The increasing number of men such as him scare me

sassyheather · 2021-04-16T11:09:24+00:00

At least she got it in the end.

Her bf is clearly showing rapist mindset. Scary af.

volcanic_equation · 2021-04-16T11:57:17+00:00

The silver lining with this one? She actually came to her senses.

I see way to many posts like this where the victim is so far down the gaslight hole, they don’t even know what year it is anymore.

purasangria · 2021-04-16T13:27:41+00:00

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AnniaT · 2021-04-16T11:38:23+00:00

The vomit inducing rapey shit not withstanding, you see how they split chores "great"?

She's part time studying and part time working.

He's full time "also busy", so she does more of the "cooking and cleaning"... 🤡

spicyspa · 2021-04-16T12:23:39+00:00

"I will get my stuff tomorrow while he's out." Relief.

Orcrista · 2021-04-16T11:42:42+00:00

Lol! I like the "ETA". Sometimes we just need to hear ourselves (and others) to get a fecking clue.

quarterlyavocado · 2021-04-16T15:11:22+00:00

The "nah, sis" list:

She was only 15 when she began dating an 18-year-old man (using their current ages minus 2.5 years of dating)
They live together before engagement or marriage
- Using this fact coupled with the age people traditionally go off to school,the evidence points to her choosing a college/university based on where her boyfriend was already enrolled, NOT on her best opportunity
- He's the one in the wrong, and yet she's the one saddled with the responsibility of moving out and securing a new place to live (while also dealing with a job AND school)
Somehow halftime work + halftime school is less busy than full-time school?
- She's doing more than her share of the chores with what should be equal free time
"He can sometimes be a bit selfish" and yet she "genuinely didn't see this coming"

AnniaT · 2021-04-16T12:08:33+00:00

"Slight pet peeve" / "no big deal" ?? I hope she comes through with leaving him for real because he's already being abusive and not giving a shit about her and it will only get worse! It's scary.

Platipus6 · 2021-04-16T12:31:22+00:00

That's some red pill rhetoric right there.

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-04-16T11:53:51+00:00

Oh, sis. He wants to r~pe you. I hope she never goes back to him.

randomgirlimok · 2021-04-16T14:07:30+00:00

He wants to stick it in dry because he’s a porn addict who death gripped his dick too much

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-04-16T14:34:25+00:00

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Feral_Housewife_ · 2021-04-16T16:46:12+00:00

My ex husband would literally go soft if I was enjoying myself. He would complain if I got "too wet". I had such a fucking complex about it by the end of that relationship. Turns out he was broken and fucked up, not me, obviously. My vagina is fine, he just deathgripped his dick into ED.

islandmaiden · 2021-04-16T14:14:26+00:00

He hates her. Most likely he got that from redpill or something related. I've seen those arguments before asking why women need to orgasm; he definitely read those somewhere.

K0rla · 2021-04-16T11:50:49+00:00

He doesn’t like it “tight” (not how vaginas work anyway), he likes to inflict pain. Plain and simple. What a piece of shit.

stinkyandlulu · 2021-04-16T14:05:03+00:00

When I was 22, I had a boyfriend whose dick was... well, huge. Leading up to sex, I would be panicking. If I wasnt aroused enough, it was going to be painful the whole time (because for YEARS of my life, I "knew" I could stop sex whenever, for whatever reason... but I didn't actually know it, and NEVER retracted my consent once we started... In fact, if I wasn't 100% sure I was going to see that dick to orgasm, I wouldn't even touch it...). Anyway, on the rare occasion that he went down on me long enough for me to relax/I had drank enough gin/I had read Outander earlier in the day, and I was wet enough and relaxed enough to accommodate him.... he would say it doesn't feel as good for him....

And it still took me another decade to find LDS...

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-04-16T13:22:49+00:00

Thanks god she's leaving this POS.

Brautsen · 2021-04-16T12:47:21+00:00

A “slight pet peeve”? Sis.

AJLake80 · 2021-04-16T15:38:07+00:00

That is the biggest fucking dealbreaker. The dealbreaker to end all. How is it a question!?

Only_Lime2520 · 2021-04-16T17:02:05+00:00

Besides the obviously terrible that OP pointed out, I just wanna say:
Moving in to live with bf whilst in the middle of (your and especially both's) study is dangerous to your learning in my experience. I lived with my ex beginning sophomore year, I was constantly nagged and jabbed at for the things I learned as I was trying to learn & absorb them. He would pose stupid questions like "why people need that kind of knowledge for?" and it discouraged me so much. Looooong after the breakup, despite my love for study and reading, I am still sometimes nervous and anxious when picking up a book or a new field of study because of his voice in my head.

In the middle of it, I also ended up summarizing textbooks for him (because he didn't enjoy reading and I thought--yea maybe some people are not a bookworm like me!!) which was a total waste of time.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-04-16T14:49:19+00:00

So glad she left him. The audacity he had to say that to her -_-

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-04-16T11:24:50+00:00

I have to say I have a hard time believing this is real

...because I don't want it to be real. This dude HAD to have shown his true colors before this. There's no way someone that foul didn't let their mask slip before this.

gingerwabisabi · 2021-04-16T17:31:07+00:00

This sort of thing makes my head want to explode. It's the same exact mindset behind female genital mutilation and I CANNOT BELIEVE it exists, it is soooo evil.

iacint · 2021-04-16T12:57:39+00:00

-5 nvm here. I can’t even make myself read this.

MadameDestruction · 2021-04-16T17:34:41+00:00

Is it really an increasing number? That's indeed scary... I thought these type of men were supposed to go extinct when we got to the 21st century :(

adalovelace1793--- · 2021-04-17T04:22:28+00:00

Run away from LVM who even dare to suggest that you are too wet down there... these assholes probably get off to disgusting sounds of woman in pain, not in lust.

randomgirl34861 · 2021-04-17T14:23:35+00:00

I thought there was research that said the female orgasm was a response the body developed to train the pelvic floor muscles? And it’s important to do so because they don’t really get activated through any daily activities yet they’re the main muscles needed to push out a baby. Before we had medical interventions, if a woman’s pelvic floor muscles were too underused and weak that she couldn’t push her baby out, there was a good chance they’d both die. Women who are comfortable activating their pelvic floor and do so regularly are more likely to have a safe birth. So I can’t understand how anyone would say that a woman’s orgasm is not relevant for reproduction.

Professional-Pea-317 · 2021-04-17T02:35:58+00:00

I wouldn't call that a pet peeve..........

WornTheTshirt73 · 2021-04-17T06:18:54+00:00

Oh sister that’s a very big deal !

Ok_Neighborhood_6971 · 2021-04-17T20:08:49+00:00

I hope someone directed this young woman to FDS because lawd. . .

ConnectBlueberry9276 · 2021-04-28T16:36:49+00:00

Those guys need sex dolls not humans. Period RUN!!!

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