This post on the front page makes me want to barf

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-02-06T17:40:44+00:00

30% of gross income? So if he made $60,000 child support would be 20,000? Lies. Most women get $200 maybe $300 a month. That's $2,400 to $3,600 a year. This is outrage lies.

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-02-06T17:57:30+00:00

He wants to be mad at her because he CONSENTED to this agreement via their JOINT attorney?? Boy, BYE! He’s a fucking moron who let himself get snowed. In the words of a wise older woman, “Am I supposed to feel sorry for that bitch? Cuz I don’t!”

Clearly he was cool with it at the time since he didn’t decline and request separate representation, which he had every right to do.

*sidenote: As a former divorce attorney, I never advise getting a joint attorney. If you’ve got the money, get two separate attorneys. 99x out of 100, the attorneys will be drafting a joint agreement but at least you’ll have someone in your corner.

aellope · 2021-02-06T18:15:26+00:00

Men never acknowledge everything that WE give up for them when we GET married. Our lives, our careers (even if after having kids the mother continues working, her career takes a hit), our bodies if we have kids, all of our free time because they don't do shit around the house, our mental health when he comes home angry that dinner isn't ready because you're busy taking care of and cleaning up after the kids, and him. And then when you lose your sex drive because he's a huge manbaby who treats you like mommy bangslave, you're a horrible monster for wanting to leave and ensure that you and your children are taken care of. Then of course the mother will ask for majority custody because she knows the man is incapable of raising a child, she should rightfully get more in the divorce for the child and herself.

Men ask for this deal. They're the ones proposing. If they don't want to get married, they don't have to. But you reap what you sow and if you want to get married and have a family, you have to contribute. If you don't... you end up with this. And the courts will force you to contribute (hopefully). But he complains because he couldn't "have it all" (a wife and family while putting in zero effort). And then when he gets "screwed", instead of deciding, "screw this, I won't do that again", he goes and finds another woman. Of course he's referring to the new one as "partner" because he's probably smart enough now to know that he can get what he wants from her without committing, at least until she wisens up.

Ladies, do get a prenup. Get a prenup to secure your own assets so that gold digging men like this cannot come after your savings. Get a prenup to ensure that he cares enough to want you to be well off in the case of a divorce.

RiasXgremoryX · 2021-02-06T18:03:42+00:00

Lies, lies and more lies everyone is just too busy drinking the patriarchy's brand of "feminism" to realize it.

He's just another whining man baby who is upset because he is LEGALLY obligated to take care of and pay for the welfare of a child. Also he's not telling the full story of why this had to happen, he's being dishonest and leaving out important details that would explain this situation.

This is why so many men advocate for "shacking up" and having "forever girlfriends" instead of marriage. Its so that they get all of the benefits plus the privilege of leaving the woman high and dry with a child whenever they feel like it. They want to avoid responsibility at all costs and a marriage contract holds them responsible.

space_cataz__ · 2021-02-06T18:14:48+00:00

One day she asked for a divorce and everything changed.

Love how he leaves out the reason why. She probably got tired of being the mother of a young child, and a grown man-child. I'm sure there was plenty more leading up to it.

So sick of men whining about having to spend money to raise their children. Like this woman probably gave up things in her life to have your kid, it's probably why she "never set foot in a college", and now you feel no duty to support her and the child you made. Such trash.

FabledAngryVillager · 2021-02-06T18:07:51+00:00

He was probably a weekend father before lol

UnstrirringCoffee · 2021-02-06T19:28:03+00:00

I have never heard of a 401K being split or a degree being split in half. He also keeps flitting back and forth between her getting half and her getting all of it. This incoherent rant is just another incel-fanfic.

BasieSkanks · 2021-02-06T19:21:13+00:00

When talking about "divorce rape", why do men never mention the countless women who have been financially screwed over by a divorce? Britney Spears, Adele, J-Lo and Halle Berry are just a few who come to mind.

ablashak · 2021-02-06T18:25:21+00:00

At least I'm pretty sure it's a fake post. If it is true, this guy is blaming women and the institution for his own stupidity. He fucked himself and decided it's everyone else's fault but his own, lol. Classic scrote.

Ok-Firefighter-2266 · 2021-02-06T21:06:45+00:00

This is being called out as fake in the comments. In another post he’s apparently a 22 yr old college student who just graduated.

pickadaisy · 2021-02-06T20:24:17+00:00

Yes, men: the whole system is fucked. It allows you to use and abuse us, call it our “role”, then be asked to step into yours (financial provider is what you are while we do everything else, right?!). Change the system and you’ll be paying your dues daily rather than only after we leave you. PROBLEM SOLVED.

tellmesomething11 · 2021-02-06T19:22:40+00:00

He probably made way more than she did. For me it was 25% the first child, I think 15% the second?? Guess what, kids aren’t cheap. However, he was entitled to a free lawyer and it sounds like this was all settled in mediation. He could have went to court. He could have done a side agreement with the ex. Wonder why it didn’t happen? No mention to how the marriage went, just that the wife cheated and dipped out. I also dipped out a 15 year relationship and it shouldn’t have been a surprise, ex had been treating me like trash from the beginning. Also it’s income that was accumulated in the 5 years they were married, not his whole life savings lol.

He’s a piece of trash because he doesn’t have to be a weekend father, HE AGREED TO IT, he could have fought for more custody and probably would have won bc judges give joint more and more nowadays.

He didn’t give a fuck about anything and this was the result. Lawyers don’t care about feelings, if you agree to something it gets written down and implemented. Men absolutely can disagree and go to court. Some do. Most don’t. They prefer to play victim and harass the ex afterwards. I go through this all the time, my ex threatens me bc he doesn’t like what he AGREED to. I used to argue with him, but he likes chaos and harassing me, so I stopped. “Just take me to court,” I tell him. It hasn’t happened yet and we ended in 2017.

ProfessionalPee · 2021-02-06T20:16:28+00:00

"I never asked to be a weekend father." Now pretending for a second this isn't a larp post by a tilted incel, let's address this: I have been unfortunately involved with CPS a LOT. (One side of the family is generally pretty yikes and yeah.) I can assure you they barely do fuckall. Their number 1 priority is reuniting the biological parents wot hmm the child. If he wanted more than a weekend he would get it.

If he really didn't have a say in the matter he is so ridiculously unfit he must be doing fucking crack or something to not be allowed more time.

marge_s1mpson · 2021-02-06T20:13:02+00:00

Yes wOmEN are hOrRiIBlE, and this happens to eVErY single man that gets divorced. Guess they should've done what my dad did and threaten the wife not to pursue child support or he'd go to court and get full custody of the kids, knowing she can't afford a lawyer. Oh well, live and learn.

relationship_reddit · 2021-02-07T14:25:44+00:00

Why do men think they want 50/50 custody of the kids when they divorce, but only want to do 5/95 of the childcare while they're married?

My theory, assuming they're not just trying to stick it to their ex-wife, which I'm sure many are, is that they get so caught up in the idea of equal and fair, that they forget that 50/50 means they're actually going to be completely responsible for their child 50% of the time now, and there won't be a wife there to do all the work while they play video games or watch sports.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-06T19:42:02+00:00

If this is true im going to get married right away!!! But I am pretty sure the most I would get is a piddly little 100- maybe 300 a month tops so no thanks

AnnGwish · 2021-02-07T05:03:20+00:00

I had a divorce. No kids, but the rant is not one with reality. I want to see a scan of the divorce decree.

souredskittles · 2021-02-06T17:53:43+00:00

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EurasianEmpress · 2021-02-06T21:43:12+00:00

As scrotes love to say, he should have chosen better!

AyemHerself · 2021-02-07T01:35:19+00:00

This is either fake or he's leaving out a lot of details.

Side note, it's funny how much guys lament not getting to see their kids enough after a divorce but seethe at the idea of child support. So you want to summon your kid whenever but you don't want them fed and clothed?

penelopekitty · 2021-02-06T22:49:36+00:00

He's lying. This is not at all how it works. If she had assets acquired during the marriage he is entitled to half just as she is entitled to half of his. If he doesn't want to pay child support he can be the custodial parent.

Yeah, divorce sucks. Usually both parties end up worse off because now there are two households that need supporting. Men need to stop being so butt hurt over this. Anything earned and accumulated during the marriage is jointly owned same goes for debt. They just don't want to have to pay anything for their own children.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-02-07T00:59:32+00:00

Splitting his degree? What?

randomgirlimok · 2021-02-06T22:52:41+00:00

This was the man’s side of the story which I don’t believe.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-02-07T01:38:27+00:00

Oh, it was out of the blue huh? For scrotes it always is /eye roll

colorfulkindness · 2021-02-09T17:51:50+00:00

Yes everything was peachy keen until out of the blue she just changed her mind for no reason and I couldnt be bothered to get my own lawyer so Im a victim.

Joint divorce lawyer? I dont believe thats a thing, tho ianal.

uptownxthot · 2021-02-06T20:28:31+00:00

i love stories like this 😭

Wildestrose1988 · 2021-02-07T10:53:15+00:00

My cousin was married for 7 years and they had no child and he had to give her half of everything for like 7 years. He also had to pay for her lawyer which was better than his. She lied about being able to work. She was holding down a job she just lied to the court and there was pretty much nothing he could do about it

Title	This post on the front page makes me want to barf
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Date	February 6, 2021 4:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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