After recently cutting off my ex-girlfriend who wanted to get back together, I was given some food for thought. I told her straight up that I was only interested in an open relationship at this stage, and therefore I had to cut her loose because she didn't want the same thing. In response, she resentfully texted me, "Enjoy the fuckboy life".

I've been lurking TRP for several months now, and I've been enthralled by the concept of it all; pulling women through self-betterment, career focus, and no tolerance for societal bullshit - it's all very much in line with my way of thinking and desire to achieve big success in life.

Despite all the great things TRP has to offer men in terms of personal development, I have come across an issue that I think needs some clarification.

Recently, I have noticed that a term known as 'fuckboy' has made itself pervasive in society. Simply put, women use the term 'fuckboy' to describe a guy who only has interest in a friends-with-benefits type situation with women - a situation that I, personally have decided suits my own desires perfectly. Basically, it seems that I am in fact a fuckboy.

However, the problem is this label is obviously derogatory, and it is certainly an issue when the women in and around your social group consider you something so petty.

Despite the accuracy of the term, I still feel it is a gross simplification of my person. I, like many of you, have decided that searching for a monogamous relationship with a woman is silly. Why would I want to limit myself to one when I can have several? Why would I commit to one when their commitment is so folly? (AWALT).

In my opinion, being a successful man means aiming to simply, get what you want, regardless of what others think. Monogamy, though it is probably more socially acceptable, is equivalent to settling, and that is not something I'm interested in.

And yet, despite the clear and reasonable rationale from the male perspective (obviously women will not see it this way), we men are still vulnerable to a belittling term; the fuckboy.

And so I pose 2 questions:

• How much does being known as a fuckboy hinder a women's likelihood of wanting to fuck you?

• How can you avoid being labelled as a fuckboy?