Survey for Men.

GroovyEFS · 2017-06-22T09:11:32+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10?

Around 5 I guess.

Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

From a quick google this is the closest I can find except my hair isn't as long and goofy looking and I have a bit of stubble so I look more grownup than that guy.

I usually just dress in standard t-shirt, jeans, and trainers.

2) Are you overweight?

No, a little chubby but not overweight.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

2.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

4.

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Going out with mates to bars and getting fucked up is my main social activity haha. My hobbies are more reclusive and usually involve computers.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

For a bit but realised it wasn't my cup of tea pretty quickly so didn't bother for very long.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Nope.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Nope.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Nope.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

N/A

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes, no, yes, no.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight?

Yes mostly, with one exception who was way better than me physically, and one who was a little over my weight which I didn't mind until she just put more and more on.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Usually the same, only two were different as described above.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

4 years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No. I split the bill on dates and never had any problems with this.

MarriedLifter · 2017-06-22T12:13:21+00:00

I can't really rate myself physically. And certainly not on a 1-10 scale. (I mean, does the scale use deciles or standard deviations? Has anybody validated the inter-rater reliability? For a sub with so many STEMlords, this whole "HB" scale is just embarrassing.)

yurtyybomb · 2017-06-22T17:21:54+00:00

(1) My friend said I'm a 7 a while ago.

(2) No. 5'11, 150 pounds.

(3) I would say 0. The girl I slept with would say 1 (my only person I've slept with).

(4) 1 romantic relationship.

(5) Watching basketball. I studied law (and am prepping for the bar), so I tend to like law. Not a lot of actual activities though. I'm a hermit.

(6) No I didn't. I also didn't want to. I was very apathetic from the end of high school through college about romance because I just went to class, commuted home, and stayed inside. In hindsight, I'm stunned at how apathetic I really was. I (mostly) managed to stay normal despite it and have good social awareness, but bad self-esteem as a result of not having much romance.

(7) To a limited extent, yes. If you've slept with a lot of women you're generally perceived as higher value, depending on who it is though. Some scuzzy dude can get lots of girls by being so persistent. It's the guy who is active but not terribly pushy who has a higher value. That said, I don't generally see guys who have slept with lots of girls as inherently more value. It depends on the person.

(8) Nope. The most I can say is from (7) - the fact that girls want to sleep with them consistently and they're not pushy indicates their attractiveness, but I actually think guys and girls who sleep around a lot are often shitty and emotionally weak.

(9) My (very limited) experience is a mix. I got casual sex from one girl. She didn't want to commit despite my obvious wishes to, but she was incredibly attracted to me and it was obvious. That sucked. I couldn't get her to commit to me, yet I felt so physically desired. She initiated everything and wanted me bad, physically, but didn't want me emotionally. We fought on that and then she moved quickly on to another handsome guy. It made me feel very disposable despite her deep physical attraction to me. I think commitment means more, but there is a different (and powerful) value to being wanted so physically like she wanted me. I think it's a "grass is greener on the other side" thing.

(10) No. I don't pursue casual sex. I do resent the girl who had casual sex with me for not committing and going to the next guy.

(11) I drink socially but never go super ham. I get drunk, but never too drunk. I'll dance if I'm drunk at a wedding. Don't smoke weed. I don't really play sports, but I used to many years back, I have an athletic build, and know sports very very well.

(12) I interact with girls of similar attractiveness/body weight.

(13) In terms of looks, the girls I've been interested in have tended to show interest back even if I don't often pull the trigger. They're probably at the same SMV. I often feel inferior though because I have self-image problems, but I have never been made to feel like I'm unattractive. Girls I talk to seem to think I'm fun, cute, etc. I'm usually very much accepted once I get past my insecurities and actually go out there. Never been bullied, fit in with all types of groups growing up.

(14) About a year.

(15) Not really, but I make sure to be present. I buy gifts that have a meaning to them and speak to the person, even if they're cheap.

(16) Probably like 5% of women. It seems like casual culture is overwhelming and I'm not sure I can even trust 95% of women anymore. At least 60% can seem pretty great, but as time goes on, you start to realize it doesn't work with that person for deep-seeded reasons, often to a surprising extent.

wub1234 · 2017-06-22T13:08:21+00:00

I'm maybe a bit above average for my age. 6/10. My SO thinks I've got nice eyes, but I've got a bit of a babyface, I definitely don't appeal to lots of women! I maybe look a bit like him. I suppose my clothing style is typical northern English, working-class, shit-kicker! Something like this.
No, I've never been overweight.
A few.
Two.
I play tennis, I attend a writers' group.
No, it's not really my thing.
Not really.
No, I tend to think the opposite. I have more respect for guys who settle down and raise a family.
The answer to this question is too complex for a survey.
No, I always wanted relationships and girlfriends, even when I was a teenager. I have no interest in the hooking up culture.
I do drink. I try not to dance, but I know I'm going to end up doing it with my SO. I don't smoke weed. I love sport.
I do date women of similar build. I wouldn't date someone who was massively out of shape. But I do like some flesh on the bones.
It depends. The SMV of my current partner is undoubtedly higher than mine. She has orbiters, turns heads wherever she goes, gets catcalled, some guy threw her his car keys in the street the other day, she would get another partner much more easily than me, rest assured!
Not that long.
I will buy gifts sometimes, but I think something thoughtful and personalised is more valuable than spending a tonne of money.
I've never cohabited, but it would be a small percentage of the female population.

ppdthrowawa · 2017-06-22T15:29:27+00:00

Start at a 10/10 and take out points for every flaw I have:

-1 point for every 2 inches below 6 ft. I'm 5'5, so -3 points.

-1 point for not being white.

-1 point for a big nose.

So I'd rate myself at most a 5/10, likely a 4/10.

I am not overweight. I'm 5'5", 140 lbs at 13% bodyfat, so pretty fit for my height.
I've never had sex.
I've never been in a relationship.
Kickboxing and grappling predominantly. Hiking as well, which I tend to do with friends. I also partner dance and do West Coast Swing.
I'm just about to finish college next year, and no, I didn't participate in hookup culture.
No, I don't really care about men's N counts.
In a sense they are, because women validate their worth. A man who has trouble finding casual sex is likely to be unattractive.
Yes.
I resent myself for not being attractive enough to get casual sex.
I don't drink. I can dance but don't do it often. I don't smoke weed. I do play sports, but sports that aren't so popular.

12)I've never had a date with a woman, but yeah I'd prefer for a woman to not be heavier than I am unless she was also taller than I am.

Can't answer, never dated a woman.
I've never had a romantic relationship.
I've never had a date.
Probably 50% of women.

the_calibre_cat · 2017-06-22T17:31:04+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I'd call myself a seven, but then there's that one study that says guys way overrate their physical attractiveness relative to the score women would rate them at... And I mostly give a shit about that, so I dunno. I'll try to find a picture.

2) Are you overweight?

I suppose technically I am, given my weight, height, and age - but I don't know anyone who would describe me as fat and I have some subtle muscular tone. I think I look pretty good with a shirt off, though I'd like to get bigger. 6ft, 190-200 lbs depending on my gym dedication and/or what food has crossed my path that week.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

One.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

Three.

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I go out and drink on the weekends, hang out with my friends, etc. I'll host barbecues and parties at my house, or invite people to go camping as a posse. I'm also a nerd, so I try to host events when cool celestial stuff is taking place (bitches love stars). And, as a nerd, I do stuff with computers, electronics prototyping, and sometimes I turn some wrenches on my car. I also enjoy shooting guns, looking forward to buying (ghost gunner anyone?) an AR-15 here sooner than later.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

No, and I didn't want to then. I wish I had, now.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Not necessarily. Plenty of legitimately terrible, desrespectable men who get lots of pussy. That's like, RP 101. It might even be because they're such self-unaware macho douchebags that women like them.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No. I wish I didn't care so much about female validation, so if anything I'm a little jealous of guys who legitimately don't give a fuck.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Yeah, a little, sure.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No, because I understand the incentives in play. I even value the chase somewhat, it's why I'm not a socialist.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

I drink. I'm bad at dancing, but I do it. I used to smoke weed, but have since taken a hiatus from it for personal and professional reasons. I will play sports, but don't do so regularly - I do go to the gym somewhat regularly.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

About the same athleticism, but usually significantly lower body weight.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

All over the map. First girl had lower SMV, second girl started with waaaaay higher SMV than me but then started putting on a lot of weight, and the last girl and I were probably about the same.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

Almost four years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

Not usually, but a night out can easily hit $150. That's why I'm focusing inward, to make dat moneyyyyy...

...also why I'm not a socialist.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Shoot, in my town? 20%. In a nearby town? 40%. It depends. I should move.

boscoist · 2017-06-22T17:48:00+00:00

I would like to get some idea of the opinions and experiences of men here and see how much they agree.

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I'm a younger, heavily bearded James van Der Beek. For now, I'm slightly less fit than him due to a couple persistent injuries. Soo easy 8, maybe 9.

2) Are you overweight?

6ft1, 190lbs, so borderline

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

95ish

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

6ish, typically less than 6 months

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Kickball, bar scene, karaoke, hiking, video games

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

I did, only about 15 partners there, it was much easier since living alone

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Meh.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Meh.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Ha. Not a chance.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

Naw, there's plenty more out there, or maybe she's relationship material.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yup yup, nope, social sports.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Both, I've been with twiggy girls and overwheight girls, there's something to be said for both and everything in between.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Typically lower than mine, I used to be a shy kid so I'm not perfect.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

9 months

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

It varies, I've done concerts and sports which are >100 and simply had girls over for drinks.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

<5%, note that isn't a comment on only wanting the top 5%, simply that I don't find that many women I would want to live with.

Thanks.

VermiciousKnidzz · 2017-06-22T16:41:03+00:00

depends on the day and my mood lol. sometimes i think i look a lot like a jeff mangum/win butler crossover
not at all, trying to gain weight currently
two
3, only one of which has been serious
i go to basement DIY shows a lot, play concerts around town a lot, also record local bands
too awkward and socially anxious for that jazz, i wish i wasnt tho. been in a relationship since halfway thru college so it hasnt been an issue anyway lol.
i absolutely dont value people according to their n count, i value people less if they rely on hooking up for their self esteem tho.
nope.
i think there are some women that have fucked up view of when to have sex and there are men with fucked up views alike. they dont represent everyone by a long shot tho.
not at all, i know i'm an awkward fuck and i own it!
i drink and smoke very frequently but in very very small amounts. dance on weekends, no sports.
weight is never on my mind for attractiveness. i honestly think everybody's attractive.
trying to quantify them like that makes me wanna puke.
currently at about 5 years
ive always split dates down the middle. never been an issue.
i dont really look at the world like that. hard to answer

louplop · 2017-06-22T10:19:21+00:00

I'd say 5/10. I think I am below average but people on here would nicely say I am wrong. I can't find picture of my hairs since it changes often and I have different style but mostly City guy casual or business.
No
I'd say 13. Some are tricky between relationship and casual sex.
I would count 6
Lately not much to be honnest except going out.
Not really. It was a special period for me so I can't really answer. Plus I was in a LTR my two first years after HS.
No and no
Depends what you call better but generaly yes I do think that.
No i do not believe that first because it's not a reward giving by women secondly because hearing women giving commitment in their head might be special. We do not think the same way.
Not women, I am more mad at myself
Yes to all
I date different Kind of women
Women I date are better looking than myself
2 years
No and it depends
I don't know. Can't answer without knowing those women. Look isn't everything for a LTR

ManSentHisOwnWay · 2017-06-22T11:42:07+00:00

1) I think I'm a 5/10. Maybe a 4 because of how little effort I put in. My younger brothers and parents all have celebrity lookalikes but I sadly don't so I can't help you there. I kinda look like a less attractive version of the averaged Brazillian. And my hair is a lot like this guy's.

2) Used to be but now I'm average. Sort of between skinny-fat and build-fat.

3) 0

4) 0

5) None currently

6) No. I want to participate in the sense that I'd like to be the kind of guy who has hook-ups but I don't want it as I actually am right now.

7) A higher N-count usually means a man is attractive and because I'm insecure about my attractiveness sexual success is something I value. I don't respect a man more if he has had a lot of partners tho. That has no impact on my level of respect.

8) I sometimes feel that people who are able to get what they want are better than people who are unable to do so but it has never influenced my view of someone else. It's really something I only apply to myself. So no, I don't think men having casual sex are better than men who don't but I'll still use it as a way to feel bad about myself.

9) No.

10) No. Never really did either. In fact, I think I'd resent women who did want to have sex with me.

11) I drink and smoke weed very occasionally. I don't dance and haven't done a sport in years.

12, 13, 14, 15) Not applicable.

16) I can't possibly answer this.

lilpumpski · 2017-06-22T13:02:57+00:00

1) 3, don't feel like searching, it's an afro on top with a fade, I wear normal clothing idk what that means

2) no

3) 3

4) 0

5) biking, drinking with friends at bars, watching YouTube

6)im in college and have yet to hook up with a college student because I'm ugly

7) not in a direct sense especially if the women were low quality. I personally don't respect them more.

8) very vague. Better in what sense?

9) no not really but again very vague because what's better?

10) yes I do. Obviously.

11) i drink, don't smoke, I don't really professionally dance, no sports as of now

12) i been on one date and she was fat but I want women that are slimmer

13) i only dated one women and SMV was uber low. Fat and had kids.

14) never had one

15) I bought my date coffee

16) 70%

IFuckingHateAllergy · 2017-06-22T13:13:56+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I wouldn't know. From the range of 3-8 depending on who's looking. I prefer a binary system when I rate people. Also, Asian 5'7 dress well when I want to.

2) Are you overweight?

I weigh 165 with a bit of a belly and no 6 pack. Does that count as overweight? I frequent the gym enough times a week but I don't really watch what I eat.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

About 5. Should've had more but there were complications. Also, standards.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

Realistically, probably just one. I have a bit more relationships but not truly romantic. More on the convenient side and/or Just so I have a girlfriend type of thing.

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Badminton, Gym, Chess, Drinking and gaming are the first few that come to mind.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

I didn't. I had severe depressions during my college years. Borderline suicide. I did have one hook up around those times though but it wasn't someone from college.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Not even remotely fucking close. I usually just think some of these people talk all this sex could might as well be lying. I try to keep my life personal. There really is no point in sharing anything about your life to anyone unless it's required. Something depression taught me.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

If you mean better at sex then yes obviously.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I don't think of it like that. Why the fuck does sex always has to be a reward? I do think that women offer sex for a chance of commitment from the better man, and man, offer commitment for the chance of sex from the woman.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No. Because I've come to the point in life that sex is no longer a priority. It boils pretty much down to " is the effort and time worth the casual sex?"

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

I drink and play sports. I used to smoke weed until it triggered my panic attacks. I stopped then.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Fuck me for saying this but I actually prefer chubby women. I had 1 hookup with 1 less aesthetic woman.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

They're all 1's to me on a binary scale.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

Lasted 6 months. I did, however, had a relationship that lasted 4 years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

The most expensive thing I've ever spent on someone was a trip to somewhere. My personal rule is, if I invited you, then i'm paying. If we planned it then it's 50/50 and if you invited me, then you should pay.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

80/20 rule fam. 20%

ByronicAsian · 2017-06-22T14:21:34+00:00

1) 4/10 (tried googling 4/10 asian and couldn't find a pic of one) Hairstyle: I think its like a crew cut/crop cut?, clothing: Business Casual or Polos/Jeans, or leftover clothes from Middle School (very oversized )

2) No (last time I checked, I'm 5'11 and 158lbs

3) 0

4) 0

5) Define social. But probably gaming, and I have a co-worker that invites me to play tabletop games from time to time in a large group.

6) No, yes. But I went to a commuter college so I would imagine it would've been more difficult

7) Yes and sorta

8) Yes and kinda

9) N/A, no exp to form proper conclusion

10) No, there are perfectly valid reasons from my current situation, though I wouldn't rule out slowly becoming more bitter in a decade for example.

11) Drink rarely, don't dance, smoked weed 2x in college only, no sports

12) Ref Q3&4 (never dated)

13) Ref Q12

14) Ref Q4

15) Ref above

16) Ref above

funny_lyfe · 2017-06-22T14:56:54+00:00

1) Between a 7-8. Can't find anyone who looks like me. I have high cheekbones, squarish jaw, strong features overall.

http://cdn-mf0.heartyhosting.com/sites/mensfitness.com/files/styles/node_responce_image/public/lean_muscular_muscle_body_fat_abs_main.jpg?itok=85_E1Bop

Haircut -. https://goo.gl/images/i9pwuL

This guy has a similar body to mine. Probably better but not by a lot.

2) No. BMI between 22-23.

3) Early teens. However, it is not something that I like increasing, I usually get FWBs.

4) About 5.

5) Quite a lot. Happy hours, meetups, bars.

6) Not really. But dated steady.

7) I don't care about men's N count. If they are really high all I can think of is that he put his dick in everything.

8) No I don't care. Do whatever makes you happy.

9) Yes. That is the case with me. I can have as much causal sex I want really work 5-6 women. I have to buy in my attractiveness range.

10) I resent women for being shallow. Even low SMV women would rather get dumped by me vs find a nice guy.

11) Drink yes. Dance yes, ballroom and clubs. Smoke weed no. Play sports yes.

12) Yes and no. Done both. Usually less athletic. But I have dated an ex Olympian, ex D1 athletes, ex cheerleaders.

13) Usually lower. I've dated quite a few attractive women but mostly have to date a lower.

14) 2 years.

15) No expensive gifts. Spend money usually from $30-100.

16) 10% at most.

incelemperor · 2017-06-22T15:57:43+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I would say probably a 0. If you want to stay in the scale, 1.

Similar SMV pic: no because I have no SMV

Hairstyle: Sikh, so sure: http://www.sikhfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/fc-faith-interview-Harjus_Birk-520x245.jpg

Clothing style: No pic found, but I basically wear t shirts and kakhis. T shirts can be polos, just normal t shirts, or even gym shirts. Sometimes I'll wear cargo shorts or gym shorts. I have one pair of black sneakers

2) Are you overweight?

Unfortunately, yes. I'm working on losing it though. I've lost 9 lbs in the last 2 months 3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

0

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

0

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Well unfortunately I'm in med school so not many. I go out to eat with friends and also watch movies and tv shows with friends when I can. Seems to be more of a 1 on 1 thing than a group activity. Last year I had more friends and was a lot more social.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

No participation in hookup culture; never even had a kiss. At the time I wanted a girlfriend, but now I've become jaded and want hookups.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

I think he is more socially valuable than I am (which is why girls fuck him), but I think I resent him more than respect him.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Well yes, they obviously are better.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I don't think this is the right way to think about it. I think better men get sexual opportunities so they have the ability to take hookups instead of settling down. I think once they do get older and start settling down with one person, that creates an issue because women also want to settle down but those men are going to only go with the top women. So women then turn to less valuable guys and settle down with them/expect commitment while secretly continuing to have affairs with the top guys. They might ask for an open relationship nowadays, which amounts to cuckoldry anyways because a low SMV guy is not going to get affair partners while his woman will still sleep with the men she wants. I think women want to get commitment from the top guys, but because the top guys are a scarce resource, not all of them can. So they settle with a less valuable guy for the financial and emotional support and have affairs and maybe even pass off a kid or two as his if they can get away with it.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No, I don't resent women. I resent God/nature/whatever deity you think exists for making me ugly and incapable of getting a woman.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

I don't drink or dance or smoke weed. I used to play tennis for part of high school; but stopped b/c I wasn't any good. I have recently begun to go to the gym.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

No women want to date me.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

N/A; nobody wants me

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

N/A unless you count my pillow, in which case 2 years

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

N/a; never been on a date. I do treat myself, however, sometimes with expensive electronics and cool tech.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

At this point idk. My desire for a gf has been completely obliterated by horrendous experiences with manipulative women who threw signals at me intentionally (confirmed by their friends, btw; I'm not whining b/c of friendzone) because they thought it was funny to make me fall for them. Since no girl has ever been interested in me whatsoever, I'm pretty sure that once I finish med school the only reason they will be interested is to see how much they can extract from me via emotional manipulation, alimony payments, child support payments for a kid that isn't mine; etc. Ideally I would prefer a partner who is well educated and career focused, attractive enough, is attracted to me, and likes me for me. I don't have the highest standards in the world, but I'm just ruled out by everyone else's standards.

TheGreasyPole · 2017-06-22T09:44:15+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself?

Within my age cohort I'd place myself as an SMV8

This internet sourced photo-simile is slightly flattering. I'd say this is probably the SMV9-10 version of me

http://media.gq.com/photos/5582f0c009f0bee564409685/master/w_703,h_964,c_limit/how-to-2010-03-leading-men-lm-javier-bardem.jpg

People also say I look like Jim Carey. He's the celeb I get told I look like (although, again, this is a flattering comparison). But it's so hard to find a photo of him where he isn't looking like a goof and/or smiling like an idiot... maybe this one... which might be the SMV9 version of me. It's got the craginess right at least... but fucking hell of this guy smiles in EVERY photo ever taken of him...

https://tmhome.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Jim-carrey-speech-at-MUM.jpg

2) Are you overweight?

No, but as I'm bulking I'm currently at the Upton end of the ideal weight range

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

6

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

3 serious ones (5yr, 2yr, 16yr)

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Reddit :) I have played a bit of cricket, but don't do so currently. I am more an loner pursuit guy.... reading books, learning things is my bag, baby.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

No. Largely because I am/was a "commitment slut". In that I'd hook up, but then let them "snag" me into a relationship usually. If I liked you enough to sleep with you, I also generally liked you enough to try out an STR/LTR arrangement.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Not necessarily "as a person" but he is clearly a "higher value man" in terms of being sexual partner for women. You don't get high Ns unless lots of women want to sleep with you. Lots of women do not want to sleep with you if they see you as low value. The easiest way not to appear low value, is to actually be a higher value man.

That's what RP does. Builds higher value men out of lower value raw material.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Better by what metric ? That's going to depend on your subjective choice of metric.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Well I wouldn't put it as "reward/pay".... But I'd say that "better men" get better access to casual sex.... and that lower quality men have to offer more on top than a higher value man must offer to get that sex. In many cases this is commitment.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

Nope. The universe isn't obligated to give you unlimited free pussy. If you're not getting it there is something wrong with you, not women and not the universe.

Women shouldn't resent men for not giving them commitment either. If you're not getting it, improve yourself such that you can.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes, yes, yes, no.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Women of more or less standard/ideal weight. I never dated a fatty, even whilst overweight myself.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Generally I'd say they were a bit lower SMV than me. Other than my wife. Who is an SMV10 by virtue of the fact she reads my comments.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

16 years and counting

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No. And generally I'd buy a nice meal, or some concert tickets, or go the pub and pay for the alcohol. Nothing crazy. But I saw no reason not to share my antelope with a chick, as human males have done for millennia.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Ultimately I think most humans could pair bond with about 5% of the opposite sexes population. This wouldn't necessarily be the hottest 5%.

As I said I was a "commitment slut". If I liked you well enough to approach, initiate, escalate and seal the deal.... I was also generally open to continuing in a relationship and "taking that for a test drive" as well.

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PieceBringer · 2017-06-22T09:43:03+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

6/10 At least I'm tall, I'm 1.88 90kg. Apparently this guy looks like me

2) Are you overweight?

No.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

9-15.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

2

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Football (soccer), fighting sports, video games, clubbing?

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Yes, it got boring after a while.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Not really, but for some dumb reason I tend to respect a man more if he's able to attract women.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Yes.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

yes, yes, twice a year or less, yes.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Yes, chubby is the furthest I'll go.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Similar or higher.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

3 years on and off.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No, 50gbp max.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

5%, but to be honest I'm just not ready.

alby333 · 2017-06-22T09:49:33+00:00

1/ I'd say 7/10 similar hair to Daniel Craig decent jaw line decent skin I'm 40 but look younger

2/ not anymore put on a little weight in my 30s but lost it now

3/ 3 I'm not really a casual sex kind of guy

4/ 10 I tended to rush into relationships as a young man

5/ I play guitar in bands and used to play soccer

6/ not really i didn't lack opportunities but I was always looking for relationships

7/ definitely no to both

8/ no not really I tend to regard sexual thirst as a weakness men who spend their time chasing hot women hand women the upper hand in the smp make me cringe

9/ no

10/I've had dry spells I've never felt resentment to women

11/ I drink a little quit weed and smoking I still run and cycle

12/ I've dated all shapes and sizes I've never dated a woman more athletic than me

13/ usually pretty equal sometimes lower maybe one who was higher

14/ current one 12 years

15/ no never I'd buy dinner but most dates I've been on we split the cheque

16/ having had kids and a vasectomy I'd not co habit again if my current relationship ended. As a young man I was very naive (stupid) I'd have rushed headlong into moving in with a girl after a few months.

Unabummer80 · 2017-06-22T10:43:07+00:00

1) probably about 6 or 7, depending on my weight . But I live in Asia so I get a point for being white at the moment. So probably 7/8.

2) Yeah a bit

3) including hand and blow jobs more than 30. If we are just counting dick-in-muff about 15.

4) 3 that were serious

5) Drinking. Martial arts. Football. Music

6) yes

7) no

8) they might be more attractive yeah

9) yes. More attractive guys get casual sex, less attractive guys have to pay for it with something .

10) I used to resent them. Not really now, just move onto the next one .

11) see 5

12) slimmer

13) about the same or less. If they're dirty I give them a pass

14) 5 years

15) no I don't buy expensive gifts. Dates are about 50 bucks at the high end but we split usually .

16) probably about 10% or something but I'm not in a hurry to cohabit again. No pussy is worth that drudge.

KV-n · 2017-06-22T11:22:09+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

3/10

2) Are you overweight?

no, i have the opposite problem

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

0

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

0

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

none

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

no. I didnt want to participate in some kind of "culture" but ofc i wanted to fuck.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

yes and yes but thats correlation, no causality.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

yes but again, correlation not causality

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

yes

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

not really, i understand them coz if i were a woman i wouldnt fuck myself too

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

drink couple times a year, dont dance, dont smoke anything and do some sport/physical activity literally every day. but only individual sports like running, bike, gym.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

dont date any

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

the few women who wanted me were about the same level

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

one evening.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

i dont date but i wouldnt buy anything ekspensive

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

if you mean literally all women on earth then less than 1%. Just my age requirement (17-22) disqualifies 90+% of women.

Hairbrainer · 2017-06-22T11:55:59+00:00

1) physically I'd probably rate myself a solid 7, maaaaaaybe an 8 on a good day. I've been compared to John Mulaney in the past in looks and demeanor.

2) not overweight

3) sex with 20 or so women

4) I've had probably 5 serious relationships. I say probably because high school doesn't really count.

5) I'm pretty active in rec sports. I'm in a softball league and am looking to join another sports league soon. Also am signing up for acting classes and/or learning piano.

6) I did hookups in college but was "saving myself" during that time. Most women were okay with that, some (understandably) chose not to hook up with me as a result.

7) I don't think a high N count makes a better man. A man's character makes a better man. Sex isn't hard. Similarly, a low N count doesn't make a lesser man. Of the best,most successful guys I know, I know one that's has only ever been with one woman, and another that refuses to share his count because it's too high.

8) similar answer. What a man does in his own time is his. It makes him no better or worse.

9) No. I think women enjoy casual sex, and are more willing to have it with men they're attracted to. I don't think it's any more complicated than how a man treats casual sex.

10) HELL no. It's either something I did wrong, or I find my entertainment some other way. I don't need sex to enjoy life.

11) drink yes, dance when drunk, weed yes, sports casually

12) typically I look for women with similar builds to mine. Though I've definitely been with marathon runners as well as couch loungers. Ideally though I go for the more athletic types.

13) I've had a mix of women I've dated, but mytwo most serious relationships I'd definitely say they were above me. My other three relationships were either at or slightly above me.

14) longest relationship was a bit over 2.5 years

15) I will buy my girlfriends expensive gifts. Dates will rise in cost as things get more serious.l, but typically I'm in favor of equal spending by both partners.

16) Jesus I don't know. Maybe 30%? That's how many women I've been with that I'd consider marrying I guess. But this is an impossible question.

TheNicestDouchebag · 2017-06-22T13:54:09+00:00

7-7.5, would be higher if I was taller (I'm 5'8"). I don't know any celebrities I look like, but I have a sort of "prettyboy" appearance because of my young looking face. I'm well-built, as I've been lifting for 5 years. Hairstyle is a kind of like a medium length quiff. Clothing is simple. Fitted tee or v-neck, jeans or khaki shorts, and chuck taylors.
No. When in the late stages of bulking I am medically overweight, but I still have a six pack.
20 casual sex partners.
4 romantic relationships, three of those being in high school.
I mostly do things at my school, mainly casually training MMA/Jiu Jitsu.
I'm in college and participating in hookup culture. Tinder is a wonderful thing.
No. I have sex because I can and because I like it, not because it makes me more valuable. It doesn't.
No.
Yes. Women who string "lesser" guys along have hooked up with me. However, women have also tried to string me along while hooking up with other men, so I nexted them.
No. Some just aren't attracted, whatever. Plenty more are.
No, no, no, no.
I've dated all over, from average to petite to almost chubby. My favorite body type is the petite "cheerleader" type however.
Some in line with mine, some below.
Six months.
No. I rarely pay for dates, but if I do it's a pretty cheap dinner at a cozy restaurant. I don't have the money to spend on other people.
A very small percentage.

smokingmonkey420 · 2017-06-22T14:32:04+00:00

Too many questions. I got shit to do, baby. I'm the ALPHA.

WhiskersNT · 2017-06-22T15:41:34+00:00

. 1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I'm like a 5. I'm fit but only have a medium build, a little on the skinny side, 5'10. Fade haircut, I wear a suit at work and otherwise dress like Mr. Peanutbutter from bojack horseman

2) Are you overweight?

No. I'm a bit of a gym rat

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

Total n is like ~30-40

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

6 relationships longer than 6 months, 3 longer than one year

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Hiking, bar scene, music scene, host and attend parties

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Wanted to, mostly did not, had no idea how to. I was with a long term girlfriend for most of college

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

No, a man should know how to get sex but beyond that it's kinda trivial.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Men that are able to are better than those who aren't

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I wouldn't say it like that

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No , it's my fault for not making the deal enticing enough

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

All of the above (no weed anymore tho)

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

No I generally only date women who are smaller than me, although I guess getting with some kind of amazon woman might be interesting. No fatties, if she's bigger than me that's a no go

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Generally date 6-7s

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

6 years

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

I'll do "I'll buy this round you buy the next," or just we buy our own drinks. Typically date for a girl I'm not actually in a relationship with is 1-2 drinks then go back to my house. So like $10. I'd only take a girl out on a proper formal date if I wanted to make her my girlfriend.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit

I'll ballpark it at 15% , most women are way too crazy to live with, so much drama and meddling, ugh gross

free_impregnations · 2017-06-22T16:09:15+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

4 in looks, 9 in personality. Think Jim Gaffigan but with a much better smile and no neuroses.

2) Are you overweight?

Yup. I'm tall so I hide it okay, but it definitely gives my SMV a knock.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

~10, over 20 years of dating. Most of my sex came from relationships. Most of the flings came after finding TRP.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

~7

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I play in a band (guitar & vocals), board game nights, video games, regional beer tourism

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Serial monogamy means little when you're a bunch of kids who can't stay in a relationship more than a few weeks. So technically, I did not participate in hookup culture, but I might as well have. This was back in the 90's in the South, so things were a bit different anyway.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Only in that if he has a high N count, that means he knows the game. And that a low N-count friend might be social suicide if I were going out at night to pick up women. Otherwise? Doesn't matter. It wouldn't make me, for example, more likely to hire him.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

I don't put one above the other, as long as they don't cheat. It all depends on what you want out of life.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Not precisely. If a woman can get an alpha to commit, they would. But yes, a woman can be swayed by commitment when she isn't sure she couldn't do better.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

Nope.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Drink. Play softball.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

I'm overweight and I have dated overweight women. Sometimes I get women in better shape than me. It's the personality.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Depends on whether you believe a woman's rating system or not. I believe, with my personality, I am of equal SMV to the women I dated. Someone looking at a picture of me might say I was dating above my SMV. I am currently married to someone below my SMV, because women's SMVs dive in their 40's.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

5 years

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No. I spent enough for lunch and an activity. I spent for two after sex, not before.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Just the ones that either a) I'd marry, or b) was a perfect roommate, paying for half of everything and cleaning their half, etc. So it's hard to say. How many girls would I be content to marry? Few, I would wager. How many women would be perfect roommates? Who knows?

Merger-Arbitrage · 2017-06-22T16:21:07+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

No point rating oneself, if you ask me. I can post a partially-concealed pic - hair style as a bonus. http://i.imgur.com/qLYEk5c.jpg

Clothing ... slim / modern fit mostly from European designers or some 'modern' American ones. Workdays I'm business casual or formal, though.

2) Are you overweight?

No. BMI ~22-23

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

3 if we count 'all the way' - never counted fondling/playing, but far more.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

2 (maybe 2 more if you count online ones from high school days).

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

None at the moment - though I'm not specifically sure what the full list of those is, per your definition.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Sure, a decent amount, especially if 'hook-ups' include lighter sexual stuff like kissing/touching.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Not really. Based on what I see in the Manosphere, I'd say the opposite maybe. More partners = lower value man trying to overcompensate for his various lack of success by feeding his ego with womens' compliance to sleep with him.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

They are no better or worse, so long as that's what they and their partners want.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

It might be the case sometimes, but not all the time. No strong opinion here.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

If a woman didn't give me casual sex, I wouldn't resent her.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes, yes, no ; used to (lift weights now, used to play soccer, baseball and do martial arts).

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

They have to be attractive as a whole package looks wise. I could go heavier or lighter than me. Given how lean I am now, my wife is actually a little heavier than me (she's size 4-6, 5'6).

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Comparable, naturally.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

My current one ; 8+ years (4 dating, 4 married).

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

Met wife in college. Didn't buy her much of anything till about 3 months after things got sexual and we were basically 'official.' She did enjoy my scratch made Margaritas, no charge, though, from the second time we met. Prior girls, same thing. It was college, I didn't have that much money, so it was mostly hangouts and scratch made Margaritas (mind you, with Patron Blanco, Cointreau, fresh lime and agave nectar). Paid.. $50? maybe for a girl I was 'hooking up' with while visiting family in Singapore during a summer break while we went out clubbing/barring.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Damn, hard to say. Gotta be <10% of all, probably closer to 2 to 5%.

ahahaucantbesrs · 2017-06-22T17:24:15+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

6 or 7. this guy actually looks kinda like me, except I dress like shit.

2) Are you overweight?

nope.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

More than 15, less than 20.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

3 or something?

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

stuff.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Nope had a girlfriend through college.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

No lol.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No lol.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Obviously.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

n/a

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

yes to all.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Depends.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Casual sex is kinda a crap shoot. I'd say on average they trend down 1-2 SMV points, but i've put down some unicorns in my time too.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

2 years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No. Not much.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

10%

wholesomedude · 2017-06-22T17:55:41+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

About a 3 (short, goofy-looking face). Don't know how I would go about finding guys who look like me.

2) Are you overweight?

Nope, skinny but with some muscle tone.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

2

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

About 7, most of them lasted about 3 or 4 months.

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I go to parties now and then I guess, and I play a lot of fighting games.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

I have yet to go to college, but the hookup culture isn't my thing.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

I don't personally respect a higher n-count man more, but I do think it's a direct indicator of him being more valuable. You know, preselection.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No, I see everyone as being equal.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I think women have sex with guys they are attracted to. Whether they give it freely or the guy has to commit depends on what the woman wants at that point in her life. I think anybody who has a lot of casual sex for a few years is going to start wanting something "deeper" after that.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No, because casual sex is easy to get. If I couldn't get it, then that means there's some aspect of my life that I'm heavily neglecting.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

I like going to social events but I don't dance, and look at me, I'm a wholesome dude. I don't drink or do weed. I work out now and then if that counts as playing sports.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Similar body weight, yes, but definitely more athletic. A lot of the girls I took an interest in and started dating in the past turned out to be into gymnastics, ballet, dance --shit like that-- which is what made them look so good to me initially.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

The most attractive girls I've dated were 9's.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

Two years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

For first dates? Not at all. The most expensive type first dates I'd do is the whole dinner and movie, but then we split the bill.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

About 5% lol.

max_peenor · 2017-06-23T02:58:08+00:00

I was asked to come fill this out, so here we go.

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I have been a solid 9 at one point. I knew I was there when some girl's mother told me in detail her daughter's description of me to the point it would have mortified the girl if she ever knew that conversation happened. I'm 50, so not there any more, though I still seem to do well enough.

2) Are you overweight?

Yes. I was two pounds from max weight when I joined the military and that was the last time I met the regs. Of course, I had 12% body fat when I was 10 pounds over regs. They had to do the measure tape thing on me constantly and the tank thing a couple times. I'm build like a brick wall.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

Dunno.

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

Two. One I married and in hindsight the romance was one sided. I was a dumb bitch.

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I played a lot of hockey. I spend a lot of time doing "military shit." I'm also one of those insufferable wine snobs.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Culture? Not sure what that means, but my college years were pretty productive in the ball draining department.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person?

Valuable? That's in worthless metric.

Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

It is irrelevant.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Better? Another worthless metric. They are better at getting sex, that much I know.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Lesser men? Better men? Ok, now I know why I was asked to respond to this. No. The answer is no because those are completely arbitrary judgements. Women seek sex from men that they find attractive. That's all you need to know.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

That's the road to hell and I doubt TRP regulars would think this sort of shit is ok.

11) Do you drink?

^{^{^}} insufferable wine snob

Dance?

No, but apparently I can do a mean "special ed" disco dance.

Smoke weed?

An occasional indulgence only in a social setting. One of my best employees ever is now one of the top growers in the US. I took very good care of him, but he's making an order of magnitude more now.

Play sports?

Hockey. Football when I was younger.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

As long as you aren't obese or scary skinny, weight hasn't been an issue for me. Just how I am, I guess.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Date? I don't date.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

I've been married 27 years. So to answer your question, it lasted about 18 months.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts?

Are they hookers?

How much do you spend on dates usually?

0.00

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Arbitrary metric is arbitrary.

QuestionablePresence · 2017-06-22T09:30:25+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

Around 5-6 purely physically, overall probably lower due to not bothering with stuff like hairstyle or fashion.

2) Are you overweight?

186cm/87kg puts me on the border line, I guess, but I don't look particularly overweight.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

0

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

0

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

None. Or, rather, I don't try to make my activities social.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

No. I don't think there was a "hookup culture" to participate in anyway.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

No.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

In general? No. But I can view at as a skill, and being skilled at something can be impressive.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

No idea.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No. If anything, I would resent myself if I tried and failed.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

No, no, no, yes.

12) - 16)

N/A.

squidracer · 2017-06-22T17:05:04+00:00

1: I think of myself as a 5. Had a girl years ago say I was a 9. I get called cute so maybe a 7? When I diet down I look like Pitt from fight club but with short black hair and bigger chest

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2: no

3: I think my N is around 40ish, I stopped tracking after 30.

4: 5 ltrs

5: running races, motorcycle, fishing, hiking, rebuilding cars, hunting, building shit, bars, bars, bars. Oh, and church

6: nope, mostly had two GFS, and a couple fwbs.

7: that's just silly

8: better how? I admire both guys who can play the field, and I also admire guys who are strong family men

9: I don't think women think that far ahead. They get horny, they get lonely. Their impluse control isn't that great as far as I can tell.

10: I think most guys would be ok without casual sex as long as they were getting committed sex

11: no weed

12: I date skinny girls

14: 6 years

15: I spent$20 last year and hooked up with 6 girls (not including gas)

16: I'm mgtow

Archwinger · 2017-06-22T14:49:26+00:00

1- 5

2- No. I'm skinny.

3- Zero.

4- 5.

5- Gym, various fitness classes outside of the gym, martial arts

6- No and no.

7- Yes, though the key word is "generally". In most cases, the kinds of guys every woman on the block wants to have sex with are the kinds of guys that most other guys want to be. But in some cases, a random idiot will slay pussy for reasons unrelated to being awesome.

8- Yes, but only if we complete the sentence. Men who have casual sex are better than those who want to and try to but don't because they are incapable of doing so. A man who doesn't have casual sex by choice, but could if he wanted to, is just as valuable as a man who can and does.

9- Yes, absolutely.

10- Yes.

11- Occasional drinking and sports. Can't dance. Drugs are for losers.

12- When I dated, I dated women maybe a little less fit than I am, but not out of shape. I'm married now, and my formerly fit wife never finished losing her baby weight and if she'd spend half the energy she expends coming up with excuses to avoid working out and eating right going to the gym instead, she'd be thinner than she was when we were dating.

13- Roughly equal.

14- A little over a decade. Still going.

15- Yes, if long term and serious. Maybe 50-100$ on dates, but less if I find something cheap or free to do.

16- 10%.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2017-06-22T16:45:19+00:00

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Tyler_Gatsby · 2017-06-22T15:04:51+00:00

Fuck it.

6-7, and I'm basically a brown eyed, not quite as attractive version of [this guy.] (https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-8qFbBvTHLfc/VTVdtgUNDBI/AAAAAAAABBk/xEL2uKhdFGo/w611-h607/Teen_Wolf_Season_3_Behind_the_Scenes_Tyler_Hoechlin_drunkencakepop_Oct_19.png)
I'm 5'11, 180-190 'Merican units, so mt bmi is about 25.
About 20-25ish
About 10ish
Used to be atypical party boy, now more of dad life, hanging out with other dad's.
Yes, didn't go/finish college myself, but had friends who did, and I've lived close enough to pick up college girls on their nights out.
No, and no
No, well only at possibly sex or pick-up
Not really, it's complicated, and worded like biased bait
No
Yes, when drunk, yes, not real ones. I do things like play frisbee, hike, bouldering, ride bikes, etc.
I'm all over the map. My only real rule is she has to weigh less than me for a relationship. I have a need to be able to pick her up, and play with her.
Usually less for a relationship probably, b/c women equal or higher tend to be too shallow and full of themselves.
About 2-3yrs.
Not really, but I expect dinner to cost at least $50. I like eating nicer than Applebee's, and that gives me a chance to do it.
Knowing what I know now, prob about 25% off the top of my head.

kunlangeta · 2017-06-22T15:40:38+00:00

6/10, 8/10 body (could improve only if I took steroids).

Going by BMI, I am overweight.

3,4)

Total number is 57, out of that 4 "serious" relationships (first being in hs). I don't know how much of the other 53 were whores, but I would guess around 20. The rest were mostly ONS and some FWB.

What is "social" hobby? Every hobby can have social component, anyway my current hobbies are gym and boxing.

No, I was in relationship at the time. I wanted to, but was too comfortable in relationship to break up and my SMV wasn't that high. I started lifting only my last year of university and I had other SMV issues that got fixed around that time.

Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person?

No, but it can be a good indicator. Like, I know a lot of men who would want to have high N count, yet don't have it, they are all low value.

There are men I know, who have N of one, and are high value.

Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Really depends on the person. But in general, yes it can be a skill I respect.

Depends on their goals, if men who don't would like to have it, then yes.

No. I don't think that qualities that women use for selection define a man as greater or lesser. But they do "reward" some behaviors/qualities and make men who don't posses them "pay" with commitment.

No, they can fuck whoever they want. I do resent them for lying about it.

Yes, yes, yes, no(unless you count hitting the bag and light sparring in boxing a sport).

No, woman with similar body weight would be fat. Usually less athletic than I am, but there was one FWB who was pretty athletic, did yoga and sex was pretty crazy. On the other hand, Id never date her cause she had history of drug abuse and sex for drugs few years ago, which left her single mother with unknown father of her child. It ended cause she was getting too attached. Also, most whores Ive been with exercise regularly.

Purely physical, they are 8-9. But, all taken into account, SMV is equal, otherwise I would have no chance.

3.5 years.

No. Depends, on the date, but 30 euro max. Sometimes nothing.

Eh, commitment wise, 0%. But, I did have FWB stay 2 semesters last year, at my place, for free (she bought her food and shit). She was pretty cool, deal was, no guys at my place (I don't think she fucked anyone else for that time period) and I even got few threesomes out of it.

says_harsh_things · 2017-06-22T15:00:00+00:00

16 questions is tough on mobile but im probably an 8, ive had around 15 sexual partbers, and yes, guys that have the ability to get casual sex are generally better guys, but not all act on it.

LewisCross · 2017-06-22T15:16:47+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I'm solidly in the "middle third". 4 on the worst day; 7 on my very best days. Something like this, with slightly better facial symmetry, older, heavier, and darker facial hair.

2) Are you overweight?

I'm borderline overweight but I don't look overweight. I'm overweight by raw BMI.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

10

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

5

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

singing, drama/theater, going to car shows, road trips, weightlifting

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Yeah, a little. Yeah, I wanted to.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Higher N does not necessarily mean "more valuable". A guy with higher N is a physically attractive guy who can get a lot of casual sex. That doesn't necessarily make him more valuable. It just means in one area of his life, he's "valuable" or higher value than others.

No, I don't necessarily respect a man who has had a lot of casual sex partners. But I will say that the guy who has had a lot of casual sex partners is doing something right.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Not necessarily. "Better" is a loaded term. "Better" how? Morally? Status-wise? More intelligent? The most that can be said about this is that men who have casual sex are better at having and getting casual sex than men who don't have casual sex.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Women reward more sexually attractive men with casual sex, but make less sexually attractive men pay for "commitment sex" with commitment.

Less sexually attractive men have a much harder time getting casual sex. Most of those men have to go all in on commitment to get any kind of sex whatsoever. Most "less sexually attractive" men do not get casual sex at all, ever.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

I used to. Not so much anymore, since I'm out of the casual sex game and have been for a long time.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes. Yes. Not since junior year of college. Yes some sports, a little, but not good at it.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

I have dated women of similar body weight. I've also dated obese women (many) and athletic women (maybe one or two).

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

Most were rough equals. Some were above me and didn't last long (as one would predict). The ones roughly equal or below lasted longer.

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

the current one. almost 23 years and counting. It certainly hasn't been "romantic" all of those 23 years.

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No, never bought "dates" expensive gifts, except many times I bought expensive dinners (never ever again. Money totally wasted.). Bought those only for women I was in relationships with.

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Now? If I were unmarried, none.

HitchensTwoPointOh · 2017-06-22T19:37:44+00:00

1 - 8/10 - When it was really popular I was frequently told I look exactly like Boo Boo Stewart playing "Seth" in twilight, except leaner with a few more pounds a done a very well done tattoo. 2 - no 3 - if I had to guess 75 4 - 2 formal girlfriends 5 - nothing much now that I work, most is work related (chamber of commerce events, community involvement, volunteering) 6 - I went from virgin to most of the aforementioned N in college 7 - yes because you actually have to work for it, though there is something to be said for the ratio of quality to quantity 8 - those who indulge are no better, it is the ABILITY TO DO SO IF YOU WANTED that makes you better 9 - of course, I have seen it happen many times. literally have seen girls I had ONS with get a not-as-attractive-as-me boyfriend the next week and see a post on social media about how he "worked so long and hard" to get her and that type of shit 10 - I don't resent women who don't put out, I resent myself because it means I am not attractive enough and must do more, it motivates me because they don't have any semblance of control who they are attracted to 11 - I drink once a month, and get obliterated when I do and this will be the one time I dance haha - used to smoke like a chimney but since stopped all drug use - no longer have any options for sports but still lift/run 12 - I would not have an official girlfriend that did not both watch her diet and consistently work out 13 - they were probably equivalent/slightly lower because that was back wen I was an introvert with no confidence 14 - 1 year exactly 15 - I bought absurdly nice things for my first girlfriend, she was the one who cheated on me. I didn't spend jack on number 2, and actually shamelessly used her and she was the loyal one that put out twice a day and did whatever I wanted. I never pay for a girl on dates now, I always make her go half, and recently I've been a fan of making them pay for me. 16 - I would only date a girl I was seriously considering marrying eventually anyways, but my standards for who I would commit to are pretty high, so I'd say maybe .2% of women in my age group?

Macheako · 2017-06-22T20:03:31+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I've been told on numerous occasions I'm some mix betwen Keanu Reeves, James DeFranco, And Mark Whalberg lol Personally, I think my actual face part looks most like Marky Mark, but my style puts me closer to DeFranco. Overall I'd probably say I'm about a solid 6-7. Especially if I give a damn about my appearance that day lol I'm a programmer so I just don't care much for fashion bull shit.

2) Are you overweight?

Definitely not as in shape as I was at 19 lol but overall, for 29, I'm definitely average build. I'm about 20 lbs from being pretty cut. 20lbs...which never seem to go away lol

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

2

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

3

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I play flag football with my buddies from work once a week, but outside of that, most of my "social interaction" has been reduced to online shit like here, and YouTube/FB, you know the drill. I used to be insanely social from High School to the end of College with parties every weekend and all that shit, but now, half my friends took off for california and left me in FL, not to mention I just don't have to time to live like that anymore, so I wound up mostly online since, again, being a programmer, 40 hours of my week was already at the screen :/ Still not sure if online CAN supplement for real face-to-face stuff, and while sometimes you can get REALLY close....it's so fucking rare that, I really do tend to think "Social Media", or anything social that doesn't involve actually being at the same geographic location, just doesn't deserve the name "social" :/ It's REALLY fucking hard to replace the dynamics of conversation and just hanging out like I had growing up. So yea...might have to just force myself off Reddit soon lol xD

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Absolutely not, it's an incredibly disgusting lifestyle and UTTER fucking waste of time. Women bring way too much drama, and to really do that shit right, you kinda have to dedicate a chunk of your life to it...which I wasn't willing to do. I was too interested in my own shit to really care about nabbin 20 bitches or whatever. Don't get me wrong, I had plenty a nights complaining how lonely I was lol but I never saw hookup culture as a viable solution to it.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Now this is a good question. I definitely took notice of the guys that got a lotta pussy, and eventually, I came to the conclusion "Women are fucking retarded and fall for THE WORST, most lazy, good for fuckin and nothin else, sacks a shit" lol. Like, even the fact that they were getting a ton a pussy didn't make me wanna be like them....because I fucking didn't like those guys or who they represented. They were always fucking lazy, full a shit, dumb, had TERRIBLE ideas, very little actual skill in life, low IQ, fuck heads. Even if I never got pussy again, it'd be worth it just to NOT be like those fucking losers lol. The ONLY redeeming thing they had was the amount of young women they had destroyed emotionally and anally, that was it! Fuckin wannabes. They got no REAL goddamn use to society, so they fuck a buncha dumb ass young girls to get their "status".....pieces of shit if ya ask me.

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

What kinda question is that? Better? How exactly? As men? Certainly fucking not. Better at talking a chick into fuckin him on the first night, maybe, but that'd really be it. The REAL "better" comes in staying power. Does the bitch get tired of you? Does she get bored with you? Shit like that. That's more or less what I am at. Maintaining shit, and doing it well, as opposed to the mere fact of doing it.

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I think most women are fucking MORONS when it comes to selecting a good mate, at least modern women. So I already have very little respect for the average bitches idea on who is and who ain't a good guy lol. Seriously, just LOOK at the fuckin idiots they waste their time on? Just making themselves, and him more miserable, it's HILARIOUS!!! lol those two shit bags get exactly what they deserve if ya ask me

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

Fuck No!!!!!!!!!!! What the FUCK is wrong with someone that they could ACTUALLY believe their own fucking horse shit about how "I'm entitled to casual sex"?!?!?!?!?!?!? It's seriously no different than women saying they're entitled to something. NOBODY is entitled to shit! It amazes me how Men think they are owed Womens' bodies....how pathetically weak do you have to be to hold such a view on Females. Jesus. Sorry OP, not saying this is you AT ALL lolol just.....man, this question still gets me to this day lol It's just an amazing world we live in, that's all.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yea. Drink, Smoke, and play Soccer, Football, and I used to Skateboard.

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Yea, more or less. It's really hard to come up with an objectivie definition for "fat" when it comes to women, but I think we can definitely come up with "whoaaaaa nelly!" lol Which, I try to stay away from. But I mostly go for Average to slightly below/above Average in terms of body, I don't care bout "weight", I just care about how she looks.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

well, in today's market women's SMV is HIGHLY overrated, so that's a loaded question really. I mean, do I think they could do better than me?......probably not lol Not even kidding, almost every single one of my fucking exes has ended up with a loser....I'm tellin ya, women are TERRIBLE at choosing mates lolol

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

3 Years

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

Depends on how long we've been dating. The price goes up with the amount of time. I try not to worry about this kinda shit though, I just look at it in terms of "am I spending too much", like, I'll ask myself "30 bucks is a lot for dinner...is she worth that much????" lol and just go with that, but I don't really care about keeping up that going tally or whatever. It's a dudes job to provide, so I'm a provide MF!

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Put it this way, it's not about percentage, it's about meeting the "right" one. 1%, 5%, 20%, whatever, all I know is that I look for the "right kinda chick". NOW, to give you my experience with that as a percentage though.....it ain't high lolol. I'd probably consider around 10-20% of most women to be "ready to go" in terms of LTR material. There's a larger, probably 40-50% of bitches that, while they aren't ready to go, they're definitely hungry for some leadership, so they could eventually become great women. And then there's the left over 20% which are basically lost fuckin causes and feed em to the wolves sorta hos lol. So yea, that seems to be about the general sphere in dating. It's REALLY hard to find an emotionally strong and healthy woman, it's common to find a chick with problems BUT she's not a fuckin psycho, and while it's less than common, it certainly isn't rare to run into the "Jesus, bitch, what the fuck is your problem???" lol

snailypop · 2017-06-22T20:19:29+00:00

1) many people say i look like drake or chance the rapper, but i'd give myself a 3 from the way i've been treated in my life.

2) no

3) 5, sadly i was just being used

4) 0 or one abusive one if that counts

5) sports, art galleries, reading, photography/filming, gaming, gym, racing, biking, live shows once in a while, building computers, fixing/building stuff,

6) no and no

7) yes, and i respect men based on there actions, work and intelligence. I've noticed woman respect players more than men.

8) im not sure, i guess yes since they have most of the sex

9) no, i believe woman give alpha men sex, but the alpha man isn't the better in my eyes. men who work hard and have morals i think are better, but woman just care about looks, status and money, if you dont have enough of those you will have to work very hard

10) maybe, i don't like casual sex anyways but i just hate being seen as not a human being. instead i get treated like a asexual freak or monster.

11) i drink and smoke occasionally, i take dance lessons and play sports.

12) i never dated, but i've had some woman interested in me only to fetishes me cause of my race which i hate, some more athletic, but mainly overweight.

13) woman don't date me, i don't look at woman sexually much anyways its all about the personality for me

14) 1 year if i count my abusive one, which is the only one i had

15) don't go on dates, but i would only spend what i can. spending responsibly is a good trait i believe.

16) from 18-39 perhaps 80 to 90%. from 40-65 50% cause i'm 22 but this is all from looks alone. a woman can be pretty but her personality is more important deciding factor, i would like a woman like myself which i feel is like 1% of the female population so im not sure. if this type of girl exist; a smart, athletic, kind, down to earth, open minded liberal girl who has ambition and can hold a conversation than im good to go

Butt-Factory · 2017-06-22T22:21:25+00:00

/u/prodigy2throw

This is the thread I'm referring to

MarketGiraffe · 2017-06-22T22:41:05+00:00

1) 4/10 physical looks

2) 185lb at 5'9'' with 20% bodyfat

3) 24 partners (15 of those were all in one year, the year tinder was released)

4) 3 relationships

5) Stock market, Crypto market, Skateboarding, Motorcycles, Offroading, Photography and film

6) Not really, i got some opportunities but most girls weren't into me.

7) Pass on this question

8) Pass

9) Good looking dudes get easy sex, if you aren't good looking yes you have to jump through a bunch of hurdles.

10) No its whatever, I got it one year and didnt enjoy it. I'd rather be in a relationship.

11) Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

12) I don't date anymore. The second to last girl i banged was obese, luckily made that up with a somewhat skinny girl after who did work out. Kind of has a horse face though.

13) Who knows. The girls i dated 5 years ago were much more attractive than the ones ive had sex with in the past year though.

14) 1 year

15) Nope.

16) 0%

bwwolff · 2017-06-22T23:04:11+00:00

This seems fun, so I'll go for it.

Female and gay friends have described me in ranges from 7-9, so i'll guess that 9 is an exaggeration and i'm between a 7 and 8. I'll show OP my face if you PM me. Otherwise, i don't know how to describe myself very well.
No quite fit actually
2, one ONS, and one FWB that i fell for and made me realize i wanted something long term
None.
Typically i go out with friends on fridays and saturdays to party, or go to bars, i like to swim with friends, shopping, video games, dinner and movies with friends are fun too.
Initially until the FWB thing
Nope. Making many gay friends in college cemented the opposite in my head since some of them would fuck anything that moved (raw), and catch STD's. i found it a bit gross.
No. The above applies to all people for me.
"Better" is way too subjective. Technically better could be "complete douchebag that you want to hate fuck and leave" for some people. I guess, define better?
No. If i can't get commitment from the ones i'm interested in, i'll probably lose interest though (as shitty as that sounds).
I drink, i played basketball and soccer in leagues for a while. now i play those two and baseball+football for fun here and there.
I'm pretty athletic, and that would really make my dating pool small to limit myself to that, so no. So long as she's lean/healthy, i'm fine.
Never dated any, but both my ONS and FWB have gotten me criticized by both guys and girls telling me i can do much better (part of me suspects a bit of jealousy from the pretty women who said that lol).
N/A.
Well, i think of my dates as more of taking friends out for a treat on me, so typically i pay for meals. This includes with my guy friends though.
If you combine personality and looks into my personal rating system, I'd say anyone 7 or higher. That's probably like, 15-25% of women at my local university.

jonxxii · 2017-06-23T04:40:12+00:00

How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

3/10

Are you overweight?

No

How many casual sex partners have you had?

0

How many romantic relationships have you had?

0

What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Social? None, my hobbies are all solitary.

Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

I didn't, It didn't bother me at the time

Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

I think a man who has sex regularly whether though causal hookups or a LTR is more valuable yes. I don't respect a man with a high N count more but I respect a man who's number is 0 less.

Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No

Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

No

If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No

Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes, only if drunk, no, no.

12-16: N/A

Entropy-7 · 2017-06-23T06:42:59+00:00

1) You have to take my age (50) into context but I would say 6. On multiple occassions over the last 20 years people have commented that I resemble Bruce Willis.

2) Yes. I need to cut about 10 pounds and then pack on some muscle. Currently BMI 27.

3) About two dozen, mostly ONS

4) 7

5) Nothing right now. I used to be into board games. I don't know if you would call it a "hobby" but I worked as a background performer (ie. "extra") for film and TV.

6) In undergrad, no and didn't want to. I wasn't in monk mode or anything, I just had a full plate and didn't really have the time or inclination for chasing tail. In law school I started down that path - went to all the frat rush parties and flirted with frosh girls a dozen years younger - but I ended up using telephone and online dating to find girls off-campus.

7) Zero corelation. Quality over quantity.

8) Sort of a trick question. I'm not that judgmental. However, the better man will have a low n-count and land a quality woman that he sticks with. The lesser man fucks skanks by the truck load. ("Better" and "lesser" are my personal value judgments in this case.)

9) You would have to define "better" and "lesser" in this context. There is SMV and RMV. Plus, the age of the woman makes a big difference. Young girl + high SMV guy = sex. Post-wall + high RMV guy + modest SMV = holding off on sex. I don't see it in terms of rewards and payments.

10) No, it's on me to be attractive.

11) Drink: yes, but I sometimes go dry for 6 months to a year at a time. Dance: learned a bit of salsa which sold me to my ex-gf. Weed: no. It's still illegal in Canada and my career paths - military, law, education - make it a no-no. Play Sports: No. I used to do fencing and various martial arts but that was a while ago. I walk, jog and lift when I exercise.

12) I tend to be attracted to skinny bitches. The BMIs of the last three girls I shared a bed with were 18, 19 and 20. However, I find buxom girls attractive if they have a 0.7 WHR and tits to match their ass. In terms of absolute weight, that gets a bit more hazy because it is related to height, and my present GF is 4'11" while my ex was 5'9", so almost a foot difference, and almost 40 pounds difference in their weight.

13) Higher, generally. My FWB was a fashion model and my ex could have been a model, and I would rate them both 8s. Current gf is the least best looking of my last half-dozen but she has personal qualities that appeal to me. I would say 6, but some might say 7 and various shitlords will say 5 or lower.

14) 3-1/2 years

15) Setting aside the $6000 diamond ring and $4000 trip to Thailand, generally no. If I am in the gift-giving mood then $20 at most works. For a date, the top end is about fifty bucks all in. That doesn't include airfare or hotels when that is in play. More typically, on a first meet, it is ten bucks or less for a snack and (non-alcoholic) drinks.

16) Percentage of women I date or percentage of women in the general population? For the latter, maybe 10% are in my target age range, maybe 20% or 30% I would consider good looking and of them, maybe 20% - at the outside - would be LTR material. So if you do the math 10%x20%x20%= 0.4% or about 1/250 women that you might meet on the street. In terms of the women I actually date, we are talking about 13% or so that I have actually lived with.

morsthepalerider · 2017-06-23T13:59:07+00:00

About an 8 I would say.
Nope.
60+
5
DnD, Rugby, Hockey, Bodybuilding ad Powerlifting, gaming, renn fest, reading and writing books.
In a specific sense yes, generally no. Depends on the quality of his partners. Quality over quantity.
Not always. Tend to be less whiney though.
Women reward high SMV men with casual sex in hopes for a commitment and punish lower SMV men with commitment in exchange or maybe casual sex if they have no other options.
No. Their choice, their call.
Drink, sometimes. Dance, I have 2 left feet. Weed, no. Sports, yes (see #6).
I'm a 250lb bodybuilder, so no. Nearly all women are less athletic than me.
Equal or higher
5 years
Sometimes if the occasion warrants it. Split the bill.
Less than 5%

Eastuss · 2017-06-22T09:15:03+00:00

1) 4 - 6/10, brun, small (165cm) built-fat. Soft high pitched voice that is kinda detrimental. Apparently I have seducing eyes?

2) yes, 75kg, but people usually think I am not. Overweight starts at 67kg for my height.

3) 1

4) 2, I met the second one at age 20 and am still with her 10 years after.

5) Used to try to meet people in any way possible. Now I don't have any special social activity

6) No, but I wanted.

7) I don't have an opinion on this.

8) I think that men that have casual sex or romantic relationships to be better than those who don't. I don't have any opinon separating those who have casual sex and those who have LTRs.

9) They make everyone pay for it with commitment, in my area, they expect the best men to be at their knees despite these women being obese and manly.

10) I don't know, I had decent amount of opportunities during my youth but was unable to validate those. If I was good enough to take advantage of them all my N count would have been probably superior to 10 by 20 year old.

11) No, casually, no, casually/work out routines.

12) I prefer women that have an hourglass/pear/A shape, no matter their body weight. Usually all my dates were normal/slim.

13) Women that expressed interest to me when I was clueless were of my SMV level or sightly beyond. When I started being a more efficient seducer I could aim higher. Wife's smv range could be from 6 to 8/10.

14) 10 years

15) I split things. But when I was 18/20 I used to date women that had basically no money because too young, so it felt more natural for me to pay for little stuff. Nowaday I would pay a drink at best, but would absolutely see it as red flag if she expects things to be paid for her. Wife and me regularly fight to pay for stuff, that's partly why I think she is valuable, in a sea of self entitled women.

BlackpilledIncel · 2017-06-22T11:09:35+00:00

How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10?

3.5/10

Are you overweight?

No.

How many casual sex partners have you had?

0

How many romantic relationships have you had?

0

What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

None.

Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

I'm not yet in college.

Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

My guess is that he makes for better relationship material. But I don't respect high N men more than other men.

Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

They certainly have a higher SMV.

Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Yes, but they don't do this consciously. Rewarding better men with casual sex is just the female biological imperative: sexual selection. When it comes to marriage, women tend to go for more stable men even if that means less attractive ones. This phenomenon is also prevalent in the animal kingdom, especially in primates, big cats, and canines, where the alpha male of the pack gets to procreate vastly more often while the other males work towards the whole pack's well-being by toiling or bringing up the alpha's offspring. AFBB. This is also part of the reason why so many women are opposed to mandatory paternity testing.

If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No, I resent my genes for not being able to get casual sex (or anything romantic at all). My skin is riddled with acne, bumps, and dark patches despite years of Vitamine B, Adapalene etc. treatment. My jaw is round and not well-defined. My eyes are far apart and make me look like an alien. On top of that, I have a pig nose. These are the reasons for my celibacy.

Women are just opportunistic, like everyone and everything. That's no reason for resentment. I do however resent women for constantly lying, deceiving, and shaming, especially when it comes to sex and relationships. Having grown up with mother that went through a rough divorce and two sexually active sisters, I know their hypocritical and wicked nature very well. Women twist and distort the past to come out as victims and reinforce other women in doing so too. They constantly shift blame and agency in order not to assume responsibility, they lie and deceive their way through life, they defraud and exploit men mercilessly for their own benefit. A rational discussion with logical arguments is not possible, it always derails and ends up with them yelling, insulting, shaming, and even smashing things. It is no different with unrelated females, though they don't act out in a public space but resort to more subtle shaming tactics, attacks on one's masculinity, and belittling.

Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

I drink occasionally but only alone and in front of my computer. I regularly hit to the gym and sometimes play chess, if these count as sports.

Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

I wouldn't date an overweight woman as being overweight is actually unhealthy and easy to fix.

The rest of the questions don't apply to an incel.

BPremium · 2017-06-22T12:40:27+00:00

1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

I'd rate myself a 6 in my local area. The guy I get told I look like the most is the bald bearded dude from Vikings. http://officialtravisfimmel.com/travis/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/Vikings-2.jpg

clothing: usually button up shirts or Tshirts, jeans/shorts. depends on weather, which is unpredictable here.

2) Are you overweight?

Since this queation was last asked, Im down another 15lbs snd another 1-2% off my BF%. Still dont have abs, but better than previously.

3) How many casual sex partners have you had?

about 6 (+/- 1 for foggy morning thinking)

4) How many romantic relationships have you had?

7

5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

I run semi often, participant in 5/10ks for fun or charity. I go to concerts or festivals if money allows too. Most of my friends and family are married or have kids, so I have to go to most stuff solo.

6) Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

Not in college, although I really wanted too. My casual time frame started when I moved out of my parents place to another city for work.

7) Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

Yes and Yes, but only if the women are young, thin and attractive

8) Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

Yes, but again, only if the women are young, thin and attractive

9) Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

I think women use casual sex to punch above their weight. Most women, from what Ive gathered, what relationships. But not with most men, and they use easy casual sex to entice the more attractive men.

10) If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

I resent having to work harder for something someone else got for free/very little, when it was even more valuable. I resent how little they have to do to get a much higher ROI, and poo poo it away like it means nothing.

11) Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes to all, although I only dance when drinking

12) Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

Nope. Im forced by the market to get with fat chicks cause any average to thin woman shooys exclusively for douchebros with abs. Id love to date someone my equivalent, where I wouldnt cringe being seen in public with her.

13) For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

3-4

14) How long was your longest romantic relationship?

Almost 2 years. Lived together for a yearish

15) Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

Now? No. Back when I was younger, fatter, and not as jaded? Yes

16) What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

Depends on what they look like, so I would say maybe 30ish %

HiDefFX · 2017-06-22T13:22:52+00:00

5, Maybe a 6 or 7 if I put effort into dressing that day (I buy a lot of street wear and sneakers, I might have a problem). I searched for about 5 minutes through black guys but can't find anyone who quite looks like me, they are way too good looking.
No, but I'm on the bulky side because I have some fat that is being stubborn and wont cut. 180 lbs at 5'10''.
4
2
Drawing, photography, weightlifting, graphic design (that basic hipster bullshit)
I do.
In my opinion it shouldn't, it's something I have been trying to move away from but I'd be lying if I said that it doesn't influence how I judge other guys. So yes, I would say I would respect him more.
No, people in a relationship probably have more regular sex than someone who is casually hooking up since you don't have to find other people. So you get more practice.
I've heard from one of my friends that she does the opposite, if she likes someone but not enough to see them again then casual sex is the move. But, that's her strat, I can't say the same for everyone.
No, If you want casual sex its a numbers game for both sexes, some people have higher and lower numbers before a "yes".
Yes to all four.
I use my body weight as a grounding, but will go higher or lower depending on the person
I'm actually pretty ignorant about SMV, I just learned about all of this, this year (pill theory and whatnot), so I don't know enough to make a good comparison.
2 and a half years
Not often since college life is tough out hear for ya boi, but not anything that is three digits. Concert tickets was the most expensive thing I have bought with somebody I was dating.
8% my personality is very hit or miss with people, because I'm more exaggerated with my actions (some people find it energizing, some find it annoying).

I hope that helps.

TheOneTrueMagnet · 2017-06-22T21:00:37+00:00

How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style?

It varies between 6 and 8. It depends on how aggressive I am feeling. Picture a muscular, bald black man around 6' with a bit of a beer belly going on. Clothing style depends on where I'm going.

Are you overweight?

I keep my body fat between 10 and 20 percent. Forever bulk!

How many casual sex partners have you had?

I lost track a long time ago.

How many romantic relationships have you had?

Real relationships? I would say 4, but I am no sure where to draw the line.

What social hobbies and activities do you engage in?

Bars, board games, dancing, camping, and kayaking.

Did you participate in hookup culture in college? If not, did you want to?

No and I did not want to. I didn't turn into a slut until after college.

Do you feel that generally the higher a man's N count, the more valuable he is as a person? Do you personally respect a man more if he has had lots of partners or casual sex?

No. No.

Do you feel that men who have casual sex are better than those who don't?

No. I do think that men capable of casual sex are better than those that are not.

Do you think that women reward better men with casual sex, but make lesser men pay for it with commitment?

Kind of. Women don't reward men. Men give out relationships. Women give out sex. Both form covert contracts all the time.

If you can't get casual sex, do you resent women for not giving it to you?

No.

Do you drink? Dance? Smoke weed? Play sports?

Yes. Yes. Twice. Not as much as I used to.

Do you date women of similar body weight? If not, do you get women who are more or less athletic than yourself?

No. If she is at the literal same body weight as me, then she either can't fit through the doorway or would scare the shit out of me. As for athleticism, she has to be in the same ballpark, but I'm not that picky about it.

For the women you date, how would you compare their SMV to yours?

The ones I date? As in relationship? Usually in the same ballpark as well. As for hookups, it is all over the place.

How long was your longest romantic relationship?

4 years

Do you buy your dates expensive gifts? How much do you spend on dates usually?

No. I don't give gifts. If she expects them then I tell her that she can go beg somewhere else. I don't spend much on dates at all.

What percentage of women would you hypothetically commit to enough to cohabit with them?

0%

ANTIFA_SARKEESIAN · 2017-06-22T15:59:07+00:00

These survey posts are boring as hell, can mods please put a moratorium on this shit?

Title	Survey for Men.
Author	snailypop
Upvotes	9
Comments	195
Date	June 22, 2017 8:57 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6isad5/survey_for_men/
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