"I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀

sruslywhytho · 2021-09-30T16:15:12+00:00

Dude made pornographic deep fakes of her mother to fap to and she's unsure what to do about it?! I really hope this is fake.

Also, peep that BEFORE she married him there were issues. The only reason they got married is because she was uNdErStAnDiNg.

HVW are not understanding of men who show up with low-value behaviors. They maintain their value by removing themselves from the situation. Staying in the struggles of a mans inability to be decent only lowers your own worth.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-09-30T14:08:49+00:00

“We’ve been together through all his bad times…I stuck with him through car wrecks, DUIs, arrests, angry drunk arguments over nothing, and this is what I get.”

Well, yup. Not to be too harsh on this poor women, who is surely suffering enough already (I need eye bleach just reading her account of his insanity) but this is exactly what you get if you stay with someone who mistreats you despite all red flags. You get someone who will continue to mistreat you, and be a horrible partner.

Girl, leave him, yesterday.

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-09-30T14:13:01+00:00

You just know that all Reddit scrotes will focus on here is the fact that she looked at his phone, not the fact that he wants to fuck his wifes mother and has edited porn to look like her.

denimbastard · 2021-09-30T17:59:35+00:00

He's an alcoholic...HE has sex whenever HE wants...HE MADE DEEPFAKE PORN OF HER MUM. Stop the fucking bus.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-09-30T17:50:56+00:00

She is so manipulated by pickme-ism that she cannot even show her own mother enough respect and love and leave this dude.

aquietsword · 2021-09-30T18:47:34+00:00

Can we bring back gossip? The whole community should know how disgusting this man is. He should feel like a scrote when he walks outside because he is a scrote.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-09-30T14:30:52+00:00

It's per se. Sorry I can't get let it go. Um, cheating isn't really the issue. He's a creep who took the time and effort to edit HER MOM'S HEAD onto other women's bodies.

repurposedschleem · 2021-09-30T17:59:44+00:00

Even in my worst pickme stage this wouldn’t have flown. I’m so sad and angry at what society is doing to women, trying to convince us that this is acceptable and that in some ways we deserve it. “This is what I get”

I’m horrified that men like this exist. Why do they hate us so much?

Ericaeatscarrots · 2021-09-30T14:49:16+00:00

“I don’t know what to do about this”

Yes you do. We all do.

Zurflu · 2021-09-30T16:33:32+00:00

Has she tried not being so insecure and trusting her partner? 😇

/s

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-09-30T15:41:13+00:00

"he already cheated on me repeatedly in the past but I trust him!"

Why?

avocadobarbie · 2021-09-30T15:21:11+00:00

I stayed with a piece of shit and now he’s continuing to be one I don’t understand!! How do I fix this?

Feral_Housewife_ · 2021-09-30T18:08:34+00:00

If I didn't know better I'd guess this was my brother's wife. Except it's her sister, not her mom, whose face he photoshops onto BDSM porn.

Ok-Appearance5982 · 2021-09-30T15:41:01+00:00

Never give anyone an opportunity to destroy you. Leaving at the first sign of disrespect is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.

shelballama · 2021-09-30T15:58:40+00:00

You guys WhAt SHoUlD ShE DO

So hard to decide whether or not she should be in a relationship with a loser alcoholic who is sex obsessed with her mother

What a conundrum

Man, the state of women today where any of this could ever be considered a "bump in the road"

DON'T TRY TO FIX MEN

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-09-30T22:06:00+00:00

This is what you get from generations of women getting married too young. Brainwashed, self harming serfs. She’s been so gaslit from youth that she can’t even see what the appropriate action is.

mothboon · 2021-09-30T22:38:12+00:00

This drives me nuts

I have 2 best friends that live far away and I have to hear about the horrifying shit their husbands do.

Both of these husband's are perverts, and one of them was arrested for voyeurism BEFORE my friend married him. To this day he's not allowed to own photography equipment and other such things. I hate his stupid elf face and knowing what he did to all those women and girls and that my friend actually stuck by him... Still to this day.

The other husband of my other friend left her recently to try and have sex with college girls and do whatever he wants because he's the son of one of the wealthiest families in Canada. He did terrible things( molested her constantly when she didn't want to be intimate) to my friend and she spent over 2 years crying every day about this piece of shit and she's one of the most innocent and pure human beings on the planet.

I could vent for hours about these horrible guys and I hate hearing about other women sticking by their horrible men as well.

They ALL deserve better!!! So so so so much better and I hope one day all women understand that they don't need to stick by somebody who does terrible things!! 💔

InayahDaneen · 2021-09-30T19:48:57+00:00

I have this issue with lvm’s I attract, they end up drooling over my mother. I have yet to meet a guy who hasn’t attempted to also hit on my mom.

spacebound232 · 2021-09-30T20:10:34+00:00

Oh fuck no

LadyGrimes · 2021-09-30T20:10:03+00:00

JFC I have no words.

shedipity · 2021-09-30T23:32:15+00:00

That’s freaking creepy and weird not to mention illegal… some women have ZERO standards at all

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-30T14:51:42+00:00

I stopped reading when i saw “this is what i get” i mean we’ll been there, me too in an ex lvm but yes you shouldn’t push harder when someone is an asshole and isn’t treating you well. If you feel embarrassed just leave him

ironglaciers · 2021-10-01T00:11:28+00:00

Good fucking god. Get a divorce and free yourself, sis. This is embarrassing.

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2021-10-01T01:10:05+00:00

What an actual clown show this dude is

windowseat4life · 2021-10-01T02:22:00+00:00

He's an alcoholic, has done some sort of cheating in the past & is doing cheating behavior again, he has a sexual infatuation with her mom, she thinks he'll gaslight her when she finally confronts him about it which tells me he's gaslighted her before, & he's not bothered that she has been giving him the silent treatment for a few days.

Fuck focusing on school. Get a divorce attorney ASAP.

Jandi18 · 2021-09-30T16:00:50+00:00

Should have left at Alcoholic plus truck driver. That’s a just a hazard really! He could kill people! Then he got a DUI. Now he is photoshopping his mother in law to his porn? 🤮. This poor woman should have left at porn consumption too. There are so many red flags I don’t even know where to start! Oh he also cheated on her previously! I want to shake her and ask her why she doesn’t love herself.

hunnyjo · 2021-09-30T16:27:25+00:00

Welcome to your co-dependent relationship. That's a hard train to get off.

ohthatmakesense · 2021-09-30T16:36:31+00:00

My God these posts!! I just started recently perusing some of the relationship subs and I am shocked at the level of crazy shit some women are okay with dealing with. I mean, don’t be mistaken I had some cringe moments in my pickme days but wow!!!

angel_qirl · 2021-10-01T05:40:08+00:00

so.. he really sat up and took the time to crop her mothers photos, paste them on porn stars and tiktokers… and you STILL with him?

kerean1997 · 2021-10-01T07:59:16+00:00

Oh so not only is he a creepo that edits her moms face onto porn stars and thrist trap tik toks, but he's also an alcoholic abuser.

This woman cannot be more blinded. Like please, she admitted he'd try to gaslight her, and she's still with him!

Dear woman leave! No financial security makes this okay!

underatlantic · 2021-09-30T13:40:24+00:00

And she mentions that he's cheated on her before when they were dating. This is almost laughable it's so bad. Are strangers on the internet supposed to tell you that it's normal that your husband is creating and jerking off to porn of your mom???

Coco_spacecat · 2021-09-30T13:52:35+00:00

What a disgusting human being. He’s so porn sick he downloaded an app to photoshop her mother’s face onto pictures AND videos? I’d be so disgusted by him, I don’t even know how she can stay with him. I guess the sunken cost of staying with an addict seems like too much now.

natitalia · 2021-09-30T14:22:49+00:00

“he can have sex whenever he wants and that’s important to him”

so you’re his bangmaid, but apparently he needs your mom as well.

Patsy_Stone_darling · 2021-09-30T14:49:05+00:00

How tf are you still allowed to be a truck driver after what sounds like multiple wrecks and DUIs???

How tf is being a truck driver an excuse to be an alcoholic???

I stg mens brains are broken.

raisedupoffof · 2021-09-30T15:33:15+00:00

Uhm, I think I’m just going to tell myself this isn’t real, it’s too gross.

KaleidoscopeEyes12 · 2021-09-30T20:09:16+00:00

“I’m not sure how to bring it up or what to even say”

What else is there to say other than “Get tf out of my house, we’re getting a divorce”

LadyM2 · 2021-09-30T20:24:03+00:00

She stayed with an alcoholic man with DUI history. Why am I not surprised how things turned out. Never stay with an addict. They have no self-discipline.

miss_mewithit · 2021-09-30T20:32:26+00:00

>late 20's male

>he passed out drunk and I found my mom's face photoshopped on a whole bunch of porn vids

>he's an alcoholic

Why is it ALWAYS the porn addiction + substance abuse combo?

Has this become the norm for men?

redvelvetpudding · 2021-10-01T03:08:58+00:00

I can’t even go to the second slide because I was too busy processing the first. Girl-run, what are you doing haha he is clearly sick.

barbie_1234 · 2021-10-01T05:17:00+00:00

I was a doormat to my ex husband and guess what, he would scream more and more at me anytime I didn’t do what he wanted… it only gets worst ladies! Don’t be a doormat…

pdqbpdqb · 2021-10-01T06:09:08+00:00

Jesus christ, that is extremely disgusting.

modernmedusaa · 2021-10-01T15:04:12+00:00

These vile porn sick scrotes get off on anything taboo, anyway they can degrade women

They absolutely would go there given the chance

For those who have strained relationships with female family members- do not tell these scrotes about it

Because they enjoy spiting women & highly some pick mes would have a motive

Title	"I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀
Author	tobitchabout
Upvotes	577
Comments	72
Date	September 30, 2021 1:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pyjy01/i_know_its_not_actually_cheating_per_say_uum/
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