As a short guy I'm actually curious if anyone else has gotten into these little episodes. So far, its happened to me about 4 times within this year alone. Just to be anecdotal, on a first date out with this girl another dude (American tourist) came mid-convo first to tell my date how beautiful she was, which I left fly the first time (cuz i made a remark, "I'm lucky right"), the second time around he would make remarks like "Would the exotic lady like a dessert? with me?” and asking her contacts. Glares and ignores me, but glances and winks at my date.

Another time, I was out with a girl at a bar on a third-date, and she had this really cool purse that had a screen that changed graphics. One of the bartenders was nonchalantly hitting on her "Yo thats a cool bag! maybe we can play some smash on it later when i'm off". But I let that one go because he was just a bartender. Later though he came over doing the power lean on my table blocking my view from my date with his torso and kept talking her up.

I don't want to appear over jealous or possessive because I know how that can turn people off. Again this has happened 4 times within this year, how'd you respond? It would be rude to tell them to f-off and they might ignore me since im not a cop who have any authority.