind me of a white guy asking me on a date:have you ever been with a white guy? I replied what so special with white guys? He got flustered and started stammering.

Myplummms · 2020-06-25T14:51:10+00:00

This guy is either a white supremacist or white nationalist. This is literally a copy paste I see from YouTube videos all the time.

sometingwicked · 2020-06-25T13:57:06+00:00

Gross

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-06-25T14:46:37+00:00

🤮

muniherbs · 2020-06-25T17:26:19+00:00

I hate that question so much. I went out w a MOC the other night and I was just dreading it the whole time. He never asked! I was super thankful.

La_Fant0ma · 2020-06-25T17:34:03+00:00

Ew. This guy reads like a loan shark hunting down down unsuspecting freelancers on a Facebook hobby forum.

ScrubJay9 · 2020-06-25T18:55:10+00:00

Oh wow this is gross, I might lose my breakfast 😖

Cobmobster21 · 2020-06-25T18:59:52+00:00

Oooh no he didn’t

Noemie_Mathilde · 2020-06-26T00:24:03+00:00

He sounds like a bot.

sadcello · 2020-06-26T02:50:20+00:00

You're not like other girls-ing you right from the start. Disgusting.

waddamelone · 2020-06-26T21:34:35+00:00

Me too lmaoo. But since I know there are good women there must be good men as well. They’re just a bit hard to find. The guy quickly shower his colors and it’s no surprise that he was a LVM. He was throwing all his emotional baggage onto me. And when I tried to have lighthearted conversations he starter acting crazy as if that was wrong of me. Boy bye!

Levelupmama · 2020-08-13T19:46:44+00:00

Gag but true smh

Uniquely_Nik · 2020-09-08T00:11:17+00:00

Assertive white man? This guy is likely into “race play” aka slave and master BS

Title	Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..
Author	muniherbs
Upvotes	427
Comments	96
Date	June 25, 2020 4:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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