I’ve noticed a lot of people on here are looking for ways to engage flirty conversations with the same or opposing sex and I figured I’d give you an idea or two.

He was working on his laptop and I was working on mine at the table right next to him. He smiled at me once, he didn’t hover nor did he stare at me to try and get my attention. About an hour and a half in, he stood up to get a tea and left a note on my table and walked off. On the note was a game of tic-tac-toe and a message that said something like “you could be the real black widow” and then proceeded to ask my name. It was as simple as that, we went through three, 6x6 pages front and back writing to each other until I told him I was in a very happy relationship and he was incredibly respectful. He then proceeded to ask if he could sit down to talk face to face and then we talked for maybe another 20 minutes.

Push yourself to do something that makes you stand out, it shows confidence and it’s memorable. Not every person will be interested, point blank. People have their bad days, but don’t let rejection stop you.

There is someone for everyone (:

Edit : 1. I am allowed to engage in conversations with another man. 2. I told my boyfriend immediately. 3. My boyfriend was not upset due to the fact he is secure with himself & our relationship. It may seem like a shock but, some people are not controlling. 4. I have been hit on by people who are far too aggressive and figured this was a cute approach to spark ideas for other people. 5. The conversation was simple things. I’m not going to be an asshole and say I’m taken at the moment a guy asks my name. I actually enjoy talking to people.