N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

saraimarsena · 2026-02-21T16:50:36+00:00

i imagine there are tall guys who feel turned off when women express height preferences by shaming short men. ik i feel turned off when men discuss their sexual preferences by shaming high n count women, even if im not the target.

Axis_Control · 2026-02-21T16:20:07+00:00

Think I am realizing technically I have only had 1 hookup since the sex with the other 2 guys was either fully after having a date or was on a date at the end 🤣

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-02-21T12:17:09+00:00

The size of a musician's instrument determines how good his music is

Saying "the size of a musician's instrument doesn't matter" is cope. Saying "oh but you can make your audience feel deep emotions with a small instrument" is cope.

The reality is that music is made of sound waves which hit your ear drums, and bigger instruments generate bigger sound waves, hence providing more stimulation. You can't ignore the reality of physics.

When everything is equal (skill, connection to the audience, etc) the musician with the biggest instrument always wins. That's the physical reality of music.

This is what music is: bigger instruments make better music. Bigger soundwave = more stimulation = more pleasure. It's just the physical reality of it. You need to make as much sound as possible to make the best music and you need the biggest instrument for that.

Logos1789 · 2026-02-21T08:17:34+00:00

I wonder what was different…

ThatBitchA · 2026-02-21T02:20:12+00:00

Any last minute thoughts before the switch to the other topic?

Mine are:

🍆 the "best sex" is more likely to be with someone you care deeply for. The best sex is sex with true emotional intimacy.

🍆 stop worrying about the men before. Be delusional and be present with her.

🍆 vaginas are 4-6 inches deep.

Popeoath · 2026-02-19T16:40:16+00:00

If women want there to be gender parity on the n-count issue then they need to start judging promiscuous men as harshly as they judge "incels".

Women can fix the double standard instantly.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-02-19T13:53:58+00:00

if you had told me a few years ago that clavicular, a drugged up 19 year old who blasts gear and takes methamphetamine to "leanmax" and not only that but was OPEN about it, would pop out of literally nowhere and suddenly people would actually take him seriously, i would spit out my drink and laugh in your face. this shit fucking sucks and is retarded.

PSXSnack09 · 2026-02-19T09:20:09+00:00

caring about the past is sexist, misogynistic and outdated until u propose 50/50 and suddenly "u dont know how to treat a lady"

or when u dont want to live up to traditional masculinity expectations of strength, stoicism etc and suddenly "you re not man enough"

lol

imagine having to "man up" for the leftovers of the casual sex world🤣

Axis_Control · 2026-02-18T16:51:51+00:00

Ok so say a guy isn't her best sexually then what? Why's it matter sooo much, I really don't get the obsession.

Proudvow · 2026-02-18T14:21:46+00:00

If you were locked out of hookup culture but your girlfriend participated that's an L.

Axis_Control · 2026-02-17T17:31:13+00:00

Men "what is the best sex" she has had? Wtfs that even mean 🤣

Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-17T15:01:05+00:00

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Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-17T14:04:29+00:00

The concept of "the best sex" is ridiculous, and you can have it only if before you had only bad or meh sex.

Axis_Control · 2026-02-17T11:25:50+00:00

Men should have a resume for hookups and references that can backup that they don't suck at sex 🤣

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-02-16T14:17:44+00:00

So, with Mardi Gras just one day away: does anyone have any success stories about Fat Tuesday/Carnival|Gras?!

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-02-16T03:58:42+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Clavicular/comments/1r5krhv/this_is_genuinely_sad_to_watch_girl_hits_on_clav/

Legalize prostitution already. This is getting sad lol

PSXSnack09 · 2026-02-16T02:19:20+00:00

Weird times we re living at

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PSXSnack09 · 2026-02-16T02:18:37+00:00

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Lol

ThatBitchA · 2026-02-15T22:11:11+00:00

Sometimes I wish I was still single so I could laugh in the face of a guy who asked about body count.

Nothing is more pathetic to me than a guy being so sexually insecure that he has to know the quantity of men I've fucked.

I guess, I'll just laugh comfortably at home.

The funniest bit is the hypocrisy from some men.

TangerineEvery8912 · 2026-02-15T13:54:01+00:00

I personally don't really care for the body count discourse. Body count will never matter objectively and will only ever matter when it comes to the subjective preference of individuals. There's no crime or overall social consequence for having or not having a sexual past, but it can tie off certain options for who you may be able to access for romance and LTR, which is what you get with any choice you make in life.

Body count is simply just a dating preference and is as useful as debating a hair colour preference or a religious preference ect.

For example, I have an body count of 0 due to wanting a life long commitment before engaging in sexual activity with a partner (and probably low drive - inactivity for a long time can do that to you). My preference is that future men I date will meet the same body count as me (or a low number with good reasoning) simply due to logistics as many people who have engaged in sex aren't going to suddenly give sex up and wait for someone, and comfortability. I've had guys with high body counts be upset at me politely rejecting their advances for them not meeting my preference, and honestly my response to that is who cares? Just date someone who IS open to a flavourful sexual past or has an open mind when it comes to sex, not the autistic prude. They aren't going to lose their job, friends, family or go to jail for having the high body count, they just won't be dating me. They are free to choose anyone else they please.

There's people that will argue having a high body count is 'disgusting' for example, but what's the point in trying to change their mind? Do you honestly care if this individual finds something you do disgusting? I find smoking disgusting and will never date a smoker, but I don't think smokers should take my opinion to heart at all and are still free to do as they please. Just my thoughts, feel free to critique my view and engage. Perhaps my stance is a bit clinical

Logos1789 · 2026-02-15T09:27:40+00:00

If N Count didn’t matter you wouldn’t be reading this.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2026-02-15T07:21:51+00:00

After careful vetting and a bit of adult communication I’m going to engage in casual sex this very evening with my new FWB. This mythical thing of strong (mutual) attraction is real and accessible, not impossible…and apparently you’re never too old to add to your n count either. Onward…

Popeoath · 2026-02-15T01:47:33+00:00

Just saw another story where some guy's wife, who chose him for "personality", cheated on him with Tinder Chad.

You should absolutely not date someone you had to win over with "personality" if they're willing to hook up with others regardless of personality (i.e. just from seeing them on a dating app).

Raw sexual attraction must be the foundation.

N_Count_Council · 2026-02-14T21:32:13+00:00

The girl I'm seeing now has mentioned (a few times) how often she had casual sex in the past and it's the main thing deterring me from taking her out of the fuckzone

Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-14T18:43:06+00:00

Men don't value casual sex. If they did, they would be actually more enthusiastic and would be eager to put some effort into that. But they are not, they think that those women are "low value" and should agree to low effort them, and that's more important to them than actually get sex. That's how many of them lose.

And before some men will come here with "you was rejected by chad" - they are not chads, i didn't feel instant attraction or whatever, i easily moved on, and i don't remember them all.

Mammoth_Ad_5181 · 2026-02-14T18:37:42+00:00

Sorry to everyone else here unironically deeply lonely and starved of intimacy today, especially the many in denial including me.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-14T17:15:53+00:00

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winter_lover28 · 2026-02-14T17:11:13+00:00

Casual sex is the only way to know how desirable you are as a man.

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