I hear many people talk about "nice guys". Well, let's end the conversation and ambiguous chatter once and for all. What is a "nice guy" and why is it considered a bad thing to be? Inferring we can get down to the root of what a so-called "nice guy" is then we can come up with a better word to describe the behavior associated with being a "nice guy" and end this so-called negative association with "nice guys". There is no way in the world that a man who is nice to women suddenly becomes a bad sexual option. If Justin Bieber suddenly became a "nice guy", a good human being, righteous and a mensch IDT overnight he suddenly will fail with women or whatever it is people who use this 'slur' think will happen to men who are legit righteous people.

Also, remember likes attract likes. If a "nice guy"/righteous man wanted a slut, hoe (one night stand or a fun night with an escort if you're a man), or a "descendant of Cain" -- IDK the laws of nature or whatever you want to call it, let's call it God -- will allow such a union. Those types of women are used to the 'player'/f$ck boy and naturally are not used to traditional unions/relationships in the manner that "nice guys" offer. Players/sluts go with players/sluts. Women who are 'nice' also would probably be courted by nice guys or righteous men. Some women truly were not built to marry or be drawn to good men and good men need to understand that.

Simply put you can't be a 'nice guy' and expect to get one night stands at the club nor can you be a player and expect the same strategy used to get one a stand will work for a 'good Jewish girl' or a woman who attends church and is saving her self, etc., etc. you get the point! Let's talk...