First off let me say that I’m not here to demonize every aspect of the Redpill. I think that there certain theories (regarding female sexuality and human mating in general) that RP is probably right about. However, with that being said, I think guys that get extremely deep into “Redpill rage” or just buying too much into “Redpill narratives” usually have deeper underlying issues that they aren’t addressing.

And as the title suggests, I’ve now realized what the root of those underlying issues might be. Ironically, the women were most likely right, it really does boil down to male insecurity in the end. Allow me to give examples…

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If he can’t get the girl… : The “concern” is obviously that women not only find him unappealing, but also that they somehow literally hate his entire existence and wish death on him apparently.

-The root insecurity of the “concern” is obviously. “What if I’m simply inferior to other men. 😩”

If he gets the girl but isn’t her first… : The “concern” is that the woman in question had the audacity to find other available men more appealing than the man expressing the “concern”. (Even if said man is painfully mediocre to begin with.)

-The root of the fear is obviously. “What if I’m simply inferior to those other men.😩”

If he gets the girl first but she expresses even the smallest hint of attraction to another man… : The “concern” is that the woman in question dares find any other man to be as attractive as (or perhaps even more attractive than) himself.

-This one brings out the double insecurity of “what if I’m inferior to that guy she finds slightly attractive?” as well as “would she do that if she were with Chad? Obviously not, therefore I’m obviously inferior to Chad😔”

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Those are some of the most common “concerns” that Redpillers express. But what I’m stating about insecurity becomes extremely evident when you get into the more ridiculous and neurotic “concerns/fears” that Redpillers tend to exhibit.

For example, one that was recently post even just today : “What if I get the girl, I’m her first, she never even cheats but… she says I’m the first guy that treated her right… I’m obviously inferior to those other men. 😳😔😩”

Or

“What if our sex life is great and neither of us have any complaints but I recently found that her ex hit it one hour earlier than I did… I’m obviously inferior to that other man.😤😔🤯”

Like do some of you realize how stupid of a “concern” something like this is? (No offense). No one that isn’t extremely neurotic and self conscious (aka insecure) would ever worry about things like this. And yet here some of you are, making a huge deal out of them and taking them seriously smh. And why? Because… At your core you have an borderline-obsessive fear that you’re inferior to her previous partners. That why you come up with ridiculous conspiracies such as thinking her previous partners were able to treat her poorly because they are somehow better than you. Even tho the most logical explanation is that they’re her exes because she didn’t tolerate being treated poorly.

Are you guys picking up the pattern yet? It always seems to come down to the redpiller being upset about his assumed inferiority to other men. That’s almost always the underlying concern, right? Because it’s that insecurity that underpins almost every Redpill “concern” in reality. “What if I’m an inferior male?” This is the thought that keeps all Redpillers awake at night lol.

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So basically, the major takeaway here is that, very few of these Redpill “concerns” have anything to do with “modern women” or “traditional values” or “societal collapse” or any of that nonsense. All of that is just a mask for the true fear/concern that underlies all extreme Redpill thinking… This also why there’s never really a “right answer” that women can respond with in a lot these debates. It was never about women’s behavior deep down The fear is that the man in question is simply inferior to other men. The Redpill may have an interest point from time to time, but is mostly just the product of male fear/insecurity about his place in the social hierarchy. Change my view.