Daily Community Chat Megathread

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-03T16:37:17+00:00

Women will literally make the effort to screenshot and shame ugly male dating profiles JFL

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/the-official-horrible-online-dating-profiles-thread.3916867/page-145

ratboi34 · 2023-11-03T16:34:35+00:00

I have never seen so many sad and crazy women than on 50+ tinder in southern states. Some are literally begging at this point like "please just have some job and don't leave me". Some are talking about being pure blooded and wanting to try bdsm. Some are just insulting men lmao. Some just look like they are close to giving up, while others are still waiting for Chad. Women that are pushing 60 talk about not wanting to get used for hookups again, so I guess granchad is still out there pumping and dumping.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-03T16:27:48+00:00

Wow I didn't realize Travis Scott had a kind side to him. He's so nice.

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/17m0gts/he_is_so_foul_i_feel_so_bad_for_this_girl/

He went out of his way to help motivate a fattie woman to become healthy. He is serving as a role model on how to treat fattie women to help them become better versions of themselves.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-03T16:27:11+00:00

If you could take a pill that permanently locked your looks at a certain age what would it be. I would choose 28.

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-03T16:24:19+00:00

When I was in 2nd grade, we had a Mother’s Day play and a Father’s Day play. We had around 20 kids in the class. 17 mothers showed up for the Mother’s Day play, while only 5 fathers showed up for the Father’s Day play. Anyone know why this was?

scwizard · 2023-11-03T16:18:37+00:00

I was in town yesterday, sitting in my car about to head back home when a man approaches my passenger side and motions for me to roll down my window. I don’t. Instead I ask him what he needs. He begs me for a ride “just down the road” because he said a group of people were trying to kill him. And he pointed down the road. I felt really put on the spot, but I knew I couldn’t let this guy in my car, so I made an excuse “sorry, I have to go home, and I’m going the other way. Did you need me to call the police?” He continues begging, saying he’d just been attacked and they were after him. I almost felt myself feeling bad for a moment, then I realized that the ‘someone is after me’ thing was a ploy that people who have nefarious intentions use sometimes.

Scary things I've never experienced because I'm a man... I dunno why she didn't just call the police right away though.

Ladies it’s very important to always remember that when a man genuinely needs help he will not ask a woman. Ever.

I’m glad you are ok OP.

Mostly true tbh tbh.

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-03T16:14:29+00:00

Let me try it again without getting spiteful and accusatory: for the women who see men's grievances (at least some of them) as like "I get it, but I don't see a solution", that's fine. But then maybe don't focus on that too much. There is still the "I get it" part, and the more women can get there, the more everyone will be on the same page at least, and there is just no way that could hurt. Idk how much it would matter, but it couldn't hurt, and the thing is, it's something. It's like a clear direction that these discussions and ideologies and society's outlook can be pushed towards, at least in theory. And I say that because I think lots of women still don't really get it, or don't want to, so there is work that could be done there - maybe not super important work, but again, it's something. Does that make sense? I think it does. (If you don't care then feel free to ignore me).

"I want to get across to women so that they don't find some of the stuff men are sad about that off-putting" is a straightforward goal (even if not an easy one) and it doesn't have anything to do with forcing women to do anything, so I think it's fine.

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T16:00:01+00:00

The worst part about my spanish class is that my friends from that class call me by my spanish class name cuz they dont know my real name

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-03T15:53:25+00:00

insane levels of hating

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Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-03T15:48:43+00:00

Women don't really understand what prime and male age preference means. They think that because after 30 years old they still have SMV and can get sex or dates easily they never lost their prime and then get shocked when they see the chart about ideal age for men.

The point about prime and age is that :

any woman isn't as desirable anymore at an older age compared to when she was 20 years old (unless she was fat at that age and isn't anymore)
they cannot compete with prime girls anymore for male attention. Yeah sure you have the occasional 40 years old lady at the nightclub getting approached by men but the youthful girls are the real centre of attention and the first ones to be taken
they cannot be as hypergamous as when they were younger. The thought about having to settle creeps in and the dating rules get more equal between men and women

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-03T15:48:06+00:00

I've never watched Euphoria. Shows like that make me sick to my stomach. Growing up movies like Thirteen and the show Skins really wrecked me. Even Teen Mom. I never watched them, but knowing what they were about just made me feel so bad about myself. Truly it seemed like everyone I knew was having sex and doing drugs at 15 and I wasn't good enough for any of it. It's like I was this loser that wasn't good enough or cool enough to participate in the supposedly bad thing.

This is a direct cause of my lack of morality as I got older. Older people would look at me and say I was such a good and moral person, but it is because I was such a loser I had no choice. The debauchery wasn't an option for me. I did some exposure therapy and would watch later seasons of Teen Mom with my girlfriend, but that thought was always in the back of my mind of what I missed out on at that age.

I feel really bad for young people struggling with relationships nowadays. Back then I could talk about this with friends or family or a therapist and I wasn't dismissed as being an incel or people assuming I felt entitled or whatever. Nowadays if you talk about this stuff people just regurgitate preconceived notions and sound bites.

People can't really get to the truth of what the other person is saying.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-03T15:46:16+00:00

Are genitalia beautiful? Male and female

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-03T15:46:10+00:00

You will never experience pigeon love

あたまつんつん - YouTube

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T15:44:13+00:00

Probably my biggest character flaw is that i am WAY WAY too sensitive like any random thing ruins my mood i had a guy say something to me in a slightly rude tone and i feel like crying. Honesrly why i dont like having boys as my partners

ratboi34 · 2023-11-03T15:32:37+00:00

Euphorias next season will be released in 2025. The actors will be 10 years older than the characters they play and I will be almost 30. These bitches.

WestCombSplit · 2023-11-03T15:29:45+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/g58HKbUlEhk?si=Z-ecjI5oFNdVwBQE

Q4ALL: Did their mother cheat or not?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-03T15:24:02+00:00

Never met a super hot girl or a hot guy who hates men and vice versa women. May not take them super seriously but no hate. They were treated too well and don't have a litany of bad experiences to have an axe to grind. Every misandrist or outright malevolent misogynist was just kinda ugly or had something terrible happen to them

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-11-03T15:07:27+00:00

Daily reminder that everything you do, you do because you wanna get laid

scwizard · 2023-11-03T15:00:13+00:00

My work as a receptionist undermines my feminist views

I (F20) work as a receptionist at a car dealership. It’s a fancy place with expensive cars and a surprisingly good salary relative to the limited responsibilities I have. I rely on this job to pay off credit card debt, which is why I don't consider leaving anytime soon. Obviously, the only thing that matters in my job are looks and manners. It exists to serve the male ego. You buy a car for the price of an apartment and on the top of that get coffee served by a pretty girl to get a full alpha male experience. Most of the time, I am the only woman on the floor, and many of the male colleagues exude daddy energy (this may be influenced by the innocent vibes I project). They attend to my needs, try to make me laugh and feel less lonely. They're nice and respectful, they approve of my work, but I'm doing the dumbest and easiest shit ever.

I wonder what her single mom thinks of her job, assuming she's still in contact with her. Is her single mom more working class or more middle class?

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-03T14:51:30+00:00

Why are women so concerned with beauty, ornamentation and aesthetics even in nonsexual contexts such as decorating or even cooking

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-03T14:45:04+00:00

I don’t normally put too much stock into the redpill’s mantra of “watch what she does, not what she says,” but it came to mind while watching a video by Jubilee.

So many women, especially on here, say that they just need a man to be taller than them. But how much can one trust that? How well can anyone really discern that well from across the room if someone is taller than they are or not? For example, in the video, the woman rates one of the men a 3 because it’s a “pet peeve” of hers when the guy isn’t taller than she is. But the kicker is that the man is in fact taller than she is. He’s just surrounded by dudes that are taller than he is.

So I’m not saying that women are lying when they say that they just want a man to be taller. But I think that this often amounts to still being average height or above, because when you’re standing around other guys who are taller, you’ll be perceived as shorter anyway. And in real life, all it takes is something small like that for a woman to write you off.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-03T14:42:57+00:00

Q4W: The graphs that illustrate the ages men and women prefer physically in the opposite gender is now popular on tiktok and all the women seem to be upset about it. What do you think about men's age preferences (physically)?

https://i.insider.com/54455482eab8ea361710fecc?width=750&format=jpeg&auto=webp

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-03T14:42:18+00:00

Thought on the commute to work today. Women really aren't attracted to men the way most men can be attracted to most women.

Listening to JP, he humorously touches on this in a number of videos on youtube. The gist is that you what the 5 archetypes of guys women read as romantically/sexually titillating and it's vampire, billionaire, surgeon, werewolf, pirate.

Women just cannot get "hard" for men simply being just a man, they need context to be attracted to man. Men, as many can attest to, do not need any extra context to be sexually turned on by a woman, the woman herself is enough. And that is why I believe women's sexuality is more broken than man's, these contexts are constructs, constructs that didn't exist in the distant past. Only after the creation of mythos and the concept of "wealth" was created that women can cling to those contexts, there was no such prior to their creation.

Men can love women by just looking at her. It what she is. That's purer. That's reality. All this made me remember some stories in the Casanova book. It may well be the case that world building and deception is the highest form of building attraction with women.

There's a story in which Casanova, ok looking but poor, wants to seduce a newly single rich socialite. He talks to his friends and asks one if he can borrow his Château, another for a fancy carriage, another he asks for catering, another friend that is about the same size as him he asks for some use of his wardrobe. He fashions himself as young, rich, up and comer onto the scene. He holds a large party and through second party requests makes sure the woman he wants gets invited. He puts on persona and orchestras so much for an impactful meeting, and she is blown away when she arrives at the party. She asks him personal questions as to get to know him, but really get to know how much of this is all "real". He doesn't outright lie to her, but he makes sure that all the signs and signals make it seem that it's all true. And that's good enough for her to fall for him.

A week goes by and she goes back to the Château to find him but some one else answers. Confused she asks and that friend laughs and lets loose about everything Casanova did to win her affection. Feeling duped, she marches to confront him. She finds him having a tea in a cheap cafe and demands an explanation. He admits to the façade he put on to get her, but he never lied to her. She laughs at how simply she got fooled and accepts him as a lover and future husband.

It begs to show, she should've been able to accept him without the ruse. But women desperately need context, it doesn't even matter if the context is true. How limited women are, how much mystery and world building men need to perform to pass for the plainest of janes. It's all sorts of awful.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-03T14:36:31+00:00

I might have gone crazy for watching war movies several days in a row and not getting enough exercise.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-03T14:34:58+00:00

Are we fertile? What did we miss?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-03T14:34:45+00:00

Ladies Suck my cock or you’re a Marxist

(This will work)

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-03T14:33:48+00:00

Why is nobody talking about NNN this year? I am actually making an effort to see if it improves my life at all. At the very least I think it will teach me that I am in control of my actions and I am able to practice restraint which is something I struggle with. I have no self control when it comes to some of my vices.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-03T14:25:46+00:00

I've seen this sorta sentiment a few times but it sorta goes like

it's ok if my gf doesn't wanna have sex if she's sick or something but if it's just cause she doesn't feel like it that's not ok and I am not ok with it

idk how sex works so why do they want sex from someone who doesn't feel like having sex

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-03T14:25:39+00:00

- cheat multiple times and get forgiven

- live in girl's parents house rent free

- fight with her parents

- drive her car, have no license

- always jealous of other girls being nice to me

- never had money, so girls would either pay for dates or we'd go 50/50

- always at least make out on the first meeting

- high school drop out

- anger issues, would get into fights with strangers, punch holes in the wall

- into hard kinks and rough sex

I'm a chad bad boy, aren't I?

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T14:03:08+00:00

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FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-03T14:00:21+00:00

Have you ever caught your parents having sex? Or have they ever caught you?

Have your parents ever caught you masturbating for the incels?

My exes mom walked in on us and saw my ass. But never my own parents

monster_lily · 2023-11-03T13:54:21+00:00

Omgg one thing i hate is when unimportant classes dont realize theyre unimportant, we get out early today because end of the quarter an d my health teacher still has a lesson and an assigmnet plnned. LIke you need to be self aware

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-03T13:54:15+00:00

People say the best sex is with someone you love. I disagree.

The best sex is with a stranger, you don't know her name, you're not entirely erect, someone's knocking on the door and you vomited 30 minutes earlier.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-03T13:54:03+00:00

A lot of men are very bitter about women taking advantage of female privilege. But what they fail to consider is that men are the ones who give us female privilege in the first place

ratboi34 · 2023-11-03T13:36:28+00:00

I like to experiment with different age ranges on tinder and whenever I swipe on 50+ tinder i feel so sad. Some women just look so out of place on tinder. They genuinely seem to be the wholesome motherly type, posing with their kids and not knowing how to hold the camera with a melancholic bio about being widowed for 10 years and now being ready for love again. I probably only see them because they didn't know how to set the right age range.

dbz__f · 2023-11-03T13:32:17+00:00

Picking at your scab feels so good

Don’t @ me

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-03T13:26:26+00:00

I wonder if like “chads” from the 1980’s for example get salty when they think about modern technology. Think about it

Let’s say it’s 1986, you’re tall, really good looking, and put together. You get your fair share, but The only women you can smash are the ones you directly approach, or the ones that directly hit on you. This puts a cap or a ceiling on the amount of women and the variety you can get. Now with the internet the game has changed. Because of Twitter/IG and dating apps you can have a different women in your bed every night without leaving the house. The whole city is your oyster. I have said it before, one of the advantages of online dating is it has introduced me to women that I would have never met without it because we didn’t roll in the same circles or hang out in the same places.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-03T13:22:22+00:00

In my foodie call thread someone said the crazy thing a lot of these women aren’t broke or destitute lol. Some really interesting answers overall

ratboi34 · 2023-11-03T13:14:49+00:00

What countries are the prettiest African women from?

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-03T13:13:45+00:00

Q4M - You get to be Chad but you have a micropenis

Do you accept?

hannahg000 · 2023-11-03T13:10:32+00:00

i started writing again. let’s see how long it takes before i give up again

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-03T13:06:29+00:00

'ite this is actually pretty accurate

https://www.reddit.com/r/2meirl4meirl/s/LphsirCZth

itzReborn · 2023-11-03T12:58:10+00:00

So every Thursday I see this girl in the college cafe at around the same time. Sometimes it looks like she’s doing work and sometimes it looks like she’s doing nothing. I do think she cute but I don’t like her or have a crush on her. Is it acceptable to approach her and introduce myself/try to start a lil convo with her?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-03T12:55:43+00:00

"I just got rejected by some guy at a party, never approaching a man again 🥲"

"Oh no what happened?"

"I flirted with him and he didn't do anything about it."

"Errmm OK, how did you flirt?"

"I smiled at him and laughed at a joke he told."

"....You do realise that's not a clear sign at all right?"

"WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT, I MAY AS WE HAVE LIFTED UP A SIGN THAT SAID FUCK ME!"

Mydragonurdungeon · 2023-11-03T12:44:05+00:00

Q4w: why do your emotions matter so much to you?

Let's say everything in your life is good relatively speaking with your partner but you feel like something is off. Why wouldn't you tell yourself that feeling is silly and ignore it vs trying to address it as if it's a problem?

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