It seems like the standards for men are being risen more since a few years and it will rise even more.

For men, its being beautiful (height, looks, penis size, er ) and even their personality should not give a hint of mysogyny even if he just hates any sexism, against both men and women. Even if he tries something, there is no proper feedback or guide for it that works and helps men figure it out. Like the return are not worth the effort to look good for men.

And the job and money he makes, which should be equal or more than the women. Like I heard most relationships where the women is the bread winner or earns more money have more abuse than others, if the victim is the man.

And there is a sense of entitlement whenever women mention that they know a women who is highly succesful and intelligent and most men reject here for that and dating has been hard for her. If a guy said said this, people would critisize him for thinking women owe him if he is earning more money or is successful or smart.

And the way men are reacting and how society and everyone is double downing on it, I feel like there will be a lot of men who would either give up or get burnt out and stop dating completely.

And this added with male hate and putting down men is increasing a lot which just makes it much worse for the men to feel positive about life.

Most men just have no self esteem or confidence in themselves.

And it seems like this will go on for a long time.

Edit: like I literally seen some posts here where some dude were arguing with women that most women are lesbian/bi with more learning onto women but date men cause it is hard to date women or that most women are facing comphet and some crazy sht.