I've been applying FDS principles for a while now. But I am now in a party mode with the spring kicking in. I have less responsibilities compared to few months ago, I am relaxed and laid back. This will be my first experience of holiday mode with FDS principles. Unfortunately, I developed nasty habits of partying when I was a libfem back then and I dunno how to reverse it.

When alcohol kicks in, I find it veery hard to say no to sexual stuff. Also, I find it generally hard to not feel aroused near an attractive guy who is clearly interested in me and doing his moves. Guys have their moves, you know. I can see through their horsesh!t. I know and I deeply acknowledge how low their mindset is compared to mine. Therefore, I no longer romanticize or fall for them. I have 0 crushes since FDS. Buuuut, I cannot stop myself from being aroused. I just cannot. For example I meet a guy (not a date), we keep chatting, and then we get tipsy, then he makes few moves, he touches me once or twice, then conversation gets more and more stimulating, and then before I know it we are making out. After this point I find it impossible to say no to sex, because I want it too. But I want to avoid casual sex. I am literally hormone-trapping myself to this dude whom I don't even have a crush on. Casual sex is scam, it's dangerous and it clouds our judgement because of female hormones. I know this by heart. Yet, my horny alter-ego shows up and lets them in.

How do you avoid this? How do you put off sex when you have no interest in turning this into a relationship? Am I just horny or is something wrong with me? I am thinking about quitting drinking all together but we all know that such harsh reactions create bigger comebacks. At least for me. Pff sometimes I wish I was a virgin bc I wouldnt be so eager to have sex with anyone I find doable, swh.

EDIT: For those who have the same problem, I have summerized the solutions suggested below:

1) To me the most surprisingly common suggestion is to get a sex toy. Womanizer is the most popular answer.

2) Avoid drinking/getting drunk with a man.

3) Meet in public places where casual sex is impossible even if you want it and make sure you cannot go somewhere quiet to have sex.

4) Consider quitting drinking or at least learn how to drink less.

5) Give yourself a night of pleasure when you are ovulating (a.k.a horny a lot)

6) Find a group of friends to hang out and have fun with or without drinking to let go of the built up stress

7) If you want to party and get drunk, do it with your girlfriends and they should not let you go to home with a random dude.