“I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”

verityspice · 2020-09-16T05:48:50+00:00

They don’t know what no makeup looks like. I’d be willing to bet they haven’t been in a ltr and seen what a woman looks like in comfort.

I think they are saying, I prefer girls who look like the IG adds of sexy lounge wear who have on nude eyeshadow, concealer, lip injections, lash extensions, boy brow and tattoo freckles.

Now... I use all of these cosmetic upgrades, and love every second of the way I look and every woman who dolls up. The thing is, they just aren’t around women enough to know what they are saying. Plus it’s a huge, uninformed neg.

Amy3e13 · 2020-09-16T06:40:45+00:00

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shakethat_milkshake · 2020-09-16T05:21:56+00:00

They don’t even know what they are talking about. They just like judging women

Karthasis11 · 2020-09-16T05:56:08+00:00

WhY dO yOu LoOk So TiReD - on days where we don't wear make up

Layla-bg · 2020-09-16T06:03:46+00:00

I don’t care what you like. If I feel like putting make up on, I will. I mean, it’s not like I do it for you.

what-i-dont-know · 2020-09-16T12:47:07+00:00

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Devily666 · 2020-09-16T05:37:39+00:00

They say this, but always go for girls wearing make up. One of my male friends constantly said he prefers girls without make up, but on Tinder didn't swipe on a single woman that didn't have 2 hours spend on her look. Actions>words.

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-09-16T06:13:33+00:00

No makeup for men means at best microbladed and tinted brows, fillers, eyelash extensions, lip filler and cheek filler, thousands on laser skin treatments, photoshop and Facetune

PoorPlainObscure · 2020-09-16T07:41:18+00:00

"Your preferences are not relevant"

chateauduchat · 2020-09-16T11:06:21+00:00

“Oh really? Well I prefer men who are silent.”

elainejay82 · 2020-09-16T06:58:14+00:00

Point! And further than that, I wonder why any men like to shout into the void about what they "prefer." I give zero fucks and quite frankly I'm tired of hearing about any of it from them.

We don't care? What makes any of them think we do? It's laughable really!

Doesn't matter what it is. Makeup/no makeup. Long hair/short hair. Hot weather/cold weather. Boy, we (and I cannot stress this enough) do not give a shit.

rinabean · 2020-09-16T10:21:21+00:00

Men who follow women on instagram are automatically LVM. Just weird

the whole concept of the multiple girls he prefers... he's just screaming that he doesn't want to be monogamous. There's little less sexy than a man having a type and telling you about it

softestbean · 2020-09-16T07:38:36+00:00

I don’t wear makeup and ‘guys would appreciate a bit more effort’. Also, can we point out that most of the time we are not even interested in the guy that says that to begin with? He just assumes that you must like him and want to impress him.

heleninthealps · 2020-09-16T06:58:36+00:00

Sometimes I wear makeup, Sometimes I don't. Sometimes I wear alot, sometimes a little.

Sometimes I wonder if men that say this try to tell me that they are into little girls. Since they prefer GIRLS that don't use it wear adult woman stuff.

My boyfriend is completely fine with however I use makeup and told me he would just be bothered if I stay several hours in the bathroom every morning without any warning but we solve that by him always asking me "how long will it take you today?" And yes fine with my answers no matter if they are 10min or 3 hours.

Lavender_flow · 2020-09-16T10:08:20+00:00

Whenever one of these scrotes talk about the "no make up" they are literally showing pictures of IG baddies wearing a "natural look". They are so dumb. This is what no make up looks like: https://i.insider.com/58ac9ddffbaed518028b48f6?width=600&format=jpeg&auto=webp

https://i.insider.com/5b3a85c086c52b18008b45a6?width=600&format=jpeg&auto=webp

fucking idiots.

Mindard · 2020-09-16T05:42:11+00:00

Males are always supposed to be pickmes.

Also, this is negging.

autumnbabyxo · 2020-09-16T05:56:35+00:00

It’s just another example of men’s huge egos. They think everything women do is for them.

Women wear makeup because it makes us feel confident, or because it’s fun, or it’s a way to express individuality and creativity. But men always have to butt in with their opinions. “WeLl aCtUaLlY I pRefEr wOmEn WiTh nO MaKeUp!!” No one asked dude.

/end rant

talklistentalk · 2020-09-16T11:18:29+00:00

They hate women and therefore can't help disapproving of everything we do. Next.

divination__ · 2020-09-16T14:09:09+00:00

if a man ever says this to you, ask him why.

if he says 'idk i just think they look better', ask him why again.

he won't have an answer. because there are only three possible answers, none of them cast him in a good light and all come down to women being objects there for him to control:

he's negging
he finds the labour almost all women (esp the conventionally attractive/very feminine women) do to be too confronting, against his objectifying vision of women sold to him by porn and media generally, and he thinks it is gauche and offensive - it's not makeup, but the act of a woman actually having to maintain an image that hides the fact that she is a mammal just like him and not a sex toy that is so objectionable to him
he specifically wants women to NOT perform anything that makes them more attractive to other men because he is so threatened and insecure and wants to control

there is literally no good reason to say this. people are what they are. i would never say 'i prefer men who don't wear glasses' or 'i prefer men without beards' to a man who has either glasses or a beard, respectively. because what can they say in that moment? what is there to do? it's rude and they know it.

Barbiquette · 2020-09-16T09:59:14+00:00

I think they actually feel threatened by how gorgeous we can look with make up. Like somehow they can’t live up to our standards, calling us « high maintenance » because we look fine as hell. That’s on you scrotes. Maybe they like « natural » women because they think they won’t have to take care of themselves and dress nicely. I dated a few LVM who felt threatened when I glowed up and wore heels (I’m really tall) and felt that they were « not enough ». You know what ? I should have believed them.

Hhjjuuy · 2020-09-16T09:40:40+00:00

Because having an oPiNiOn for every single thing a woman can do allows them to take ownership of any choice she makes.

Davina33 · 2020-09-16T14:50:46+00:00

They say this yet chase the women wearing make up. What they really mean is they don't want their girlfriend to wear make up because he doesn't want her to attract the attention of other men. Either way, make up or no make up we should look how we please. They don't get a say.

textbasedpanda · 2020-09-16T15:22:52+00:00

It's hilarious that they have requirements at all meanwhile they've never even touched moisturizer.

feminologie_ · 2020-09-16T16:14:08+00:00

They say this but then they drool over a woman who spends 2hrs doing her hair and makeup and looking fabulous. They're such liars lol. I never met a man who wasn't absolutely stunned when I got all dolled up. Lying fucks

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-16T10:56:47+00:00

It's the same with "I don't like fake boobs" BS

sadpourtoujours · 2020-09-16T18:41:21+00:00

It’s all bullshit. All the porn stars, strippers, and Insta models they masturbate to wear makeup. They’ll say that to you, then while you’re out, he’ll be checking out all the women with their makeup, hair, and wardrobes on point.

Don’t let a man convince you that you should be low-maintenance if you’re not. Don’t give a shit what he thinks about you. If he says he doesn’t like makeup? Wear more makeup the next day. You don’t cater to him. Why the fuck would change to yourself to please him? Fuck him. This is you. He can take it or leave it.

preppykat · 2020-09-16T07:05:25+00:00

They don’t actually care at all in reality.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-09-16T14:09:30+00:00

I'm not bothered about what you prefer. If you don't like my makeup then don't talk to me.

CoffeeAndCorpses · 2020-09-16T05:11:54+00:00

I don't necessarily read it as a male pick-me as much as a different level of shaming.

Chances are, the "not wearing makeup" girl they're admiring is wearing at least some makeup.

0kfornow · 2020-09-17T09:12:29+00:00

They actually have no idea of the difference between makeup and no makeup - you could test them all day long and they'd fail every single time to identify whether a woman has on makeup or not

tossed_salad100 · 2020-09-17T00:14:19+00:00

For many of them it’s a genuine preference and they’re upset we aren’t getting their dick hard. For others it means we have standards and put in effort and might expect the same from them (the horror).

Either way it doesn’t matter. I love doing myself up and can be very alternative with style. Pulling out the green metallic lipstick is part of the vetting process. My boyfriend supports and encourages my makeup hobbies, and also compliments my bare face. He has the right idea.

Feminineprincess · 2020-09-26T23:58:32+00:00

They say this about women who wear hair extensions and wear “revealing clothing”, yet will will have ex girlfriends who wear hair extensions and such outfits

Acbc0077 · 2020-09-16T12:05:12+00:00

Makeup is definitely a way to empower women in this looks obsessive world, they want to take that from us they want to make us feel loww in every way possible. How will we be vulnerable with any confidence and self respect.

Title	“I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”
Author	saydeesalt
Upvotes	194
Comments	74
Date	September 16, 2020 5:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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