It comes from seeing a lot of guys act like being cooperative and accommodating as female traits, but then want to complain when women are generally more liked than men. Just like its somehow a “war on boys” because schools expect children to sit down, behave, and pay attention at school. Even though that was the standard throughout most of history, its somehow a “war against being a boy” because girls can do it better once given the same educational opportunities.

A common reaction I see from this sub when posting this video is “he did nothing wrong. The show insulted him by putting a man in there. Those women rejected him for being straight”.

https://youtube.com/shorts/_ke-Ep2Gu1E?si=Y8fH_Aiw649WfFSx

“Why do you always show this video?”

Because it shows how this sub doesn’t really understand how women (or just people in general) categorize good and bad behavior.  Not only does it show that they don’t know what a good man is, it also shows they care more about how they would personally feel instead of trying to be respectful to others. Justifying being disrespectful to a trans woman for merely standing next to cis women is very telling, as well as the transphobia.

This also goes into the whole “nice guys finish last” mindset where these particular guys don’t understand that being good means being good without expecting an award. Instead, they think that beta male pussy shit. Which tells you they believe genuinely being caring and giving towards others is feminine behavior. 

A big part of the reason I thought about making this post is because I noticed that a lot of men believed women communicating to men is threatening to punish their boyfriend (ie with dumping him) like a mother threatening to take her little boy’s Xbox away for not cleaning his room. Apparently its “normal behavior” to deliberately ignore all the complaints about you from your (supposed) loved one just because you think you’ll get away with it, like a spoiled CHILD with permissive parents. Again, selfish behavior being labeled “men being men”.

Last, but not least, wanting one-sided affection. I’ll get more into this later, but a huge example is who they consider to be cool or winning. It’s never the good guy in a loving healthy relationship because those guys are considered beta male cucks. They consider pieces of shit who have pretty privilege as winning. These men are able to get women to flock around them, even if it is by manipulative means, and they don’t have to give a fuck about any of these women.  Its beta behavior to actually enjoy the company of a woman. Its alpha behavior to use women as a means of stroking your ego through your cock. And of course, these men see being selfish assholes as just being a natural part of the male sexuality. Thats why whenever women call this out, they respond by falsely accusing women of hating sex. They can’t fathom that women want to be treated like people and that men can desire sex without bring assholes.

Also, here’s another video example, kind of:

https://youtu.be/TV8RfJVwaoE?si=Ogxt6mlVa75pVqgI

“But hot guys-“

But most guys are not hot enough to attract shallow women that will ignore a man’s shitty personality. At best, a man could get a woman who doesn’t believe in therapy, but so desperately needs it. 

Hence, why there’s an abundance of men claiming that they’re lonely and that “society just hates men”. They don’t see their selfishness as a personal flaw, but a normal part of being a guy.