Pre-FDS it took me time to realize why it pissed me off so much when men attempting to court me would just shrug and say "we can do whatever." Now I know it's one of the easiest ways to spot a lazy and disrespectful LVM. First impressions matter the most and he is already showing you how little effort he's willing to put towards the singular, simple goal of taking someone out. He can't even handle that, and additionally he is already diverting the labor of decision-making onto you when he is the one attempting to court you. Not only does he likely expect you to labor over makeup, hair, shaving, etc. he also needs you to plan the date he asked you out on. Make it make sense. This is a lost cause, he's an energy vampire.

Match that zero effort mood and just block/ghost. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt or let him call himself 'low-maintenance' or 'spontaneous.' I promise, he's just lazy sis. If he wanted to, he would. These men are weak conversationalists, selfish in bed, and disrespectful as romantic partners. They will NOT enrich your life.

Edit: this post garnered me a RedditCares message 🤣 mmmm scrote tears