People don't realize that the dating issues of younger men are not mainly their fault. They are being affected by political and social changes that happened way before they were born. Even brief emergencies such as the virus actually destroyed whole social networks in the middle of the growth period when socializing is paramount.

If they try harder, they will look desperate, which is even worse for men building their own life. They also may not have status to lose, but in this society status can actually go negative... they can be labeled, ridiculed online or considered creep even for looking to women's asses on a gym. Apparently, they "deserve it" according to a few feminists... of course, they are thinking about the "evil rich men" that fucked them while they were 19, but apparently that applies to all men.

People are also not very empathic to younger men, and telling them to "grow a pair" or "deal with it" for pointing out issues they have, while women's issues such as menstruation and moods are political issues.

It is very unfair for a generation, but if you are not into empathy, at least be selfish and know this generation will probably wipe our asses as we get old and decrepit. Is not it better to get old while on good terms with them?

No, women don't have to be "forced" to date those men, no one is saying that . Dating is fixed if you give those men opportunities to contribute socially. Women don't date losers, but if most men are subject to social and political forces they cannot fight, they will lose. Just give those men the options to grow as individuals, don't put college degrees and student dept as only way to succeed, encourage social cohesion, pay them fair wages, don't tax them for a while so they can save money, don't pedestalize female issues while put down male issues, don't demonize young men for what a minority of violent men do, allow male only organizations just as there are female organizations (for fuck's sake, let Boy Scouts be boys only!), etc.

Do you really think young men failing in jobs, economy, dating and everything else will be happy to pay taxes and work for a society that rejected them? Do you really think these men will really care about women, children, older people, infrastructure, etc. when they grow up? Nah, they would rather join Russia if it comes to invade us, growing up in a time when they see how many people got up in the social ladder and life and assets while they never even had the option to try.