When the most basic requirement is exhausting.

ScrotonimoStilton · 2021-06-03T11:22:18+00:00

Context:

Op is a newly successful tattoo artist and her boyfriend never shares nor likes her drawings and tattoos on instagram, yet happily comments and interacts with problematic pickme female friend.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-06-03T12:05:23+00:00

exhausting? Dude probably spends 99% of his free time sitting on his phone scrolling, clicking, liking, commenting, gaming etc.. and all of a sudden its exhausting?

europoor24 · 2021-06-03T11:29:23+00:00

oh I moved my fingers to like instagram posts - phew what a workout.

betsybasset · 2021-06-03T10:57:25+00:00

kind to women?! That's SIMPING!! 🤬🤬

ThrowRA_lantern · 2021-06-03T10:54:24+00:00

"Genuinely loving someone?!?! That sounds exhausting!! There is NO WAY I could possibly do that!! All these women ask so much of men. Such high standards. As if I would give a woman BASIC LEVELS OF LOVE. That's so insulting!"

Ugh!! This dude doesn't deserve a girlfriend.

sleepysiri · 2021-06-03T11:08:40+00:00

As a WLW, it not only takes zero effort or energy, but brings me joy to have told any women I was with about her beauty, or whatever other brilliant quality she had, as well as spoiling her.

If he wants to, he will.

ucompost · 2021-06-03T12:08:22+00:00

Wow texting someone you’re beautiful everyday is a chore to them?!

Reminds me of my fiancé’s old friend who asked him why he called me every night when he was away at a convention. Literally said “do you have to call her every night?” The dudes GF (at the time) said to my fiancé “ignore him he doesn’t know how to be a good boyfriend” like dude your GF (she’s now his wife...) literally burned you to your face but you’re insisting my fiancé is the one doing something exhausting?

Oh and I DO get a text every morning “good morning beautiful”

Edit: I lied it’s a variety of “good meaning beautiful” “good morning gorgeous” “how did you sleep my love?” He ALWAYS asks how I sleep. And just asked nope he doesn’t have a reminder set to do this.

Any man that gets mad that another man showers his fiancé with love is a man that doesn’t do the same. Who gets mad at someone for showing affection?? Miserable crabs that’s who.

poppinkitty · 2021-06-03T12:37:36+00:00

My sister's boyfriend tells her daily how much he loves her, and sends her pages of compliments whenever she sends him a selfie..he just can not stop complimenting her. He tells her daily that she's the most beautiful girl in this planet. And he is only 23 ,works two jobs and is an athlete so he barely has any free time but still manages to make time for her...and these guys complaing about one text 🙄

starfighter07 · 2021-06-03T10:30:08+00:00

Do you have a daily reminder to tell her "you're beautiful" ?

If you need a reminder for that, then reconsider you capacity to be a boyfriend.

restlessGal · 2021-06-03T11:25:46+00:00

Damn that guy sounds sad as fuck

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-06-03T12:31:22+00:00

Scrotes: it’s not fair that i don’t have a girlfriend! Why don’t i have one?!

Also scrotes: clicking a few buttons every day for the sake of my girlfriend is too exhausting. I would never do that, and make fun of men who do.

GoldandGlowing · 2021-06-03T14:38:29+00:00

Then they think daily blowjobs aren’t unrealistic

Minute_Sign · 2021-06-03T11:32:06+00:00

Oh no it’s so difficult to show even an ounce of affection to the person I supposedly love! Of course I fully expect them to cater to my every want and need!

VividPsychology7 · 2021-06-03T13:19:59+00:00

Not long after we broke up my ex told all his friends I was “too keen” because I wanted to see him at least once a week (bearing in mind we were living in the same block at uni!) and because I wanted him to text me more than once a week. So yes, it seemed the basic requirement was too much for him 🙄

spinsterchachkies · 2021-06-03T16:13:26+00:00

Apply this to anything

“I brush my dog and give him a treat every morning.”

“That sounds exhausting. At that point it stops being genuine and starts being a chore. Do you have a daily reminder to tell him he’s a good boy too?”

Fucking idiot

AyemHerself · 2021-06-03T14:57:11+00:00

Yet I'm sure this dude's daily porn habit isn't exhausting.

IgetUsernameScraps · 2021-06-03T16:15:23+00:00

LVM: Liking ALL my gf’s pics is exhausting.

Proceeds to hit Like on 5 million pics from instahoes.

t3ddi · 2021-06-03T13:00:49+00:00

How glib and totally revealing that he has a personality disorder/a narc wearing human skin.

thepastamancer · 2021-06-03T14:57:50+00:00

My boyfriend tells me how beautiful I am multiple times a day every single day and seems very happy to do so.

sunflowerpaint · 2021-06-03T13:11:48+00:00

bruh he really be out here telling on himself like this

Clueless-Crab · 2021-06-03T17:07:31+00:00

I am the OP (the tattooer). Thanks everyone for your kind words. I’m glad to know I’m Not asking for too much here by wanting this support from my partner. Social media might seem trivial for a lot of people but it’s a huge part Of business especially in a competitive field like tattooing.

ItsFreezen · 2021-06-03T12:22:06+00:00

Same Scrote who expects her to be in connect with him daily. Whether she likes too or not.

motioncaptureF · 2021-06-03T11:28:53+00:00

Ugh ! I hate these mfs ! When my ex came to get back again I told him about reassurance and shit .. He said .. something like this only.. like I don't wanna feel burdened ..like oh Ok today I reassured I loved her done ... Next chore is .. telling her I'm never gonna leave then asking about meals .. I said bye

I was devastated bcoz it's not 'exhausting' if u actually care ! It's not that hard .. I mean c'mon .. FUCK YOU A***N !!!!!!!!!!

Gouda8995 · 2021-06-03T15:28:26+00:00

"EYE CONTACT WHEN YOU PULL INTO MY DRIVEWAY AFTER A 15 MINUTE DRIVE??!! waaaaaaaaah You've become so demanding and don't even want to fuck me anymore because you're just gonna cry afterwards!!"

divination__ · 2021-06-03T16:14:01+00:00

I literally do this for all of my friends and it requires zero effort at all? These men resent their girlfriends when they express any wants whatsoever, no matter how small.

suckmypussy143 · 2021-06-03T16:25:18+00:00

Boy all you have to do is double tap or thumbs up 💀this is just getting pathetic now

BabaAuRhumOhlala · 2021-06-03T20:36:56+00:00

I like all pics of my friends and I call them beautiful and compliment them daily. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

What kind of unbelievably exhausting tasks does he do daily for him to consider that to be a chore?

CynicalSucculent · 2021-06-03T19:51:04+00:00

It's exhausting to press a button on a screen?! How lazy can one be?

haunted_vcr · 2021-06-03T21:41:03+00:00

Bet he's got zero problems liking scantily clothed photos of randos.

Colour_riot · 2021-06-03T16:50:59+00:00

Not surprising that they don't get very far in life

pretty-little-fears · 2021-06-03T13:58:20+00:00

Taking one second to double tap your phone screen is too much work?! How embarrassing for your life and your soul.

spilled___milk · 2021-06-03T14:15:48+00:00

Probably has plenty of time and energy to like a bunch of Insta models' pics, though. Funny how that works.

gjorde_jag_det · 2021-06-03T12:23:08+00:00

mAyBe hE iS dEprEssEd 🤡

spiralingchaos · 2021-06-03T17:13:47+00:00

Next he'll call that guy a simp for being supportive to his gf

Personal-Yesterday21 · 2021-06-03T19:24:18+00:00

Hope the girlfriend finds a better guy

_queeeen_ · 2021-06-03T20:19:00+00:00

And he wonders why he’s undatable 😂

Gourmay · 2021-06-04T00:25:04+00:00

I give words of affirmation to my partner ALL THE TIME and he does too, because we're on the same team and the world can be a hard demoralizing place; we all need motivation daily. If you're on social media you've probably scrolled once during the day so it takes one second of absent-minded scrolling to like. If being loving is a chore for him, perhaps he should try being single.

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