This is assuming men are from western countries like USA, UK, Canada, Australia etc. which I assume most men in the red pill communities are. If you are not from these places, this doesn't apply.

Western women are just never going to fit the red pill requirements for a relationship - not obese, feminine, submissive, kind, non-confrontational, not bitchy, non-feminist, not into the "woke" movement, not a career woman, supports her man and puts him first etc. It's rare if not impossible to find a woman like this in western society these days. Every woman is bound to have at least a few of these dealbreakers.

And if you're not a Chris Hemsworth or Zac Efron lookalike, women just won't have genuine desire for you. They consider average men a burden and prefer to remain single.

"But but but I see plenty of men with girlfriends/wives" - yeah but do the wives actually have strong desire for her man? are these men actually getting regular enthusiastic sex? are these men really happy? The answer is probably not.

So I believe the only option is this: travel abroad, either to eastern europe, south america or south east asia, and find a woman who does fit all the red pill requirements for a woman. These cultures are filled with such women who are feminine, not fat, submissive, not feminists, prepared to put her man first etc. Yeah they are still going to have some demands and requirements from you, but at least they offer so much more. Their demands will be lower too - a 5'10 man (average height in west) is tall in asia. An average income man in the west is rich in asia, south america and eastern europe. You already fit their requirements just by being an average westerner.

Compared to the angry, obese, masculine women in the west, who demand men to be tall, fit, handsome and make 6 figures, it's a no brainer that pursuing foreign women is the only option for average western men.

Sorry for the long post. I hope it gets read! What do you think?

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EDIT: Ok it seems like most people here are saying that these women are just using you as a meal ticket/passport to a better life. Which might be true. I didn't say this is a perfect solution. It's just a better option than remaining in the west, where you have angry, obese, masculine, bitchy, confrontational women who demand tall, muscular, rich, handsome and will dead bedroom you. These women at least offer femininity, submissiveness, loyalty, not obese and other good things.