There is a lot of blame being thrown around at women, there is a long list of things they are supposedly doing that is wrong, unfair hypocritical, etc. The real problem, however, lies with young men. Young men are flabby, weak, and underachieving in their careers and earning potential. Women have no interest in tying their lives to such men, they would rather go it alone than support a weak and pathetic man.

In a way it is not really fair to blame men entirely, because there are a lot of forces that are outside of their control. Males are being raised by single mothers and forced into schools run by women, where they are prohibited from fighting, competing, and developing masculine strength. They are also prohibited from rigorous physical activities that they want and need. It is not surprising that they are growing flabby and weak, and unattractive to women.

They are also forced to move through a school system that is punitive to masculine competition, rebellion, and independent thought, and instead only rewards compliance, which is anathema to masculine strength. Those who rebel are blocked from most lucrative careers, which further makes such masculine men less desirable to women.

So now we have a population of men who are flabby, weak, cowed into compliance, and very broadly unappealing to women, and those that fight this system are unappealing because they lack career prospects that are comparable to women, who fit quite well into the compliance required by the school systems.

In the immediate term, men just need to do both, comply and excel at school, and also make time to be active and work out. In the long term, however, we need to fight these horrible systems. Young men need to be freed from the tyrannical school system. Careers need to be opened so people can pursue them without the current school system. Competition needs to be restored.