Swipe. Man goes on 63 dates, does not use FDS tactics, still single. Huh...

Gologic34 · 2022-02-24T15:26:55+00:00

He might not be using FDS tactics, but the women who went on those first dates with him and then bailed have FDS instincts. Now they just need to join FDS so they would not have even bothered with the one date or better yet OLD at all.

loud_opinions · 2022-02-24T03:31:49+00:00

"I put in as close to zero effort as I possibly could and still, no one wants to date me. What's wrong with these women?!" /s

nattyhattie · 2022-02-24T11:13:49+00:00

Great that the guy is taking control of his life, but if you’re ‘recently sober’ it’s probably not a great time to go out and meet a new partner. He should be focusing on himself.

divination__ · 2022-02-24T18:57:56+00:00

less than 5% resulted in a kiss?? less than 3 our of 63 women wanted to kiss him?? safe to say that with those numbers, he is definitely the problem

SeaNegotiation8 · 2022-02-24T05:35:01+00:00

When men apply the same failed logic to dating that telemarketers apply to sales, this is the result.

“BuT iT’s jUsT a nUmBeRs gAmE!”

Nah, bro. You’re just a bottom-feeder casting a pitifully wide net and coming up with nothing, when you should have focused on what you want and showed her your very best effort. I guarantee these women could sense his low energy.

333amelia · 2022-02-24T04:06:42+00:00

I don’t know a single woman who’d be interested in and comfortable with doing an escape room on a first date.

lostmillenia · 2022-02-24T04:28:50+00:00

The math is definitely mathing. He's not romantic at all. No wonder no one has interest.

anabelchoc1 · 2022-02-24T03:49:40+00:00

Yikes.

$500-600 he spent on 63 dates.

That's literally the price of matcha latte and banana bread with tip in NYC.

That's incredibly low effort, and he wonders why he's unsuccessful?

Also, that time frame is concerning. That's 4 dates a week. He's probably worn out and tired, and it shows to the ladies he's dating. And there's no way you can plan 4 quality dates w 4 people each week for 4 months.

I also find it hilarious how he was "so creative" with dates that weren't drinks, then says he chose coffee, tea, parks, walks, etc.

Don't suggest a walk for a first date. She's a lady, not a dog.

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-02-24T03:40:47+00:00

So he averages spending $16-20 on dates when he covers the bill. In NYC!! His broke ass can't afford to date. And he's on roughly 4 dates a week.

This is why we say make him invest. If he'd been investing in just a few women in 4 months he might have had a better outcome.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-02-24T08:31:16+00:00

How pleasant is a walk date in NYC in November through February? The temperature alone is horrible, crime is way up this year, and you have to walk yourself home before the sun sets at 6. No.

MiniSnoot · 2022-02-24T05:37:47+00:00

I checked the twitter of this guy; I was curious on what red flags I could find.

Mentions being on Tinder while 'in a great relationship' back in 2017 and how his use of it was supposedly 'toxic', and claimed to be working on this. (but still out here dating while working on himself, of course!) Don't worry tho, he mentioning LOTS OF THERAPY. So I'm CERTAIN he's good now./s

He posted his Hinge profile, and he lists himself as a self admitted 'fuckboy' and also something about 'being lost/finding himself or whatever'.

Clown, self admitted cheater, etc. Same old same old.

Bye.

LOL

ItsFreezen · 2022-02-24T12:30:14+00:00

"recently sober" These ladies dodged a bullet.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-02-24T16:33:14+00:00

West Elm Caleb cheap date LV vibes 🤮

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-02-24T19:42:08+00:00

🤦🏻‍♀️ I can imagine him now…

He’s a “chill” guy, has no plans, and does “whatever”. Lol hahaha no thanks…

solstice100 · 2022-02-24T13:00:02+00:00

Lol men are so stupid

KetoKittenAround · 2022-02-24T05:46:26+00:00

Sounds like he got what he paid for in the most the most scrote of terms …

In the most real of terms he seems like a failure to charm. He had these dates show up, so upfront he was seemingly a good prospect. Yet upon meeting was then seen for what he was.

Whores cost far more more than what he spent. If he is expecting those services he ought to just go into the abuse game. (Sex work is abuse to me)

Imagine how he would act if you showed up in your sweatpants and wanted some Taco Bell? He’d be well upset! lol

Zurflu · 2022-02-24T16:10:18+00:00

He could've taken 5-6 of the women he was the most interested in on $100 first dates and made a really good impression on each of them. Or cut it down to 3-4 women to have $ left over for second and third dates. Probably could've got at least 1 or 2 of them interested in a full blown relationship after that.

How is spending $10 on 60 women the better idea?? Do they believe in love at first sight or some kind of "spark" to happen if the right woman simply lays eyes on him? This isn't porn lol!!

corago513 · 2022-02-24T22:17:25+00:00

What's the definition of insanity, but like x62?

KateJ1982 · 2022-02-24T23:39:22+00:00

Women whose standards are so low they will say yes to walk dates and were not into this fellow. That's all we need to know about his dating energy.

Colour_riot · 2022-02-24T23:07:31+00:00

Honestly just glad that women are leveling up in general - explaining his low success rate (although lets face it, if the women did fall for him, he'd just be bragging about it)

OLD looks horrendous. I'd have to be invited to a really amazing date to even be tempted.

Higher risk requires higher returns, ladies

swaylyn · 2022-02-24T13:59:16+00:00

“Tea ” 😂

rainbowhelix · 2022-02-25T04:35:50+00:00

$500?!? So he bought them all a coffee and that's it. Gee, I wonder why they don't want to jump in bed with him. When I did OLD, there were a few guys who spent this much on ONE date alone, not over SIXTY. (And these guys weren't even amazing people or HVM!) He should know that that is what some of the "competition" is doing. How embarrassing for him. PLEASE, dude, just stay home and stop wasting women's time.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2022-02-25T06:52:26+00:00

I TOOK THEM ON PARK WALKS AND WAS ABRASIVE, CHEAP, AND UGLY!!! WHY CANT I FIND A GIRLFRIEND?!?! WHY NO VAGINA?!? 😫😭

Title	Swipe. Man goes on 63 dates, does not use FDS tactics, still single. Huh...
Author	m00n5t0n3
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Comments	54
Date	February 24, 2022 3:28 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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