Girl attacks boy. Boy defends himself. Boy is ridiculed on Social Media for putting hands on a girl.

AccidentallyBorn · 2016-10-20T07:48:58+00:00

As mentioned by /u/rexpogo:

Apparently "the police were already involved and they looked at everything and told the boy he was clear. Infact they even asked if he wanted to press charges on the girl."

This is the real story here. The cops didn't discriminate against the guy, and actually upheld the law despite the genders being reversed. This is a win for equality and men's rights!

Of course that part won't be reported in the media, just like the first 20s of the video where she kicks him in the gut (looks like she was going for his nuts) and hits him multiple times.

HeForeverBleeds · 2016-10-20T00:44:00+00:00

While the video is upsetting and difficult to watch...

The only thing upsetting about this video is all the white knights jumping in and all the "dude, you can't do that! What's wrong with you?" only after he tackles her, but they're all standing back watching, perfectly chill when she was attacking him

Fuck that shit, she got what was coming to her. If you can't take it, don't dish it out

-_-I-_-I-_- · 2016-10-19T23:49:05+00:00

I wholeheartedly approve of anyone defending themselves against unlawful aggression.

rexpogo · 2016-10-20T05:32:51+00:00

I think the guy near the end of the video said it best:

It' just so hard to make a call like that. It's just so ugly.

It was a snap second decision, all with adrenaline and an angry fucking woman coming at him. It's impossible to make a call there that would end up with everyone happy.
In addition, if you took out the gender roles from this completely, it would just be another fight.
Edit: Apparently "the police were already involved and they looked at everything and told the boy he was clear. Infact they even asked if he wanted to press charges on the girl."

ThatZenoGoddess · 2016-10-20T04:45:41+00:00

edited by /u/spez

oshmkufa2010 · 2016-10-19T23:43:52+00:00

That technique though...

Aaaand of course he's the villain, because reasons. If you attack someone, expect to face resistance. And if you can't handle the heat, get out of the goddamn kitchen. That bitch got what she deserved. He's the bad guy, yeah right. Because 3 against one is so fucking unfair for the women, how did he even dare. Fucking cowards. Abusing their power, because they know damn well that THEY are not going to be held responsible AND outnumbering him. And even though he seems fairly skinny, he would have crushed them, had they really pissed him off and made him completely lose his temper. It's his inhibitions that gave them the huge advantage. A guy wouldn't have gotten of so cheaply. Personally I would have prefered if he had done some damage, because frankly, he had every right to do so after being atttacked by them, but he did the right thing. He wouldn't be able to show his face in public if he had really hurt them.

HeForeverBleeds · 2016-10-20T00:45:55+00:00

For anyone interested, here's the original video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkoA2usqXC8

Mickeybl · 2016-10-20T00:43:58+00:00

This is what happens when nobody bothers to teach women that violence isn't the proper course of action to take when you're angry with a man. Well, I hope more of these cases are highlighted in the media so that it will start making people sit up and take notice.

gaudam · 2016-10-20T06:43:01+00:00

She is 10000000000000000000000% at fault. This gets said many times over. Man or woman..if you aren't willing to accept being hit back, don't hit other people. Whatever he may or may have called her in a text is irrelevant. She provoked the physical attack, and deserves retaliation. Now I'm not saying he get s a free card to beat the shit out of her, but he can certainly and lawfully defend himself. He did what he could to disable the attacker without using excessive force. You can't have the blanket attitude of "never hit a woman" if she attacks first. That white knight bullshit goes right out of the window. Furthermore, the fact that she "needed to go to the hospital" is also irrelevant. Again, she provoked the physical attack, if she was caused harm as a result, it is her own doing. Girls need to learn this lesson and stop expecting to get a free pass to beat up guys.

ThePigmanAgain · 2016-10-20T02:41:12+00:00

Pro tip -- if you don't want to get body slammed, don't go around attacking other people. How anyone could see the boy as the aggressor in this is beyond me.

Jaeryth · 2016-10-20T05:19:50+00:00

I think it's kind of interesting how women seem to perceive body language a lot differently.

He walks back. She approaches him, yelling. He puts his hands up to establish distance from her. She, without him touching her, says "Don't you touch me" as if she's anticipating him to touch her and makes first contact by slapping and hitting him.

Not only that, but he even waits through several hits to fight back, and he isn't even excessive about it, just wants to end it quickly.

Everything suggests that she was the aggressor. If it was a guy on a guy, there wouldn't be a discussion over who started it.

Also there's that line we've all heard, "Don't ever hit a girl." Not even in defense.

matthew_lane · 2016-10-20T02:38:18+00:00

This is the first time I've seen this WHOLE video. Media agencies are cutting out the part where she instigates it by attacking him.

Vayu_The_End · 2016-10-20T05:23:44+00:00

...Seriously, fuck these people. "A man should know better than to hit a girl!" What the shit? Nobody, and I mean nobody, has a unilateral responsibility to ensure the safety of the attacker beyond not going beyond what is necessary to incapacitate them.

"Oh he could've walked away!" Right, and so could she have. In fact, she could've just NOT show up at his house ready to square up. This is why it happens so often, woman are just so comfortable hitting men because it's ingrained in our culture as comedy. We're ingrained to believe he must have done something to upset her because "woman are just not biologically inclined to violence!"

And, they don't see the problem with promoting this mindset as well as the "woman can do anything men can do and do it better in heels mindset? They seriously seek to damn the evil "misogynistic" culture of yesteryear, yet benefit from the many tendents that put a woman's safety above a man's from that very same culture?

The doublethink is unreal.

intenseBRO · 2016-10-20T08:09:44+00:00

What are these other people seeing I don't get it? If you watch the full video it's clear as day that she attacks him, he gets in a defensive position and when he uses his hands to prevent her slaps she kicks him in the stomach and that's when he went for the slam.

After the slam he stops attacking her. He did his best to stop someone from attacking him. When the other girl starts attacking him after the slam of girl1 he pushes her away and just walks away. What more do these people want?

If it was a smaller guy slapping at a bigger girl and she slammed him all these same people would be talking about "girl power!"

This shit makes no sense.

feedmecarrots · 2016-10-20T07:24:32+00:00

What is it with present day women? Tyhey think they can get physical and the man won't defend himself? It was good that this was recorded. It's obvious that she started it.

Bafa94 · 2016-10-20T09:38:26+00:00

Don't hit someone you can't take a hit from.

Pantsyr · 2016-10-20T02:53:41+00:00

Aside from the bullshit white knighting and attempt to get a pussy pass for this silly female, I quite liked the technique employed to bring things to a quick finish. No lasting damage was done. He left as soon as she was on the deck, and took no further action. Personally I think he showed admirable and measured restraint for someone so young.

AloysiusC · 2016-10-20T08:10:57+00:00

Normally when this sort of things happens, you expect a bunch of guys to pile onto him the moment he dares defend himself. Guess he got lucky. Doubly so because it was caught on camera.

heldonhammer · 2016-10-20T11:17:15+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

Revorob · 2016-10-20T10:44:44+00:00

Given that the girl is in the process of assaulting the boy, what the fuck did they expect him to do?

DevilishRogue · 2016-10-20T11:52:53+00:00

This isn't distressing, it belongs on r/justiceporn due to the sheer entitlement of the aggressor in thinking the guy won't even defend himself, but he does so without striking her and moves away as soon as it is safe for him to do so. Textbook 100% the right thing to do.

Dalinair · 2016-10-20T12:31:22+00:00

If you fight back white knights say "you cant hit a girl" If you dont fight back they say "ha you got beat by a girl"

You cant win with these wankers.

Treeclimber3 · 2016-10-20T14:11:32+00:00

*This is what a steady diet of violent video games and Mixed Martial Arts pay-per-view (MMA) will do to so many white males. Girl, you’re lucky you found out early…if you had gone steady or worse, married this creep, you might be dead now.*

Assuming there's a relationship between media violence and real world violence, I think the guy who made the above comment is assuming the woman (the aggressor) doesn't watch the same kind of stuff. Aren't women just as susceptible to the media-influenced behavior, if it's actually a real thing?

But the worst part is that this WK is simultaneously assuming that men have less right to self-defense against a woman, and that women have more right to dish out violence against a man.

Griever114 · 2016-10-20T12:26:09+00:00

Let the record show he was assaulted by not one but THREE WOMEN.

Just because the hits didnt hurt doesnt mean it isnt assault by THREE WOMEN.

"You're honor, let the record show that my defendant was assaulted multiple times by three people."

"Overruled, it was by three women who couldnt possibly harm him. He should have known he could have seriously injured them and may have seriously injured the first one. He was unaffected by the assault and should have known better. 10 years for assault and battery"

^ America.

EDIT: After watching a few times, i find it hard to believe she was knocked unconscious. If anything, his arm took most of the landing (hair is obscuring her head). At this point, i am under the impressions she is pandering to the crowd.

risunokairu · 2016-10-20T05:53:09+00:00

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Sasha_ · 2016-10-20T12:03:14+00:00

This is another shocking example of the violence women face every hour at the hands of brutal men, and the toxic masculinity which permeates society. This poor girl was simply trying to call him out on his misogynistic and abusive behaviour when he attacked her after her pre-emptive defense. Disgusting. I'm clutching my pearls so tight right now I can barely breath.

And when she started having an epileptic seizure! She's very lucky he didn't seize the opportunity to stick his cock in her mouth for a quick joy-gobble.

Terrible.

EDIT: Jesus /Sarcasim as if that wasn't obvious enough.

Tgunner192 · 2016-10-20T12:17:51+00:00

Of course there are going to be people who second guess the manner in which the guy defended himself and his property. To them I ask, what do you believe he could've/should've done different?

Edit: typos

OzNimbus · 2016-10-20T14:36:01+00:00

Legally, he's probably in the clear. California has "Castle Doctrine" and he told her to leave. Several times. She chose to attack him instead. One could argue because of the gut-kick that he was reasonably in fear of great bodily injury, hence the response.

functionalsociopathy · 2016-10-20T15:31:49+00:00

this should serve as a lesson for the girl and her friends. play stupid games, win stupid prizes

qdobe · 2016-10-20T17:00:28+00:00

"It appears that she started to slap him, and that's when it escalated. He slammed her to the ground..."

NO BITCH, SHE ALREADY ESCALATED IT. Get a story straight. If it was a small dude and a big ass chick and the roles were reversed, Huffington would have had a full page dedicated to the "Powerful girl who stood up for herself and beat the crap out of some guy", but not when a guy stands up for himself. I wish the news would have reported this incident the way the police did. This is just blatant false news. They made it a big story because it is a bunch of small petite white girls who are....."victims" (except not). That's the only reason this is a story. Pretty little white girls, getting away with everything.

VarusAlmighty · 2016-10-20T18:26:59+00:00

Epic takedown though.

scanspeak · 2016-10-20T19:03:02+00:00

Thank god this was on video or he would be toast.

666Baphomet · 2016-10-21T08:55:30+00:00

that's what you get when you mess with the warrior!

g-j-a · 2016-10-20T07:27:09+00:00

Equality sucks when it means people can hit you back.

Precious cunts.

Swinship · 2016-10-20T10:40:41+00:00

No one should attack anyone, No one should resort to violence, However when you do resort to violence you get consequences and this girl got them. She experienced Equality, Was he overly aggressive hell yes, did he use excessive force yes, he did. But still she layed hands on him and he reacted. In this scenario i dont see why her gender should even play in. If it does you say women are inferior, is that what women want to be known as inferior?

RiimoH · 2016-10-20T07:48:56+00:00

Does somebody know what the trouble was all about?

McNiggletz · 2016-10-20T12:20:31+00:00

I know this is off topic, but do laws change if a boy gets in a fight with a woman who claims to be the opposite gender or a man who says hes a woman? What happens there?

Zanlo63 · 2016-10-20T14:06:39+00:00

So done with this "woman can do no wrong" bullshit.

smxfirehawk · 2016-10-20T14:59:00+00:00

Damn, that bitch got rekt

mwobuddy · 2016-10-20T23:56:19+00:00

“It’s so bad. It’s so evil right now that it’s hard to make a call on something like that,”

Damn, these people have a low threshold for what is evil.

kutuup1989 · 2016-10-20T10:29:46+00:00

I wish the media (news and social) would stop sharing these videos.

"Two people have fight!" is all it amounts to. We don't know what the fight was about, who started it or any of the other information to determine who, if anyone, was the aggressor.

It's like we've gone beyond airing our own dirty laundry in public, and we're now airing other people's.

There is literally nothing remarkable at all about this video, nor 95% of all the other "viral videos" the media decide to weigh in on.

People have fights all the time, why we're suddenly shocked and horrified by this I have no idea.

wisty · 2016-10-20T01:31:04+00:00

Get ready for the white knights pointing out that a hip throw on concrete is excessive force.

True. He could have slapped her. A quick jab would have ended things in an instant. There was no reason to use a hip throw. A "non-violent" take-down like a hip throw can do a lot more damage than a strike when you're not on a dojo with padding on the floors.

He shouldn't have used a throw like that, it can potentially be lethal.

It makes you wonder, if men were told to slap a woman if she's hysterically attacking them, would the world be a safer place for women?

MrMarksiwel · 2016-10-21T20:04:17+00:00

Your honor someone pushed me so I threw them to the ground where they were knocked out.

Nintendozz57 · 2016-10-20T07:41:59+00:00

Ok but he didnt have to go Hulkamania on her

maxnarvaes · 2016-10-20T12:34:35+00:00

I mean, I think it's right for him to defend himself, in this case however I think that was too much.

Title	Girl attacks boy. Boy defends himself. Boy is ridiculed on Social Media for putting hands on a girl.
Author	Jesse_no_i
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Comments	227
Date	October 19, 2016 11:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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