[Q4M] Do you plan to settle down with a carousel girl?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-01-14T02:47:17+00:00

Of course not lol

logiauser · 2022-01-14T08:05:53+00:00

Will not commit to any woman most likely. That window has passed and I’m too aware now.

StarchRunner · 2022-01-14T03:08:19+00:00

No way.

Cheap-Pound7001 · 2022-01-14T06:20:46+00:00

NoMarriageNoKids · 2022-01-14T06:53:48+00:00

I've done it and it's not happening again. I dint care how good she is in the beginning. I know how she is in the end.

reignoferror00 · 2022-01-13T22:06:43+00:00

I've already married a non-carousel woman quite a while back. Can't say it has been going well for some time.

Would I get married again to a carousel (or even non-carousel) woman? I sure as hell hope I'm not that stupid to marry anyone again; certain not that naive anymore. Less than 5 or 5-15 makes no real difference to me for sex or a relationship; co-habitation (which where I am would all to quickly turn into common law marriage) or marriage forget about it.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-01-14T02:15:26+00:00

Why dont you tell us all how you pay for hookers to have sex with your husband.

my-spotless-mind · 2022-01-13T21:50:58+00:00

I don’t mind women if they have a body count that is in the same region as mine. However if they post pics of their hoo-ha on Reddit then nah.

E-2-butene · 2022-01-13T19:55:11+00:00

If 5 counts as a carousel rider, then yea, I guess so. It would be kind of hypocritical of me to go virgin hunting, though. Not that I think i have a chance at my age anyway. Virgins might as well not exist.

But I’d be buying the ring because I like being with her. It’s not like she’s making me do it to sleep with her. I wasn’t exactly expected to commit to her either.

Ambitious-Travel7400 · 2022-01-14T00:57:39+00:00

No sir…not ever

baresquad · 2022-01-13T20:23:49+00:00

5-15? That’s nothing. I’d be in no place to judge, although I’d prefer her experience matches or exceeds mine, saves a lot of trouble

And then factor in the fact that she’s cool enough for me to want to commit to her for life? And I’d be the one that gets to do it? Sound like a win.

So yeah, someday. But dating on the back burner right now.

Zerofication · 2022-01-13T19:51:28+00:00

Most Western women are CC riders, and most Western men will inevitably take what's available for them. Whether they decide to get married or not is a different matter.

Diddy_1978 · 2022-01-13T20:55:10+00:00

Sounds like you have a problem with women having a sex life.

TheBookOfSeil · 2022-01-13T23:42:00+00:00

Nope. I'm one unicorn looking for another unicorn.

abaxeron · 2022-01-14T10:24:39+00:00

No.

I got burned enough times.

If I find myself single and financially stable, I'll happily spend the rest of my life working part-time and spending weekends on drugs.

Standard-Logic · 2022-01-13T20:00:07+00:00

I'd rather join a seminary.

MotiMorphosys · 2022-01-13T20:07:18+00:00

When I find a girl that I connect with, her body count doesn't matter much to me.

I've had lots of casual sex, so has she. But we both connected on a deeper level. I can understand her feelings toward me are unique in the same way mine toward hers are.

Shredddz · 2022-01-13T20:13:34+00:00

no. I will only settle down with people who I can realistically expect to make a relationship work, and these women are unable to have relationships. If there was any sexual interaction outside of committment in the girls past, there is no point to commit because its gonna fail.

Mittelfingerhoch2-6 · 2022-01-14T08:07:46+00:00

No. I am 200% value. Why should i ever?

Fit-Photograph1646 · 2022-01-14T18:57:32+00:00

No way in hell. I'd rather save up for 24 year old surrogate and egg donor.

MarBitt · 2022-01-13T20:29:37+00:00

The number of her previous partners is not important to me.

Vtridolla · 2022-01-13T20:16:58+00:00

You gotta have Atleast 15-20 for me to marry you.

wtknight · 2022-01-13T19:51:43+00:00

No. I married a low N woman and have only dated low N women.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-01-13T20:45:33+00:00

I'd prefer a ferris wheel girl myself, but sure, why not. I don't really care about her past except as a metric to highlight how much better I am.

If I'm getting the best from her, that's works for me

razormachine · 2022-01-13T21:42:23+00:00

If she is going to be a slut for me then sure why not. I already do own a home and she can't divorce rape me so why the hell not.

But so far all I'm getting is "feeeeed me, and maybe sex later" from such women so nope, nope, nope.

decoy88 · 2022-01-13T22:07:46+00:00

Sure, why not? Not all bitches are crazy.

N count is less important than whether she’s a freak or a prude.

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-01-13T23:47:03+00:00

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Potential_Plate2538 · 2022-01-14T16:49:57+00:00

What I can't stand are the hypocrites. The people who have had dozens of partners themselves but demand their SO to be a virgin or near virgin.

over348 · 2022-01-13T20:20:36+00:00

I wouldn't say 5 would qualify as a one. 10 is still kinda high for my age. If you said like 15 and up then nah

NotGoingoutofMW · 2022-01-13T20:40:52+00:00

Yes i'll do all of that. She has a 17 count. But the mortage is one thing since her pride and parents won't allow her to leech of me. I live rent free in her apartment for more than 1 year after all :)

sine120 · 2022-01-13T22:14:09+00:00

I did the ring, knee, house mortgage thing with my first long term girlfriend and have no regrets. Both virgins before we got together. If for whatever reason tomorrow I was single and looking to settle down, I'd be looking for someone who hasn't had casual sex, I just wouldn't mesh with that type of person.

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-01-14T04:50:24+00:00

I'd rather have someone passionate with a high sex drive that has had a chance to explore it which would mean having had a few partners over the years, than someone who's kept it under wraps all their life.

I'm not marrying though so whether or not they decide to stick around until we're elderly I respect their decision.

troy-X · 2022-01-13T20:11:27+00:00

15 is too high to wife up imo, I'd be questioning her ability to pair bond to the point where I won't want to take the risk. 5 is fine.

BigAggravating1299 · 2022-01-13T21:40:11+00:00

Well at my age of 42yo, I guess it would be like hitting the lottery if I settled down with a 30yo who only had 5-15, lol. Honestly I could care less its not like im gonna find a 25yo-35yo thats only been with 1 dude. As long as I know she isn't mine, it's just my turn, and stay red pilled enough to never get married, or cohabitate in the usa I'm good. Everything else is fair game

Slootando · 2022-01-13T20:23:41+00:00

Plan on it? Hell no.

The thought of buying a ring and getting down on one knee for a chick five guys (ha, like the restaurant) have already banged is nauseating. She’s better suited as a plate.

But people do get worn down, give up, and end up settling.

Bandit174 · 2022-01-13T20:08:15+00:00

I don't plan on it. Maybe I'll change my mind but I think certain feelings/traits end up being fairly solidified so I really can't imagine myself changing and suddenly being ok with marrying a girl like that.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2022-01-14T03:12:15+00:00

IMO, any man who gets married is out of his mind. Why let the state into your relationship? Why enter into an agreement where the other party can freely withdraw her obligations, but you cannot, and the courts are weaponized against you?

Suitable_Gear_6197 · 2022-01-14T05:03:52+00:00

Probably 5-15 isn't that much. It depends on what she is

Intrepid_Place5390 · 2022-01-14T14:10:51+00:00

for a LTR sure, if she meets my standards, which will be very high for her.

a ring, no, will not happen.

sharing purchases, house, lease,etc. no, keep things separate and easy to go your own way.

criticalmale · 2022-01-19T10:11:10+00:00

LMAO fuck no. I like my women just like my food. Without some dudes cum on it.

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-01-14T07:01:26+00:00

This whole post is hate speech.

Literally caring about a woman’s n-count is discrimination on the basis of gender.

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PlayfulLawyer · 2022-01-13T21:26:01+00:00

So I'm not getting legally married ever, but if I wasn't already married, if I was hypothetically with another girl who I thought was cool enough to want to be with long-term, her body count really wouldn't matter that much to me I'm not as hung up on it as some other guys are

BruddaMSK · 2022-01-13T21:39:36+00:00

I would, but she has different plans.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-14T16:07:28+00:00

5-15 previous lovers is in my relatively inexperienced category.

DisturbedBurger · 2022-01-13T23:55:24+00:00

I don't really care what she's been through. If we're both each other's first choice and she put in the psychological footwork to get over vicarious auto-erotisism, then she's g2g.

Decent_Foundation_62 · 2022-01-14T04:13:53+00:00

Absolutely, as long as she makes 2x my income and is bringing significantly more assets to go with her presumed professional deep throat skillz

That being said, while 5-15 might pass as caroussel I'd be more worried about girls getting into the 30,40, 50+ 'who knows' range.

5-15 is basically high school boyfriend, college boyfriend, post-college boyfriend, and a couple of random hookups in between each.

Title	[Q4M] Do you plan to settle down with a carousel girl?
Author	gimpgirl555
Upvotes	2
Comments	236
Date	January 13, 2022 7:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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