At least we realized our mistake... 😅

lessadessa · 2021-01-19T18:11:37+00:00

It’ll just hit you throughout the day. This was my entire November and December of last year. Cringing and being disgusted at myself for all the effort I put in while he reciprocated absolutely nothing.

_mooness · 2021-01-19T17:34:01+00:00

It really is the kinda cringe that affects your whole body 😖

My cringe cringed

FirePreferred · 2021-01-19T19:08:07+00:00

When these feelings come up, I make a sincere effort to say "I forgive you." And by, you, I mean myself. Forgiving myself for being so loving and caring that I was willing to do this but forgiving how lost I was to not have the self-respect to realize I was worth so much more. So I forgive myself daily for my past so I can live more brightly now. It's a journey and I'm still on it.

QQueenie · 2021-01-19T17:15:36+00:00

It me.

HottPinkSlug · 2021-01-19T17:49:16+00:00

Haaha 😖 I flinched while making my coffee this morning and 'noped' outloud

waddamelone · 2021-01-19T17:54:21+00:00

Lmaoooo this has been me for the last few days. Except I didn’t do wifey shit, he didn’t want to date and in hindsight he never liked me. OH WELL. 😂😂😂

oh_shit_oh_fuck · 2021-01-19T18:06:22+00:00

Hey! 😠 I’m in this post and I don’t like it!!

4E4ME · 2021-01-19T18:17:44+00:00

This is why I don't sleep well. Reliving past cringe. I'm working on it.

NoonLooney · 2021-01-19T18:18:58+00:00

Cringing at those moments means that you’ve changed and become someone better. There are some people who chose it to be their lifestyle though 😭

Longirl · 2021-01-19T18:59:42+00:00

Haha, I was only telling my mum earlier that I cringe when I think of my ex. She said she always wondered what I saw in him. It was because he didn’t shout at me and scare me like my LT ex. That’s literally it. My bar was in hell.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-01-19T18:59:42+00:00

At least we're all in this together ladies.

fibonacci_veritas · 2021-01-19T19:16:22+00:00

Huh. I just realized I have the same reaction to my exes that I do to my time undiagnosed with bipolar disorder.

threedotlove · 2021-01-19T17:31:30+00:00

Ugh yes.

Smolfrend · 2021-01-19T19:49:29+00:00

Hello officer. Yes, I'm in this post and I don't like it.

itschronic_ · 2021-01-19T18:24:06+00:00

It’s been two years and I still cringe like this. Does it go away?😂

estu0 · 2021-01-19T19:39:15+00:00

It’s been almost 2 years and I still cringe

GettingOffTheCrazy · 2021-01-19T20:17:28+00:00

I still cringe at how I allowed myself to be treated in my marriage. So so so cringey!

sashimi_girl · 2021-01-19T18:18:58+00:00

I feel very called out, but at least this song is a bop

CloacaDiddler · 2021-01-19T18:59:53+00:00

Oof, this one definitely stings

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2021-01-19T19:15:05+00:00

I hate surprise cringes!

weekend111 · 2021-01-19T18:52:10+00:00

Sometimes I cringe so much I just have to stop whatever I’m doing because everything is triggering me 😖😖😖

clairemaffeis · 2021-01-19T18:15:38+00:00

Thank god for growth. Thank god.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-01-19T18:58:30+00:00

Aw shoot. That hit HARD

denise373737 · 2021-01-19T19:32:40+00:00

Omggggg.... Sooo on point

IBicedT · 2021-01-19T18:12:09+00:00

He wasn't unemployed though!! 😂😂😂 Yeah, this is some funny shit.

funky_worms · 2021-01-19T18:27:22+00:00

reflecting on those times feels like god putting you in a chokehold 😫 all it means is that we’ve grown though

virgoran · 2021-01-19T22:35:02+00:00

I ended up scrolling through this entire womans Tik Tok and oh my god. It's eye opening. Amazing. Real FDS shit. I recommend the rest of you do the same.

stg21987 · 2021-01-19T18:28:20+00:00

I cringe and have internal dialogue with myself about this daily. Learn from your mistakes and don’t fall for it again!

guavagoodness · 2021-01-19T18:44:57+00:00

OMG!!! This is me - even the little flinch. Hahahaha I can’t escape it! God I am so grateful for this deliverance 😭

danibug · 2021-01-19T17:57:28+00:00

This is the most relatable thing Ive ever seen.

AverageToHot · 2021-01-19T21:03:00+00:00

I am in this video and I do not like it

siennapeaches · 2021-01-19T21:17:39+00:00

That's the type of cringe that'll keep you up at night 😭

miadoing69 · 2021-01-19T17:58:36+00:00

Oh God I'm gonna have nightmares tonight 😆

Little_Illustrator · 2021-01-19T18:33:38+00:00

What is a gamer boy? Is it like a bum? Or just a guy thatblikes video games?

viell · 2021-01-19T18:46:29+00:00

couldn't rely more. i even had moments when i said omg out loud.

Pahapan · 2021-01-20T01:33:07+00:00

I was going above and beyond doing wifey shit for someone who was abusing me. 🤢

artemis-code · 2021-01-19T20:38:45+00:00

This has been me these past couple weeks 🤦🏻‍♀️

RedPlanit · 2021-01-20T00:29:49+00:00

Fuccckkkkk you hit the nail on the head with this one. My ex wasn't unemployed but everything else is applicable.

Few_Direction · 2021-01-20T01:28:43+00:00

omgg😂 what’s her tiktok?? her usernames all blurry (at least on my phone lol)

grrl_in_nyc · 2021-01-20T01:30:53+00:00

This is so true, and it devastates me to think of how much time I wasted on these relationships. I would love to learn more about how people have used therapy as a way to understand ways to change.

Stitchemup15 · 2021-01-20T04:40:07+00:00

I. Still. Work. With. Him. Lmao. I'm. The. Reason. He. Has. The. Job. Lmao. And. His. Brother. Lmao.

spicyspa · 2021-01-20T05:05:14+00:00

Looking back at my last short relationship I realized there was nothing but cringe in it.

stormyeyed94 · 2021-01-20T05:51:31+00:00

Omg this is exactly me. Like spot on, the whole thing. Holy shit. I wasted too much time and money on a piece of shit.

onceuponasea · 2021-01-20T03:36:07+00:00

LOL yeppp

Title	At least we realized our mistake... 😅
Author	WildTenderness
Upvotes	4187
Comments	83
Date	January 19, 2021 4:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/l0noth/at_least_we_realized_our_mistake/
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