Comically cruel

Stephen_Morgan · 2022-01-11T18:36:36+00:00

The last tweet is enlightening. She doesn't want someone emotional, but she wants someone who can deal with her being hysterical.

Odd-Box-3578 · 2022-01-11T19:32:33+00:00

“Seeing a man cry does turn me off” Are you supposed to be aroused when someone cries?

ALiteralSentientTank · 2022-01-11T18:51:15+00:00

It's ok for men to cry.

Now let me explain when it's ok and not ok for men to cry.

dummyheadweeb · 2022-01-12T01:24:33+00:00

"Why do men never reveal their feelings?"

Altkog · 2022-01-11T18:34:47+00:00

She got ratio'd at least, I suppose. Still makes a relationship seem not worth it.

ThePiachu · 2022-01-11T22:50:28+00:00

"women are biologically wired to cry more than men" - imagine a guy saying that, how some people would get indignant at the statement...

Interesting-Eye-5464 · 2022-01-11T19:59:18+00:00

Conclusion: Men, do what is right for you, and don’t do it to please women. You’ll never win if you do.

No_Fap_is_My_Life · 2022-01-11T19:26:22+00:00

Ahhh bruhhhh as soon as you include "biology" in your tweets, the moment you destroy your very own movement

Feminism is growing out of traditional system right ? Then why only women are entitled to it, but a crying man is still seen as weak ? Isn't that pushing traditional and so called "Patriarchy" by the Feminists themselves ?

That's what they do, they take equal rights and opportunities only which favours Women, not vice versa... They don't want equal responsibilities either... But be so called "empowered queens" but still want a rock hard man

And then they don't even wanna see why the suicides rates of men are so much higher than women (76%)

vwatchrepair · 2022-01-11T19:37:26+00:00

Flip the sexes in all her posts and read it all over again. 🤔

auMatech · 2022-01-11T18:10:58+00:00

loss (financial, etc.)

Thanks for spelling it out I guess, whoever now plans to get involved with her has black and white proof of what they're getting themselves into

bottleblank · 2022-01-11T19:18:52+00:00

Here's an insider secret, consider it a freebie: women aren't exactly a trouser twitcher when they're crying either, but we don't make a prerequisite that women aren't allowed to show any emotion (except when we say so) before we go out with them.

Whatever happened to "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best", eh?

damn_montana · 2022-01-11T18:26:24+00:00

🤢

ayeet14 · 2022-01-11T18:42:25+00:00

what the fuck is wrong with her

Sniek207 · 2022-01-11T20:16:26+00:00

It is interesting, that she says there are evolutionary (biological) reasons for women to be appalled by men crying, and no social reasons, so she doesent have to change her own actions.

Yet everything they cry about such as "mansplaining" is only the consequence of socialisation and so that justifies blaming men for doing it.

Womens bad behavior = Biological, they dont have to change shit

Mens bad behavior = socially, they have to change

nice double standard

ABeeBox · 2022-01-11T18:50:26+00:00

You'll eat when I'll say you eat.

You'll shit when I'll say you shit.

And You'll cry when I'll say you cry.

You got that you maggot dick motherfucker?!

ZayFrames · 2022-01-12T01:21:28+00:00

It’d be really nice if modern women would tell us exactly what they wanted instead of beating around the bush and expecting us to read their minds.

OpinionatedDad · 2022-01-12T04:55:16+00:00

Let me be clear. If anyone is crying to much, it will be a turn AWAY not turn off for any human being. It's the exact same if you had ideals that do not match. If you are in a committed relationship you should be able to open up to a partner. However if you're in the early stages of a relationship there's nothing wrong with crying but just be aware that it might turn that partner away. Everyone has their own s*** to deal with they don't want to add more baggage.

So again to be clear it's not a turn off rather it's a turn away. No one gets aroused by people crying. And there's nothing wrong with crying. But a line needs to be drawn. It's okay to cry but there's always a time and place

shrickertt · 2022-01-11T19:44:49+00:00

the simple thing to do? don't open up to them AT ALL. even if it means being called “toxically masculine”. they just use your emotions against you, either by weaponizing sex or attraction. talk to your family, your friends, but always protect yourself from people like this.

the mandem always have other places to turn, unless you have no family or friends.

FucKtRump1974 · 2022-01-12T02:10:06+00:00

That is the most insensitive, just horrible thing, to make fun of someone even your boyfriend who's opening up about something traumatic, and making himself cry because he has no one else to talk to about it. Ma'am I'd hate to say this but you're fucked up individual

Extra-Strike2276 · 2022-01-11T22:16:03+00:00

At least she's being honest. To many say things like men should be emotional more, while they secretly look down on you for it. I think most women look down on emotional men and that's not anything that will change anything soon. I get more bothered by the push to make men more emotionally outspoken. While I'm plenty emotional, I also control what the world sees. It's the complete lie that men aren't emotional, that's the problem.

McFeely_Smackup · 2022-01-12T01:27:57+00:00

"Women are biologically wired to cry more than men"

ok, women are helpless slaves to their emotions. got it.

SandorYarpClegane · 2022-01-11T22:56:36+00:00

If I’m crying it’s because:

Massive pain
Death of a loved one
You’ve pissed me off and I’m trying to control myself and not severely hurt you.

xLifeIsNowx · 2022-01-12T01:52:11+00:00

That she has 2.9k RTs is what worries me the most.

gonnasaysomething · 2022-01-12T01:25:39+00:00

The man she's looking for won't be interested in her. Emotional compatibility needs more emphasis.

NwbieGD · 2022-01-11T22:11:20+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm a guy but I kinda agree with her that evolutionary women will be less attracted to crying(weaker) men.

Doesn't mean it's right but what I'm trying to say and point out is that women's brains are wired to be less attracted to males they perceive as weaker. Crying is generally linked to that, also evolutionarily.

What annoys me is that most people, women more so than men, can't and won't admit that.

However if you want equality then get the fuck over it and learn to control your impulses and instincts and make rational decisions instead of whatever you feel like at the moment. Even more so stop claiming nonsense things and that you don't want men to be this or that, pushy or whatever. Especially don't leave your partner should they cry at some point, because expect to be treated the way you treat others, that's what annoys me the most the inconsistency and hypocrisy.

LettuceBeGrateful · 2022-01-11T20:02:04+00:00

That last tweet is basically what the red pill group says about men vs. women and being emotional, right?

BannedAccountNumber5 · 2022-01-12T02:42:30+00:00

You know what, I can actually appreciate this.

I appreciate the honesty this lady is showing about herself. I would much rather live in a world where people tell us they don't want their partners to open up to them, then live in a world where people lie to our faces, and we find out the hard way.

It also save a lot of time when dating. You don't wanna deal with me when I'm crying? Thank you. Next!

Ozhubdownunder · 2022-01-11T21:33:41+00:00

She’s merely being honest and saying what men already know from experience. Showing vulnerable emotions is conditional and risky. We do not automatically get support or expect to be supported like women. We may find comfort or judgement. It is a little like Russian roulette when we show emotions.

Xx_undersc0relife_xX · 2022-01-11T22:55:52+00:00

Forget male emotions, we need to focus on what turns women on, that's clearly what's important here

ace-tronaut · 2022-01-12T06:08:23+00:00

This is why people should be taught the difference between being objective and opinionated. Person is speaking out their opinions as if they're the last authority on the matter...

CryingMadGirl · 2022-01-12T08:06:19+00:00

There is nothing more attractive to me than a man who can admit he cried. For real, once my male friend told me he had cried because of a sad story, damn it made love him even more

trgrngr · 2022-01-11T21:14:18+00:00

Just some piece of trash vomiting on account of her female privilege.

glodde · 2022-01-11T21:39:28+00:00

Toxic feminism

Fast_Box_8509 · 2022-01-11T21:54:23+00:00

Imagine being narcissistic enough to think it's your prerogative to police someone else's emotions?

RedditsHardestMan · 2022-01-11T23:12:01+00:00

It's ok to cry, but it's ok to be turned off as well 🤷 if she's a 5+ she's able to be picky, that's the game I'm afraid.

Wilddog73 · 2022-01-12T00:03:49+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, I don't know her history but I see no issue with these statements.

In the face of such things as high male suicides and misandry, it's easy to see how detached her statements appear, but without context I'm forced to assume this is just a woman on twitter pondering her romantic/sexual preferences and their possible connection to human evolution.

But given that we're in the age of men needing a spa-day after all the shit we've been through, she's basically a Wgtow.

TrilIias · 2022-01-12T00:05:24+00:00

I agree with her completely. It's really quite okay to not be attracted to men who cry too easily, and there is probably an evolutionary reason behind it. Now can we stop blaming men for not crying like women do and accusing them of toxic masculinity while pretending that women have no culpability for the current state of affairs?

TrilIias · 2022-01-11T19:44:05+00:00

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ImpeccableArchitect · 2022-01-11T21:46:41+00:00

Refreshing honesty combined with the old trope of women telling men how to be men. To be fair, womanists and meninists tend to the same flaw, telling the other how to be instead of asking. At least shes honest about it being about attraction rather than some made up bullshit like /patriarchy/ or /toxic masculinity/

Driftwood52 · 2022-01-11T23:52:33+00:00

All men cry but they do it alone and out of sight because they know most people will judge them for it.

bigedcactushead · 2022-01-12T03:42:07+00:00

You can criticize what she says but she is reporting something that many men are saying. Men crying in front of their girl will often times cause her to feel disgust. Nothing dries a vagina like a weak man.

MrSnrlub · 2022-01-12T02:19:24+00:00

She, is fucking insane. Like a fast talking squirrel on meth.

alclarkey · 2022-01-12T00:52:57+00:00

I'm sorry, but I kind of agree with her. And she's being pretty reasonable. Crying, or probably more accurately whining in front of women is and always will be an arousal killer.

LowkeyLoki44 · 2022-01-12T00:18:34+00:00

ok lets be fair, if i was even just hanging out with someone and they cried for something stupid or irrational like they lost a video game, that would weird me out

TryingToLearn_17382 · 2022-01-12T06:56:57+00:00

People have lost their fucking minds.

neovulcan · 2022-01-12T07:10:07+00:00

I don't get her acceptable times. Stress? Injury? Financial stress? None of those qualify.

I will, however, shed a tear for tragic loss. Hard to watch Gladiator without at least the urge to shed a tear. Hard to listen to Alyssa Lies without getting a bit emotional.

Oh no! My 401k! ¯\(ツ)/¯

boringcarpets · 2022-01-12T11:06:44+00:00

Do people think this mindset is rare or uncommon? It's pretty much the standard.

Don't think because some women say nice flowery things sometimes that it's true - hard pill to swallow for many here; but the idea to "cry more", that you'll be supported, or that you'll be regarded any better if you do is patently false. Borne from plenty of experience of men in this sub and out.

AdamChap · 2022-01-12T12:39:06+00:00

Yeah they like the biological arguments when it suits don't they...

Can't wait for a boyfriend of hers to think to himself "women are biologically speaking, far more prone to neuroticism... better just ignore her bullshit"

A true LVM will put up with an emotional wreck like this for a crumb of pussy, which is probably where she's been finding men who cry so much it turns her off. I cry at sad things, but I shed a tear I don't break down screeching. No women I have been with has been bothered by this, probably because they cry my orders of magnitude more.

She wants a level headed man, and I get that but there is no way a man shedding tears is somehow relevant to whether or not he can make decisions.

Finally, she thinks women are wired to cry more? She must surely see then that her crying is irrelevant, and a man comforting her is essentially a waste of time and yet another thing we are expected to do with absolutely nothing in return (they usually think 'access to their body' is enough... :/ )?

miranto · 2022-01-12T00:58:28+00:00

She's not wrong.

SandmanOrpheus · 2022-01-12T02:06:09+00:00

That last comment though tells me that she's obviously single. LoL

DavidByron2 · 2022-01-11T19:29:45+00:00

If anything she is under selling the limits. Funerals are maybe OK but injuries, stress and loss probably are not.

Moopa000 · 2022-01-12T03:36:13+00:00

Women are biologically wired to be physically inferior to men however i have never seen a man belittle a woman for going to the gym.

PM_ME_UR_SHITS_GIRL · 2022-01-12T07:39:47+00:00

I tend to agree with most of this. I see nothing wrong with traditional masculinity.

Machomuk89 · 2022-01-11T22:17:36+00:00

This here is why so many have just decided dating isn't worth the effort.

SandmanOrpheus · 2022-01-12T02:04:51+00:00

I would have to agree with her on most of this. I don't know about other guys, but having a woman that cried constantly, or bitched constantly is a turn off for me also. Like she said, a funeral or something like that, ok, but just crying over little things... toughen up buttercup. That applies to both sexes imho.

wolfoftheworld · 2022-01-12T03:13:54+00:00

This makes me stay away from romantic relationships that much more.

Distorted_Passion · 2022-01-12T05:39:56+00:00

Anyone who quotes " evolutionary reasons, biology, etc" is just using it as an excuse.

sushimcgoofy · 2022-01-12T06:02:58+00:00

And she sounds like the type to be surprised why she’s 30 and struggling to find a man

needalife94 · 2022-01-12T07:45:14+00:00

So I guess she just wants a man that only cries when she thinks it's okay ?? Atleast that's what I got out of it.

MisterTwo_O · 2022-01-12T08:59:08+00:00

She's expressing her views, and with nuance. It' not comically cruel, It's honest.

frustr8tion · 2022-01-12T12:44:35+00:00

All this is telling us is that she has no personal responsibility for her emotions

So assuming she does speak for all women; if she is turned off by you crying, she's not your girlfriend, she's a child. Don't bother with her.

his_purple_majesty · 2022-01-11T23:31:28+00:00

the fact that there even is a "pendulum" for men's expression of emotion and that a woman is weighing in with authority on it tells you all you need to know about how society really works

jnbolen403 · 2022-01-11T23:32:54+00:00

EV, perhaps you shouldn't post your every thought as some people don't know that you are a self-absorbed twat, but after reading a short sample of your posts this horrible personality trait will be glaringly obvious.

On a related note, do you have any friends? I'm not volunteering, just asking.

Does crying and laughing turn you on or off?

illnemesis · 2022-01-12T03:20:24+00:00

What a loser this woman is. My goodness.

lostcymbrogi · 2022-01-11T20:13:17+00:00

Sexual attractiveness is so subjective. Bashing her for her clear lack of logic is fairly useless. I'm not defending her position, but I do appreciate the innate honesty in it.

As a man I might say something like, "A woman with a twinkie fetish isn't attractive. I don't care how 'sexy' you eat your 82 twinkies a day, it just doesn't look great. It looks even worse when you add in the fact your are gaining about 5 pounds weekly and have gained over 50 pounds in the last year!"

Such a statement might be viewed as sexist by some. They might say that I only valued a woman for her physical attributes. There is nothing in that statement to indicate that I don't also value her other attributes, but it does indicate that her physical state may have some effect on her sexual attractiveness to me. It equally expresses concern for her health.

Pretending that men and women aren't sexuallly turned on or off by very specific, if subjective, things is to deny the reality of our humanity. I am happily married. Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world? Objectively perhaps not. She is quite beautiful, but she isn't a supermodel or anything. I have found things that turn her on and do them. She returns the favor. We have to live with the other sex. This means adapting to each others particular quirks.

Full_Midnight4749 · 2022-01-12T01:28:41+00:00

Sexist bitch

Abstract_Knight · 2022-01-11T22:05:57+00:00

"I wanna have a men that i can use as a sexual toy and that implies him being emotionless."

Luchadorgreen · 2022-01-12T03:15:45+00:00

She’s getting a lot of crap that she doesn’t deserve. She should be applauded for being honest. How many women out there claim to be accepting of an emotion from a man, but is internally repulsed? Think about how much less frustrating hetero relationships would be if they were honest about it, instead of leaving the man guessing why she’s lost respect or attraction to him.

conradfart · 2022-01-13T13:39:26+00:00

She sounds biologically hardwired to be an idiot.

TinCan_Assassin · 2022-01-12T13:38:22+00:00

Off is the direction in which she can fuck.

-Smith-Corona- · 2022-01-11T18:32:58+00:00

I dont disagree with her.

two88 · 2022-01-12T04:42:48+00:00

I honestly don't think this is that unreasonable. Y'all's really just taking someones opinion on Twitter way too seriously. She literally says this is her opinion and not instruction/rules.

Thats-bk · 2022-01-11T20:49:40+00:00

Garbage person

Drazer_Pride · 2022-01-12T00:51:14+00:00

Fuck that skank. You guys, cry as much as you want, you're humans and are made of emotions. Express them. This abomination deserves no relationship, but loneliness. Noone can forbid you to express your feelings. And also that skank is pretty egoistic to expect to be turned on by seeing a man expressing his sorrow or another emotion.

And Twitter is a joke. And woke agenda - a far more massive joke.

Onegodoneloveoneway · 2022-01-12T01:05:29+00:00

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3gm22 · 2022-01-11T20:18:39+00:00

Notice how all of these put the woman at the center of the universe, the one who decides when it is moral or ordered to cry?

This is actually secularism showing itself.

It pushes subjective reality, and ignores objective truth and objective reality. It creates narcissists who only love with conditions. It destroys true and unconditional love.

Most people dont know the differences. They have never loved another for the sake of the other.

Of course this doesnt just apply exclusively to women, but this moral system drives secularism (power over truth) and all the progressive ideologues that exist today.

To escape, become a man of God. Learn philosophy, learn truth, learn to spot ideology.

Devianad · 2022-01-11T20:44:59+00:00

I agree with one thing she states. Women are wired differently. That and when hysterical and all emotional we can and do make very bad decisions, decisions like claiming we were raped or have been abused. Men and women are different and no amount of equality shit will ever change biology.

Goldfox_4312 · 2022-01-12T03:43:04+00:00

“Biology proven” By who exactly. I’m equally open to show emotions as a woman is. We’re all people at the end of the day

Nk-O · 2022-01-12T10:21:27+00:00

"sOcIaL cOnDiTiOnInG wHiCh nEeDS tO bE dEcOnStRuCTeD"

Oh come on man... Just live your life, how about that?

Historical_Button445 · 2022-01-12T12:19:12+00:00

This is what a narcissist looks like. She’s dumber than a wet sock but I appreciate her honesty. Avoid her at all costs!

Starmind0 · 2022-01-12T12:35:42+00:00

Typical words of a sexist tradcon who wants people to believe their sexism: "Its biology!1!". No, women don't cry more because they're more emotional or wired to cry more, women cry more because they're allowed to. Nothing about this is biological.

ZeldaVelveeta · 2022-01-12T12:36:12+00:00

My dad cries and so does the man I live with. And they are the strongest men I know. This woman is stupid.

Bara-enthusiast · 2022-01-11T20:41:31+00:00

So she fetishizes his emotions

masterlock35 · 2022-01-11T22:42:15+00:00

These type of women really are trying to set women back 2 centuries

ILoveBigBoobsYesIDo · 2022-01-12T03:43:12+00:00

Holy fucking shit what a fucking entitled cunt that person is

fluidmoviestar · 2022-01-12T04:10:24+00:00

Toxic

nooneinteresting-1 · 2022-01-12T04:21:10+00:00

What a stupid bimbo

CyrexPlex · 2022-01-12T06:22:03+00:00

This is what we in the science world call a hypocritical and entitled cunt.

ThaneWestbrook · 2022-01-11T21:29:12+00:00

She's not being cruel, she's being factual. You're being a bitch.

Emet22 · 2022-01-12T01:42:21+00:00

Sounds reasonable to me

Fictionarious · 2022-01-12T02:36:12+00:00

Where's the 'cruelty', though? This is all true and reasonably expressed. Had to downvote for the stupid title.

Harry-Timbercrank · 2022-01-12T03:07:41+00:00

I don’t cry, but I do not tolerate women crying either. It’s manipulative, and it’s emotional blackmail.

LiquidDreamtime · 2022-01-11T21:24:24+00:00

Is the Bing-Bong Scene from Inside Out an acceptable cry scenario?

WitchCraft_Tea · 2022-01-11T23:04:56+00:00

women arent SuPpOsEd to cry more than men. thats a sterotype thats just plain rude to everyone

Inguzrdt · 2022-01-12T13:58:54+00:00

I mean I honestly think she's spot on here. I don't always like it but reality is sexist by modern standards and I also tell women about how men have better spatial reasoning (reverse parking, chess etc) and a lot of them don't like to hear it.

A woman's desire to have a strong man that she can lean on might seem selfish but ultimately it's about our role within the child rearing process.

n311y_ · 2022-01-11T22:36:40+00:00

She's no feminist. She's encouraging toxic societal beliefs that define masculinity. I hate this. Men & boys shouldn't be shamed for crying or showing emotion. This is why so many men have undiagnosed depression.

alexmijowastaken · 2022-01-12T09:22:41+00:00

I'm not sure what she said that was soo incredibly incorrect at least

therenousername · 2022-01-12T04:54:26+00:00

I had a girl say something like this and blame it on misogyny girls like this make me wish I was gay honestly

MurkyAd5303 · 2022-01-12T08:42:31+00:00

Look at the number of likes going down each tweet further

Post-Financial · 2022-01-12T09:48:33+00:00

"biologically wired to cry more than men" what? We had some relatives over and their max 12 month old baby boy cried constantly.

Its that men are tought to not cry

PolyAndPolygons · 2022-01-12T11:00:43+00:00

Once men stop putting pussy on a pedestal, women will lose their foothold on things. Even on a small level, not chasing women when they are around will make their head spin especially I’d they find you attractive

Meebmeew · 2022-01-12T11:20:54+00:00

Why and In what way are women biologically wired to cry more than men?

808picklejuice · 2022-01-12T13:25:06+00:00

Damn Evelyn I really couldn’t give a shit if I tried

2022-01-12T14:48:57+00:00

maximum Man are built better than women to deal with emotional stuffs.. It is not a big deal if you can't deal with emotional stuff; not everyone has tough mindsets.. In this case you can take help from a male therapist, as a man can understand a man better.. just don't open up to a woman.. women never surely know what they want.. As a man i am telling you, don't fall into this trap..

Diligent_Advice616 · 2022-01-12T15:11:45+00:00

She literally called herself a “hysterical female” I wouldn’t put much credence in what she says tbh. She needs the levelheadedness of a man next to her to make good decisions anyway so anything she says by her own admition isn’t worth listening too.

ACustomWarframe · 2022-01-12T16:06:44+00:00

She got ratio'd to shit tho. That good

ConchitOh · 2022-01-12T16:35:01+00:00

Shame for men is showing any sign of weakness for those that depend on us.

xcheshirecatxx · 2022-01-12T17:34:56+00:00

I'm a woman and I have the same standards for men crying than for myself of other women

Stop crying for stupid shit, women and men, you are not stone

Tolga1991 · 2022-01-12T18:20:08+00:00

You left out the most gynocentric one:

https://i.hizliresim.com/dqt19c6.jpg

Creative-Ad3650 · 2022-01-12T19:05:56+00:00

A channel named optimus made a video on this https://youtu.be/luvKAPkdKI4

Avikaeon · 2022-01-13T02:00:46+00:00

“I should be able to trust a male partners levelheaded ness in a joint decision when I am beside myself…” LMFAO, hell no. If you are “beside” yourself, there are no joint-decisions. I, alone, will be making the decisions. You’ve already pointed out the reason why, sweetheart.

Parzival_007 · 2022-01-13T10:08:13+00:00

Idk why do we have to care about her opinion, she is literally a stranger.

Tidderlcuf22 · 2022-01-13T17:20:31+00:00

Reddit can't keep me banned...fuck y'all

r2o_abile · 2022-01-15T13:00:44+00:00

REPORT THE TWEET/ACCOUNT.

Title	Comically cruel
Author	nikola_mihaylov
Upvotes	966
Comments	244
Date	January 11, 2022 5:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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