We have a fragile one.

girl_in_red_costume · 2022-01-15T21:47:26+00:00

If he thinks we hate all men that's probably bc he's the type of men we hate. Also I don't understand the issue with TwoXXChromossomes, women aren't even hating on men there, they're just talking about their experiences... so you have to take it like a champ and don't complain. F this noise.

amina69 · 2022-01-15T21:02:11+00:00

I guess we should ask why do misogynistic men always date women then?

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2022-01-15T21:31:14+00:00

It's actually very simple, Noah. We do not "hate all men". Think about it (hard, in your case) : Why on earth would we be trying to form healthy, safe, mutually respectful relationships with men if we hated them?

Not all men are equal. Some of you are shitbags and abuse women. This sub is and always has been about identifying which men are safe to be in relationships with, and which aren't. You, Noah, with your poor reading comprehension skills and obvious ragebait karma-mining post, are not it.

saint-jezebel · 2022-01-15T21:51:24+00:00

Dear Noah,

We don’t want you. You are not the target. We will not apologize for contributing to the open discussion for the identifying factors of how to weed out shit men so that they never have access to us. Also, note that by suggesting we date women, deep down, hurts you more than you want to admit. We like men. We date men. We just don’t want one with shit stains, an attitude and low value traits like you. Have a good year.

Signed, Saint Jezebel

Platipus6 · 2022-01-15T21:07:20+00:00

I'm not changing my sexuality because men have turned into toxic sludge. I'm sexually attracted to men and will make sure I'm safe and my needs are met. Male delusion is not my problem.

Watching people try to bend and break women at every turn is....interesting. I'm still waiting on a valid criticism against FDS...

Kylie_Fan · 2022-01-15T21:02:33+00:00

Because being heterosexual is not a choice, otherwise we'd gladly switch teams RIGHT NOW. 😂

Efflights6 · 2022-01-15T21:24:24+00:00

It's better to be alone than with bad company.

nebsemi · 2022-01-15T21:39:56+00:00

We don't hate all men; we're just sharing effective strategies on how to quickly sift through the garbage and finding the right man for us.

ApartPersonality · 2022-01-15T21:12:36+00:00

Because being alone > trying to get LVM to like me

pygmymetal · 2022-01-15T21:48:36+00:00

They think we hate them. No we don’t. We have standards they don’t want to meet.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-01-15T22:13:46+00:00

Men who hate on female dating strategy, why even try dating women if you hate them all and only use them for hookups? Why not just get a sex doll instead?

pickadaisy · 2022-01-15T21:04:42+00:00

A straw man argument that blew away the moment he typed it..

SwampDwellingPirate · 2022-01-15T21:12:56+00:00

As if all women in this sub are straight.

honeybadgerattitude · 2022-01-15T21:34:08+00:00

Difference: we know that there are different types of men or we wouldn't bother talking about dating them. We don't think all men are the same or that they think with a "hive mind". It's that simple.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-01-15T21:26:38+00:00

There’s zero point answering someone who’s clearly not listening or paying attention

MLane81 · 2022-01-15T21:59:37+00:00

Every time they post to a main sub like this, our follower count goes up! So to all our male lurkers, thanks for all the free advertising!!

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-01-15T22:14:00+00:00

Just like why don’t scrotes just date men since they hate women so much 😂

DrildoBagurren · 2022-01-15T21:48:20+00:00

I'm pretty sure that if we could choose our sexuality, most of us would Unfortunately we're stuck being attracted to the sex who wants to harm us.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-15T21:25:10+00:00

I don't genuinely hate men, and neither do most women. I'm mostly apathetic towards them. No positive feelings, but no extreme negative feelings either.

That said, heterosexuality isn't a choice. Even if objectively men are creatures with no charm and beauty equal to that of women, the most carnal side of me still craves dick sometimes. This is nature's coding, the species must go on somehow.

The conditions are that the male attached to the dick better be well-behaved, functional and aware of his role in the dating ritual. Very simple.

Of course, if I could choose to become a lesbian I would, even if the dating pool would be much smaller.

Technical_Moth248 · 2022-01-15T22:08:21+00:00

Considering they are also dragging twoxchromosomes I think those folks are just stunningly fragile. You see it break sometimes over there but for the most part they hard cater to not hurting men's feelings lol

It might be a mean take, but I personally don't care how men and pickmes view FDS and the women here. They aren't meant to like it, we're giving tips to avoid becoming or ending up with one of them. If they can't stop thinking about us that is 100% their own problem 🤷‍♀️

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-15T22:12:59+00:00

“An echo chamber for dating horror stories”

Considering how many scrotes think they’re “nice guys,” it doesn’t surprise me that they think we’re swapping isolated bad experiences.

melympia · 2022-01-15T22:00:59+00:00

The answer is quite simple: Not all men...

We do not hate all men. Not all men are useless. And we don't try to date all men... What we want is... simply the best. ;)

katiekat0214 · 2022-01-15T22:00:16+00:00

Someone send Redditcare! LOL

VanessaViews · 2022-01-15T22:26:23+00:00

So they agree the things women post about on here are horror stories? So they are acknowledging things women have to deal with when dating are horrific.

spaghettiforhair · 2022-01-15T21:07:55+00:00

Because I don't hate all or even most men and I don't think they're useless either??? Considering how many posts about HVM and HV traits there are on this sub, I figured that would be pretty self-evident.

Hint for male lurkers: LVM/NVM/HVM aren't terms to describe the inherent value of men as human beings, but rather to assess the value they bring to our lives specifically. A little reading comprehension goes a long way, but then again, it's easier to victimize yourself than improve yourself.

vaguelinen · 2022-01-15T22:23:12+00:00

Oh wow, where to start…

Thank you FDS for helping get my head around my awful previous relationships and gaining some sanity to…

… date what seems to be an ok guy but not get overly excited because I’m getting MY life together while understanding he’s just a pretty accessory.

preppykat3 · 2022-01-15T22:33:12+00:00

God forbid women have a comfort space. Apparently only men are allowed to.

ItsFreezen · 2022-01-15T22:34:13+00:00

Why do Abusive Scrotes who hate women continue to date women and marry them?

ButterfliesHurricane · 2022-01-15T21:38:48+00:00

Classic: ‘she rejected me, she must be gay!’ 🤣

jane-72 · 2022-01-15T21:10:43+00:00

If anyone ever asked me if I was a lesbian I’d say “I wish!”

jjlew922 · 2022-01-15T21:14:18+00:00

I literally can’t take the immature projection anymore. $500 this guy contributes to red pill or enjoys abuse porn. Like really? Ok, cause we have standards and it makes you mad so we must just all hate men like you hate women deep down?? I am amazed at how much trouble men go to put us down. There are several subs dedicated to mocking and making fun of us, why? Because they can not stand we’ve figured them out and have standards. We live rent free in these basement dwelling neck beards minds it’s honestly frightening!

Sunshine_Daisies2525 · 2022-01-15T22:42:27+00:00

So many men are threatened by the concept of a high value man who is a feminist ally who has muscles, is kind/respectful, provides, and worships his partner (as we all should)… the fact that their conclusion from us roasting LVM is that we hate all men is indicative of how much he fears the existence of those men.

This is why their main thing is “they have unrealistic expectations.”

Remember that, ladies. They think it’s totally possible for a woman to be a mom/model/Einstein/devoted wife, but they somehow can’t fathom a man doing the same.

howdoilogoutt · 2022-01-15T22:37:06+00:00

You could literally say all men on this site must hate women by the misogynistic content that appears on the front page!! Reddit men think women are just sex dolls for their amusement, and we should be getting on our knees to lick the cheeto dust off their sausage fingers *gag*

giftofnocondemnation · 2022-01-15T22:42:09+00:00

As if we “try to date men”. Men don’t even know how to properly ask for a date. We play defense! Men chase, men disrespect, we avoid/block. Men are so mad that we don’t want their attention like they want ours.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-01-15T22:47:59+00:00

If I could, I would be a lesbian.

oceanstains · 2022-01-15T22:29:58+00:00

Women are the only marginalized group expected to love their oppressors unconditionally

BlackGirlKnickers · 2022-01-15T22:49:33+00:00

This was a response to someone asking why incels aren’t dating men since they hate women so much. Looks like an Incel got into his fefes and posted this one in response.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-01-15T22:51:37+00:00

Isn't it funny how they automatically associate themselves with the scum that FDS is teaching to avoid?

Title	We have a fragile one.
Author	DogsNotHumans
Upvotes	175
Comments	65
Date	January 15, 2022 9:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/s4u4pd/we_have_a_fragile_one/
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