N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

BrainMarshal · 2024-06-26T04:38:36+00:00

I just visited a planet where eating pussy makes men less masculine.

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-06-25T12:14:56+00:00

I remember one girl told me sex with a condom doesn’t count.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-06-24T15:48:06+00:00

I’m starting to think that for PPD dudes “high n” just means “one or two more than my friends and the guys I think I’m competing against (probably from HS)” for men And “One more than my n-count!!?” For women.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2024-06-23T20:04:43+00:00

Below a certain amount and within reason, who a woman was involved with is almost equally as important as the number itself, methinks

(not trying to say this info is necessarily easy to find out or that you ever will, but it rings true)

Vernon_Mansae · 2024-06-23T18:18:24+00:00

Get married lol

Within a few years of marriage 63% of women would rather read a book than have sex.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1280282/Most-married-women-sleep-read-book-watch-film-sex.html

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jL1l9ZtGC2w

Higher_Standard548 · 2024-06-23T16:34:57+00:00

honestly the only reason i need not to date them is that i dont want to, this nonsense than pair bonding and bla bla is just trying to rationalize an innate aversion.

And me rejecting a woman over her past doesnt means i hate women as a whole or that i hate her as a person, i simply dont find her attractive.

Most guys dont find high n women disgusting as people, just as partners and i think we all agree everybody is entitled to their dealbreakers innit? rejecting anyone as a relationship prospect for any reason is fine, the end

NothingOrAllLife · 2024-06-23T15:42:57+00:00

People, in general, cannot tell whether or not you’ve slept with many partners. For the average person, their sexual past is just that, something in the past. And many they’ve learned a lessor or two from it, but with doing anything comes with learning both good and bad information.

Men love women that want to sleep with them - historically, men used to even bankroll their mistresses lives. They would pay for her every need all the while his wife was at home with his kids. His traditionally virgin, demure, submissive wife. Why? Because for a lot of their men they married out of duty.

Today, you don’t have to marry for duty. But instead, you don’t get the virgin wife. Really there’s no need for that anymore. That was just a means of assuring that the children that would take any money/land were that mans children.

Engaging in premarital sex, for healthy and secure reasons, can help that person form a healthy relationship with sex. Just like abstaining from sex and exploring with the right partner after marriage, can also create a healthy relationship with sex. But for both, doing it for the wrong reasons will not help anyone in the long term .

BrainMarshal · 2024-06-23T14:06:28+00:00

Women don't know how to fucking debate. Soon as you debunk their stupid talking points they go right for the personal attacks.

weenieandthebutt · 2024-06-23T11:53:48+00:00

Highbody count man but if I'm to date a girl with a relatively high bodycount, I'm not willing to be the sucker who has to pay and wait around for something others got for free. Difference is men treat LTRs far better than casual partners.

Luciansleep · 2024-06-23T04:48:38+00:00

Q4W: How many of you all here like a big booty on a man?

AngeCruelle · 2024-06-22T22:32:17+00:00

Sometimes I feel like I'm on another planet reading PPD takes on this topic as a Christian virgin. Living in the U.S., I guess that's an important clarification.

I have never had the impression that secular men care that much about a woman's body count. In fact many will think it's weird and you must have some kind of repressive fundie background if it's too low. A lot of men on this sub will claim it's just virtue signaling and what they really think is blah blah blah, but marriage and kids are a long way to go to keep up that ruse.

Then again that may also be related to men's arbitrary parameters of what "high" means. Anything over 0 is high to me, I don't get the distinctions.

unhingedtherapist254 · 2024-06-22T22:23:30+00:00

One of the main reasons why alot men care about bodycount consciously or subconsciously, is because they have to pedestalizing a woman on some level inorder to love her, or at the very least live her how she wants to be loved.

The truth is that when a man becomes emotionally bonded with a woman, he begins to do things that he wouldn't do with other women, women with whom he was only sleeping with. He begins to make commitments, sacrifices, maybe he moves her in, maybe he proposes, or gets married, time, energy, money and opportunity are all sacrificed under the altar of that relationship. And this is not something he ordinarily does, this is not usual behavior. So his mind observing this behavior, is in a bit of a quandry. It's like, "this isn't you man, what's going on with you?"

And the way that most men unconsciously resolve the dissonance in that situation, is by believing some variant of "I'm making this huge investment in this inordinate commitment to this particular woman, things that I've never done before (or usually don't do) for any other woman because, this woman is special. She's not like the other women, she's different. And this difference is the legitimate basis for my different behavior. yeah, it makes sense that I would treat a special woman, specially. And what makes her special among other things, is that she doesn't do the things that other kinds of women, like the women, I casually sleep with do. Therefore I feel good about the sacrifice and commitment I'm making, it's warranted in this particular case."

No guy wants to think that his special little lady, was another man's slut for the night.

OffTheRedSand · 2024-06-22T22:13:38+00:00

women are evil for making a man wait for sex, but they also need a low n count.

so should also accept more dates from average and non chad guys and sleep with them not so long into dating while also maintain low n count? how?

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-06-22T20:46:51+00:00

I'm a high bodycount man and would never take a woman seriously who also had a high bodycount; AMA

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-06-22T20:34:46+00:00

Question for those that say N-count is important to you: what is the number that you’d need to get to consider yourself “high-n” or satisfied?

At what number do you go “ok I’m where I feel I should be/deserve to be/ want to be at”

EqualSea2001 · 2024-06-22T19:29:19+00:00

People who base all their or someone else’s worth on the number of sexual partners or lack of sexual partners have no worth or self-respect. And that doesn’t mean you cannot care about it, but I’m referring to statements such as ‘she has no self-respect’, especially when it comes from another woman. Signed, a no bodies girl.

Queen_BW · 2024-06-22T18:48:03+00:00

This is one of the topics that make me lean red. Call it internalized misogyny, I dont care.

I havent met a promiscuous woman who doesnt do it to get a mans validation yet and I do not set men at the same standard. Im a big hypocrite bc of that, i don’t care about it either.

Ultramega39 · 2024-06-22T17:42:27+00:00

I find it funny how some people get so mad that people don't want to date people with high n count.

Like I can't ever imagine myself being very compatible with someone who participates in casual hookups and gets drunk every weekend.

Like I much prefer to date someone who is an introvert and is a nerd and is ambitious and stuff like that.

macdaddy0800 · 2024-06-22T16:52:44+00:00

Body count to men is what short height is for women.

Don't try to understand it, justify or complain about it.

DietTyrone · 2024-06-22T16:40:49+00:00

If women truly believe body count doesn't matter and that men who care aren't worth dating, why do so many lie or try to hide the number? It makes zero sense logically unless you 1) think the person would care and 2) want a relationship with them despite thinking they would be bothered by it and "insecure."

Can anyone make sense out of the logic behind this?

Maractop · 2024-06-22T16:36:42+00:00

Women care way more about body count than men do.

Women with high counts still get married, get dates, and relationships with no issue. This is a purely online issue and has 0 IRL impact. I assume any woman who complains about this is chronically online.

Virgin and inexperiened men are seen as unattractive and most women would not a date a guy like that and many openly admit this. Many also assume something is wrong with those type of men. There is a huge difference between the two.

old_new_age · 2024-06-22T16:30:35+00:00

hey everybody! trying to raise my n count! let me know if anyone can help!

RubyDiscus · 2024-06-22T16:23:30+00:00

I have low N count but I wish I had high N count 😂 anyone that thinks lows better is delul

fiftypoundpuppy · 2024-06-22T16:16:51+00:00

Q4M: which number cock breaks our pair-bonding ability? Is there a "pair-bonding hymen?"

If you argue for a gradual decrease, what's the percent per cock? I'm assuming diminishing returns at some point, not sure where that scientifically is.

Is there a formula I can use, like a BMI calculator, to determine my current pair-bonding range? Or is there like a blood test I can get from my physician?

I need answers 😩

saraimarsena · 2024-06-22T16:12:55+00:00

first

something some of y’all will never be and that eats you up inside !

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