The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.

Lovethoselittletrees · 2018-01-15T18:50:18+00:00

We have officially entered the age of "I'm video taping this entire date / encounter for my own protection"

rainman206 · 2018-01-15T18:21:03+00:00

It's powerful that she said in text that "he just wanted to fuck me."

Yes, that seems totally accurate. He clearly wasn't interested in a second date. He just wanted to fuck and there's nothing wrong with that.

The mistake Aziz made was that he didn't ask her to leave when it became clear she didn't want to have sex.

Her mistake was she didn't reconcile herself to the reality of his intentions, and simply leave.

Men ALWAYS look like the bad guy in these kinds of incompatible situations. It's bullshit.

Atheist101 · 2018-01-15T16:16:23+00:00

The takeaway here is that strong, independent women cannot be expected to remove themselves from situations they don't want to be in, even when nothing is preventing them from doing so.

As such it's men's responsibility to make sure we never make a woman uncomfortable, lest she publicly announce that she was once uncomfortable around us, and we receive the completely just punishment of ruined careers and reputations.

HeFirstLovedMe · 2018-01-15T19:24:37+00:00

"the two women may have destroyed Ansari’s career, which is now the punishment for every kind of male sexual misconduct, from the grotesque to the disappointing."

Damn so true their are sexual misconduct that should ruin people's careers this is NOT one. This girl is disappointed and angry and took it out on Aziz.

AndrewFGleich · 2018-01-15T16:44:04+00:00

I'm going to sound like a /r/niceguy here, but it's these sort of stories that make it really hard to move forward with any sort of relationship or social interaction. If a popular and generally good guy gets accused of this stuff, why am I going to risk getting accused of rape with someone I hardly know?

MissMahtava · 2018-01-15T23:19:47+00:00

She was looking for a rich / famous boyfriend. He wanted a hook up. She’s mad because she isn’t getting the pay out she wanted so she’s running his name through the mud. This is the world now, end of story.

bullsi · 2018-01-15T22:09:40+00:00

Did nobody else notice the girl never said “no”, it’s funny that these stories have that in common isn’t it?

They never once say no or try to leave...odd right?

chambertlo · 2018-01-15T20:18:29+00:00

He was a 'woke' male to females plight. Now he is woke to reality

SleepingSheeple · 2018-01-15T16:45:00+00:00

There is nothing “temporary” about this. There is a growing army of white knights that think they are going to impress women with their feminism. These white knights are going to keep feminism in power until civilization has been destroyed.

McFeely_Smackup · 2018-01-15T17:40:37+00:00

This is directly on the forecast of "stuff we now consider sexual misconduct", completely predictable from the point where we decided Louis C.K. had done something inexcusable by asking for consent of women who "respected him too much to say no".

If you think this has hit bottom, you're wrong.

Feminized society has been stigmatizing male sexuality for generations, and now has found the opportunity to criminalize it as well. I honestly pity young men today, they're navigating a minefield every time they leave home.

Surtysurt · 2018-01-15T18:40:59+00:00

She was fine with oral, but not sex on the first date? And as long as it's on her? Draw better lines woman.

a_posh_trophy · 2018-01-16T01:10:17+00:00

So now women are essentially sleeping with celebrities for money, and if they don't get their share, they pull out the sexual harassment card? Is that right?

2018-01-15T22:53:02+00:00

Franco gets and award... accused. Ansari gets an award... accused. Im starting to see a pattern. Guys if you date a girl, but also plan on success, she is now permanently your girlfriend... cuz she NEED DAT MUNY AND PRESS

aokusman · 2018-01-15T22:41:57+00:00

Nothing she wrote arises to sexaual assault. I dont get people calling him a creep for wanting sex.

c_anderson1390 · 2018-01-15T19:41:24+00:00

She went to his apartment after the first date and let him perform oral sex on her in the kitchen and she was offended that he expected sex? Wtf, you got yours love all he wanted was you to return the favour.

Consilio_et_Animis · 2018-01-15T16:39:41+00:00

Live by the sword and yea shall die by the sword: Ansari supported #metoo and other feminist crap, and now he’s a victim of it all. And yet he still says he supports “women” even now!

Imposterbatman · 2018-01-15T21:28:52+00:00

I am so fucking happy I'm out of the dating pool.

unbelievablepeople · 2018-01-15T21:56:01+00:00

The woman who made the accusation against Ansari says she told him, "You guys are all the same, you guys are all the fucking same." I wonder why she considers it acceptable to lump all guys into one category. I'm sure she wouldn't think it's OK to lump all women together, or all gays together, or all Latinos together, or all Jews together, or whatever. But she's cool with lumping all men together.

Mlusted · 2018-01-15T18:34:28+00:00

This article isn't reporting, it's basically blogging. Look at how this author makes it about herself every other line.

ethos1983 · 2018-01-15T18:36:29+00:00

I thought it would take a little longer for the hit squad of privileged young white women to open fire on brown-skinned men. I had assumed that, on the basis of intersectionality and all that, they’d stay laser focused on college-educated white men for another few months. But we’re at warp speed now, and the revolution—in many ways so good and so important—is starting to sweep up all sorts of people into its conflagration: the monstrous, the cruel, and the simply unlucky.

No. Just no. Justice is not supposed to be based on color, nor gender, nor anything like that. Crime should be punished, the guilty punished. Period.

"There was no problem when it was just white men being targeted, but now that the mob has moved on to men of color, there's a problem".

Macheako · 2018-01-15T17:54:23+00:00

Aziz defended these same women.

Hope he enjoys the bed he made.

mcmur · 2018-01-15T23:28:49+00:00

The irony about this is that he’s such a shameless feminist too. Just goes to show you even if youre a good boy and tow the feminist line it still won’t protect you from a woman’s scorn. He had some episode on his show master of none that was all about how hard everyday life is for women and how easy things are for men. I love when these guys who preach the gospel of “me too” and “always believe the woman” get accused themselves then watch as they totally reverse their positions reeeeeal quick when they are the target of an accusation.

Jex117 · 2018-01-16T00:48:40+00:00

I want to feel bad for Aziz, but after his endless pandering to feminists and preaching his soyboy rhetoric, I feel only grim satisfaction.

You dug your own grave Aziz. You personally helped to contribute to this paranoid atmosphere, and now it's come back to bite you. Suck it.

2018-01-15T21:22:08+00:00

very, very dangerous.

jesus christ what happened to journalism? This reads like a middle school english class.

Also why is this even a story? Girl says she thinks a dude was a douche bag on a date...

k.

Bolware · 2018-01-15T22:25:15+00:00

I didn’t like his attitude whaaaa! I was uncomfortable whaaaaa! It was assault that he just wanted some ass! Whaaaaa!

Slowmexicano · 2018-01-16T00:35:00+00:00

Luckily I’m not famous so doubtful to be in this situation as no girl will want to have sex with me for my celebrity. Or at all. Period.

putamanoutofaplane · 2018-01-16T07:46:26+00:00

It's truly strange that the author, even in her middle ages, seems totally ignorant about the fact that it's women's hypergamy that leads women to these situations where "every man is the same". If they dated average joes the problem wouldn't exist. But when they "all" want these "alphas" they are going to end up with guys who take advantage of the situation.

Who could tell women what they are and where it leads? Apparently nobody is telling at the moment.

Morden013 · 2018-01-15T20:08:00+00:00

Is there anybody in Hollywood who wasn't raped?

Actually, if this continues, the only actors left will be all actresses and Tom Hanks.

I love the guy, he deserves the role of the best actor, but he can't pull off all the male roles.

IKnowVeryMuch · 2018-01-15T23:14:00+00:00

I thought it would take a little longer for the hit squad of privileged young white women to open fire on brown-skinned men. I had assumed that on the basis of intersectionality and all that, they’d stay laser focused on college-educated white men for another few months. But we’re at warp speed now.

What a great quote

GreyTortoise · 2018-01-16T03:48:31+00:00

"Temporarily" powerful? As if this has not happened for uncounted time until now? A woman claims a man did something and there is an immediate stigma. They have always had this power, it's a scientifically proven phenomenon called the 'Women are Wonderful' effect and it's a huge piece of the gynocentrism that runs our social world.

What we are seeing is a first, second, and now third wave of feminism have come to pass. Indeed in the past there was a patriarchal social structure in the West, and it was designed with the chivalry of old in mind. Coddling women so they might feel safe, provided for, and easier to court.

The first wave came, achieved basic rights that were well-deserved for a better-functioning society. The second wave came, brought about better social standing and a more equal view of women in all facets, and with its coming the male-based structure of leadership slowly became all-inclusive.

And the third wave...like the Third Reich it came lashing at those it might call its 'old enemies', it would see many silenced, disadvantaged, dehumanized while offering absolute safety to its own at extreme cost to any who could possibly be called a threat, true or false. It did this, and we have finally all begun as a society to feel appalled that we would do this to our own neighbors and family, let what was supposed to be a voice of liberty and equality shout down a large portion of the population because of who they were. The authoritarian assault on men's right to equal parenthood, denying funding at all costs toward battered men's shelters, demonization of the male gender as sexual predators, the list could go on but we cut it here.

We're done with this third wave, there'll not be a fourth. Men will speak up, and women with them. The women already speak, they say this has gone too far. This time will be forgotten and we will move collectively toward an egalitarian commune. Not yet today, or even tomorrow morning, but some night we will have a restful sleep and awaken to a world where men and women are not troubled and fighting for their resolutions alone, as separate groups. We will work together knowing it is the only way to truly have equality, and we will indeed have it.

For what has happened to Aziz? He will be fine, #MeToo has begun collapsing under its own falsehoods. It did all the good it could and it is now its own prey.

hollowXvictory · 2018-01-15T23:10:33+00:00

I mean, he's one of those far left celebs that's always enabling this type of behavior right? It's shitty that this happened to him, but at the end of the day you reap what you sow.

2018-01-16T00:24:54+00:00

The ironic thing is that Aziz fully supported the movement. Look what it's become.

lirrsucks · 2018-01-15T20:51:21+00:00

Usually this sub is irritating as hell but I agree with the comments here this time. This sounds like a case of regret turning into calls of sexual inappropriateness. And there are definitely women who do this. I feel bad for this guy and fuck that bitch.

Siganid · 2018-01-16T02:09:38+00:00

Oh look, another male feminist gets eaten.

What an idiot.

shadm81 · 2018-01-16T05:46:47+00:00

These two quotes from the author, sums it up nicely:

"In so many ways, compared with today’s young women, we were weak; we were being prepared for being wives and mothers, not occupants of the C-Suite. But as far as getting away from a man who was trying to pressure us into sex we didn’t want, we were strong." ....

"Apparently there is a whole country full of young women who don’t know how to call a cab, and who have spent a lot of time picking out pretty outfits for dates they hoped would be nights to remember. They’re angry and temporarily powerful, and last night they destroyed a man who didn’t deserve it."

Couldn't have said it better myself.

knowledgeispower1 · 2018-01-16T06:32:11+00:00

It's a great time to be in a committed relationship alright. Holy fuck

Nergaal · 2018-01-16T09:43:39+00:00

Is anybody actually surprised by ANY of this?

Jackflash57 · 2018-01-15T19:30:45+00:00

Holy shit this article is basically saying millenials ruined dating.

What I got out of the article is that in the author’s day they stood up for themselves and these situations NEVER would have happened back in the 70’s when women had to be taught to beat the shit out of a man if he’s acting untoward to you, because again ladies, men can’t control their disgusting urges, and they can’t be blamed for the things they do when in the presence of beautiful scantily clad women.

Bring on the downvotes, this was a poorly written opinion piece,

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2018-01-15T20:18:56+00:00

He should have outsourced. Coulda saved himself a lot of trouble.

swapsrox · 2018-01-15T20:00:47+00:00

So a liberal gets slapped with allegations and only NOW men's rights start taking a national stage.

Fucking pathetic.

bladexp210 · 2018-01-15T23:07:44+00:00

In so many ways, compared with today’s young women, we were weak; we were being prepared for being wives and mothers, not occupants of the C-Suite. But as far as getting away from a man who was trying to pressure us into sex we didn’t want, we were strong.

All is said!

fuckoffplsthankyou · 2018-01-15T23:54:03+00:00

There is nothing so cruel as the weak given power.

plutosheen · 2018-01-16T01:57:25+00:00

Activism is impossible when the rule makers keep changing the rules. Just walk away. It ain’t worth it. MGTOW.

aokusman · 2018-01-15T22:45:24+00:00

This may explain why women in the M.East are not allowed outside.

--Visionary-- · 2018-01-15T21:12:52+00:00

I just find it intriguing that all it took was metoo hitting a brown liberal smug celebrity who comes from a muslim family to turn the tide on reddit.

Feminists apparently are << muslims on the identity politics game.

I don't care about the means -- the ends are fine with me if they end this ridiculous witch hunt in society.

professor_mcamateur · 2018-01-16T02:59:21+00:00

oh am i asexual? mm nah. am i about to be out of fear? mm yeah.

Lrellok · 2018-01-16T05:13:35+00:00

Eventually, overcome by her emotions at the way the night was going, she told him, “You guys are all the fucking same,” and left crying.

And we have now reached the India standard that if a man does not want a committed relationship, all sex is rape....or was that the Victorian standard.

Seriously, feminism is now openly reactionary.

majortom22 · 2018-01-16T05:40:27+00:00

This is just the beginning of a long and twisted rabbit hole.

2018-01-16T06:26:41+00:00

The top story on r/television is about Aziz and most of the comments seem to be taking his side. It looks like common sense might finally be starting to prevail. Even the media and Hollywood are mostly on his side. This could finally be a turning point where people realize that Metoo has gone too far.

2018-01-16T08:10:10+00:00

The age where you also carry a folded consent form in your wallet as well.

Elefantenjohn · 2018-01-16T08:11:54+00:00

I am not sure if it is allowed to say such things, as I am new to this subreddit, but the chosen title seems to generalize things a lot and I kinda expected generalization to be the enemy this subreddit tries to destroy.

Girltech31 · 2018-01-17T06:20:33+00:00

It was only a matter of time before they put forward an obviously awkward, yet fairly common, sexual encounter as "problematic". Feminists always overplay their hand and discredit their own cause. Hence why the vast majority of women and men don't identify as feminists.

Though I disagree with his politics, hopefully this sheds some light on how ridiculous this crusade against men is getting. The definition of sexual assault is so vague that the noise it creates drowns out the true assault victims.

I found this. What do you guys think?

BrocanGawd · 2018-01-17T06:29:51+00:00

MGTOW

ProChoiceVoice · 2018-01-17T07:04:06+00:00

At this point, the episode of South Park where PC Principal has the entire frat give signed consent forms for their sexual encounters will soon become a reality.

MichaelTC31 · 2018-01-19T03:37:55+00:00

She may not have been raped but weren't Aziz's actions selfish? It was all about his own sexual gratification. If he is the only one acting in this situation and the girl he's with is being acted upon, she is definitely not into it. What about respect for the other person? Empathy? Did Aziz ask her once if she wanted to get undressed, wanted to have sex? He just did it all for her. He kept pushing her to do things and she kept pulling back. This whole situation could have been avoided if he wanted her to have a good time whether they fucked or not instead of it just being about him.

denverbongos · 2018-01-15T18:58:46+00:00

Why? I am loving it

Those who were vile detractors of our rights got a taste of their own fruit.

zp800 · 2018-01-16T00:13:39+00:00

Man, if these bitches feel uncomfortable, they should say something, he said the sex was consensual, therefore, if she felt uncomfortable, she should have said something instead of just NOW saying something. Fuckin' bitch. Poor Aziz, his career is gonna turn to SHIT now. Master of... None (is it?) is gonna get cancelled along with his future projects, poor guy.

2018-01-15T23:48:27+00:00

Poor guy. It’s sad that all these guys that wear the vagina hats and call our president scum have been called rapists.

2018-01-16T05:24:04+00:00

I am glad that I never talk to any girl. Better safe than sorry

MaxwellFinium · 2018-01-15T20:49:31+00:00

Fuck him. He’s a hypocritical fuck.

chambertlo · 2018-01-15T23:48:31+00:00

This is what happens when you allow liberalism to infect society.

chambertlo · 2018-01-15T23:40:25+00:00

What's up with the shitty title on the article? Are we going to start saying that all women are "Angry and dangerous" every time something like this happens? This is the shit we've been fucking complaining about when people say say "Men are pigs" when their boyfriend cheats and "men are rapists" when they see it reported in the news. I don't like this shit happening either, but we shouldn't ever encourage or support this kind of sensationalized, sexist garbage.

BonicusCaponicus · 2018-01-16T00:21:31+00:00

That guy isn't even a man, I cannot stand that ball-less bastards. Fuck him, I hope he goes to jail. His voice is like nails on a chalkboard. Shivers

MmmmSauce · 2018-01-16T19:29:18+00:00

Wtf is your title?

proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous

That’s sounds really sexist and hateful dude. Men’s rights isn’t about putting men above women, it’s about equal rights which is inherently involved with improving the rights of both men and women, and getting equal treatment.

Title	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari. Allegations against the comedian are proof that women are angry, temporarily powerful—and very, very dangerous.
Author	whoisthebossbitch
Upvotes	2638
Comments	407
Date	January 15, 2018 1:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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