They start young...

IrritatedMango · 2020-04-24T14:02:29+00:00

I felt grim reading that.

LetsGoAstros22 · 2020-04-24T15:38:33+00:00

She needs to keep a rubber door stop with her at all times and wedge it under the door every time she goes to the bathroom or in her room. And she needs to keep a detailed record of all this and call CPS every time it happens. That boy ain't right in the head.

politecranberry · 2020-04-24T14:11:11+00:00

Sickening.

My 12 year old neighbor used to do this shit, to a lesser extent bc I didnt live there obviously. Touch me. Say things like he wanted to get me pregnant. I was 17 maybe? I told his mom, she basically said the same boys will be boys, and then told me to punch him if he said those things (she was just as awful as her kids, and later accused me of sleeping with the boyfriend she cheated on her husband with. Mom is toxic physical & emotional abuser, son's are too now. So glad there were no daughters in that house bc very little doubt older bro would have abused them sexually). I ended up just refusing to interact with the whole family bc yeah they try and laugh like its normal? No, I won't babysit your budding sex offender/sociopath.

He goes to college this fall, & I seriously fear for his classmates. If he hasn't hurt someone already I really have no doubt he will in that enviornment.

siberiansummer · 2020-04-24T15:20:16+00:00

OMG!!! This is outrages!! She should punch him in the face!! How is this even possible?!

DaeYeNoKen · 2020-04-24T14:36:43+00:00

Full text in case it's taken down

My (22F) nephew's (14M) behaviour is absolutely disgusting and inappropriate.

📷/r/all

I'm sorry. This is going to be long. I'm currently living with my sister, her husband and her kids (son, 14 and daughter, 10) I honestly wish I had just gone to my parents but this pandemic came out of nowhere so I'm stuck with this stupid kid instead.

My nephew has no sense of boundaries or personal space. He's constantly invading my privacy and he's annoying the fucking shit out of me. I swear I'll punch him in the face if this situation doesn't resolve soon. This kid is a fucking demon, I swear to god.

My nephew is strange and his behaviour is even more so. He's constantly trying something sexual with me and getting angry if/when I tell him to go away. Let me try and make a long list of the things he's done. Here:

• grab my breasts. • grab my butt. • slap my butt. • try to shove his hand down my pants • bang on my bathroom door when I'm trying to take a shit in peace • try to peek when I shower • shove MY fucking phone in HIS underwear and taunt me to take it (DISGUSTING) • complain about women dominated society and how he's not getting any and women belonging in kitchen or some shit (THE FUCK HE 14) • Come into my room at night and try to touch me while I'm ASLEEP. (I check if I locked the door a thousand times before going to sleep now) • sniff my bra/underwear/any laundry really • try to flirt with me constantly • try to kiss me on the mouth • sniff my hair from behind while I'm innocently chilling on the sofa • cry I mean BAWL HIS EYES out with full on tears and snot if I say anything and run to his mother • complain to his parents about me, about how I hate him and get angry at him and "torture" him • keep pestering me asking if I have a boyfriend/if I'm virgin/or ever had BDSM sex

He's a demon. I hate this kid and I will kill him. I can't deal with this shit. Why is HE LIKE THIS? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THIS KID? My sister and her husband just laugh it off like it's nothing. "oh he's just being a kid." "He's 14. It's due to puberty and hormones" "Please ignore it. You're older and smart. You need to understand he's a kid and he'll do kid stuff and he'll make mistakes" HELL NO THIS KID IS A DEMON IN DISGUISE.

Why is his behaviour like this? Can anyone tell me what in the world could cause a 14 year old child to behave in this disgusting, absolutely repulsive way? I'm having a little trouble understanding.

My sister is also not helping. Nephew is very spoiled and my sister is turning a blind eye to everything. If I say "No, you can't touch me there" He'll shed a single tear and my sister comes running in "oh my baby what happened" Jesus. My sister is turning him into a monster. How can I survive the rest of this quarantine? What do I do? How can I make my sister understand that she's raising a monster?

Edit: do you want to know what the fuck just happened? My sister just asked me to play video games with the psycho in his room because he's upset over something and since I'm his "favourite" aunt he'll cheer up if I play with him. Yeah, thanks, no fucking way I'm doing that. I'm in my room and just want to say that this child is a psychopath. I truly believe that. No way he isn't. There is no way.

TL;DR : nephew has no sense of boundaries, keeps trying to have sex with me. How can I survive the rest of this quarantine with him? What do I do? How can I make my sister understand that she's raising a monster?

Nikita_kitty93 · 2020-04-24T16:30:07+00:00

Oh Lord..I would have slapped the shit out of this kid for real. I would not be able to tolerate such behaviour.

Buckley92 · 2020-04-24T14:39:35+00:00

i don't know what could be making him act this way

Porn sis... He's been watching porn.

Pipulka · 2020-04-24T13:59:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/g7509i/my_22f_nephews_14m_behaviour_is_absolutely/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

jewdy09 · 2020-04-24T18:07:22+00:00

I babysat this little boy in college every weekend for quite a few years. When he was three and he would cuddle up on my chest or bang his head into my cleavage it was endearing. When he was ten and he walked up behind me while I was sitting at the table and caressed my breast, I backhanded him hard in the chest. It was a knee-jerk reaction and I didn’t feel bad about hitting him because no one is allowed to do that, not to me or anyone else, without permission.

quaintlyspoken · 2020-04-24T21:49:22+00:00

Ladies,

If you dare bring a male child into this world without them being properly raised this is the demon you release into the world.

You better abort that little shit if you're not going to put in the work to make sure they're raised with zero tolerance AND disown them when they step out of bounds. Sick of mothers choosing their demon spawn over the safety of women and girls.

LVMs and Pickmeishas should not be having children ffs.

sometingwicked · 2020-04-24T16:25:12+00:00

I just saw this post!! The top comment is fabulous. This predatory behavior absolutely needs to be reported and his parents are ignoring it. I hope this woman follows through and reports it and it seems likely that she will. That family needs professional intervention.

His mother completely enables that kid and both parents are in complete denial. I fear for the safety of his 10 year old sister when his aunt finally gets out of there.

wyethwye · 2020-04-24T15:35:51+00:00

God I was just reading that. That kid is addicted to porn at 14 and lord how are his parents just turning a blind eye. I literally can't.

appleadam123 · 2020-04-24T17:21:55+00:00

She should record his behaviour and then show it to everyone in the family.Crazy how every women in comments have similar stories still they want us to believe young boys are some innocent visionaries..I would have punched him in the face.Bet this disgusting little man is watching too much porn.

MuseofPetrichor · 2020-04-24T18:28:49+00:00

Kill it with fire.

ivy176 · 2020-04-24T16:30:52+00:00

Oh shit, sounds like this child is getting on red pill forums and watching violent porn.

All of that is sexual assault. I'd call the police if I was unable to leave, which is a common situation the pandemic is creating.

What the hell are his parents doing to address this? Anything? Sooo abnormal.

xxlacey3110xx · 2020-04-24T18:30:29+00:00

I read this and it deeply upset me. There are so many things wrong in her situation. The fact that he is making such unwanted advances, the dismissal by the parents, the steady escalation of things. Boys need to be taught from a young age that they need to respect women. It’s not funny or “boys will be boys.” Can’t believe the mom is okay with willingly teaching him rape culture.

Aurore11 · 2020-04-24T19:17:13+00:00

Imo, other than the option that the kid is naturally depraved, it may very well be a porn addiction, like everyone said - but also exposure to incel, red pill and manosphere propaganda. The idea that women are running things and that's why he is single is straight out of manosphere handbook. A 14 year old kid doesn't just come up with that on his own.

Not to mention that it's perfectly normal to be a virgin at his age, even at 18 or 19.

Honestly if I ever have kids, wifi time is gonna be severely limited. This is very disturbing.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-04-24T17:13:45+00:00

Time for the nephew to receive a slap that leaves a mark

ilike2snap · 2020-04-24T15:02:29+00:00

When I was in high school, my boyfriend’s sister’s son (8-10 years old) would act similarly. He’d try to barge in on me while I was changing when we’d stay with them and hold up my bikinis to my chest to “see what they’d look like,” etc. It made me so uncomfortable. And I was so insecure and uncomfortable around the whole family I didn’t know what to do. Didn’t help that the boyfriend was already sexually abusive and his whole family constantly turned a blind eye, letting him hide away in his room with me with the door closed for hours and putting us in a private room together during getaways (against my parent’s fervent wishes).

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-04-24T17:08:14+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with this child's parents? I have a son (age 7) and if he ever behaved like this with anyone, there would be very serious consequences. His dad and I both talk with him regularly about the importance of respecting others' boundaries and personal space, and treating others the way he would want to be treated.

I fear that age 14 is far too late to start trying to enforce this kind of basic life shit. Now this demon child is basically doomed to be a deviant his entire life. OP needs to get the hell out of there asap and never go back.

MacDurce · 2020-04-24T18:51:26+00:00

Can’t understand why she isn’t there for his sexual gratification cause he’s melted his brain with porn scenarios of men fucking family members

18thjanuary · 2020-04-24T18:43:30+00:00

I would punch him in the face I don’t care if he’s 14

rinabean · 2020-04-24T17:54:17+00:00

Is it young? I remember what the 14 year old boys were like when I was 14.

If that's what he'll do to his adult aunt god only knows what he'll do to girls his own age.

Reachingout365 · 2020-04-24T18:07:58+00:00

This is scary.

I don't feel like it was this bad even in the 2,000 like this teenage girl was telling me how sometimes she even catches them watching porn hub in class.

They're so amused and unashamed about abusing women and getting off to it, increasingly younger now...

(I realize this is a thing that has happened before today it just seems way more intense and rampant now to me idk but holy shit WOW. That is terrifying.) I mean 14. Imagine how much worse he will get as he ages.

This is boy sounds like very likely potential rapist.

Warrior-Kai · 2020-04-24T18:58:00+00:00

I can guarantee he is watching porn.

virginofguadalupe · 2020-04-24T20:50:07+00:00

That story was horrifying. I can’t believe everyone just let him commit sexual assault.

PooPooMeeks · 2020-04-24T18:56:27+00:00

No way should she have to be stuck there if she’s a grown woman. I REALLY think she should talk with her parents again. Even checking out potential women shelters in the area would be a good idea. Call 211 and see if there are some resources out there she could go to. She could work Instacart or something to make Enough money to look for a room. Something, anything, geez...

ms_monquis · 2020-04-24T23:06:19+00:00

This is a parenting failure.

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-04-24T18:32:17+00:00

I would straight up say it if I were her. I would be pissed if my sister didn't believe me.

Shaakie · 2020-04-24T21:57:20+00:00

If a family member ever touched me i'd go apeshit and hurt them bad, doesn't matter who it is. Only exception being young kids.

2020-04-25T00:11:26+00:00

Wow. Wow wow wow. This is what happens when you give little boys unfettered internet access with no supervision. And then don't parent your kid.

It's fucking horrifying how young these little predator boys are starting to harass and assault women.

hilariouslystated · 2020-04-24T22:56:52+00:00

Wow. That is not normal. I am curious as to whether he was raped or molested as a child, maybe by a family member or baby sitter.

sunflowerthelight · 2020-04-24T19:47:48+00:00

Pathetic!

happyposting · 2020-04-24T23:36:29+00:00

This is terrifying I feel so sorry for what she’s going through From experiencing similar things my entire life, I’ve decided I’m never having children. Not because I don’t think I could set boundaries, but because I know other people can’t. Knowing a child is running around like this only makes me wonder how many more there are. Makes me not want to leave my fucking house.

PicklesNBacon · 2020-04-24T20:18:01+00:00

Gross...she needs to tell his mom what a creeper he is

StrawberryMoon3 · 2020-04-25T01:31:45+00:00

I would've bashed his face in already. I wouldn't care if he's my nephew. This kid is ruined by porn and he's probably already harmed girls in his school. He needs to be taken out.

emmgdac · 2020-04-24T18:17:31+00:00

Is the og post still up? Would like a link, please

CourtneyTrinique · 2020-04-24T19:57:18+00:00

So what are his parents doing about this I would LOVE to know. Sounds like they ignore this behavior and it’s disturbing. I wonder if he does this to the sister...I’m just grossed out by all of this. She needs to leave that house.

friendlyspottedhyena · 2020-04-25T13:11:12+00:00

Stop calling this a kid. That's no child. This is a malicious, misogynistic sex offender. A malignant predatory creature that would gladly rape his little sister given a chance, and probably already has.

HappyHandstand · 2020-04-29T08:30:30+00:00

Maybe he was sexually assaulted? That's really weird he's only a child if you think about it

Title	They start young...
Author	Pipulka
Upvotes	536
Comments	87
Date	April 24, 2020 1:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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My (22F) nephew's (14M) behaviour is absolutely disgusting and inappropriate.