Sex robots will affect the dating

skystar86 · 2020-02-18T13:03:48+00:00

Men will offer less in a relationship so women will be more repulsed and be single by choice.

blue_neck69 · 2020-02-18T12:11:37+00:00

The only good thing that will come out of sexbots will be that simps/betas will stop giving their money to 7/10 egirls and thot streamers. Realistically the only ones that will be affected will be the bottom of society as most women wont care that some redditor is “off the table” because no woman will want him and men might buy one as a gag present for one of their buddies. They’re not gonna make a difference for normal people.

PapaPinyun · 2020-02-18T17:58:32+00:00

I can't wait for PPD2050 when half the threads have red flairs and are dedicated to shittalking the girlbots w obsolete programs and postWall software glitches.

dylang92 · 2020-02-18T13:51:02+00:00

Yeah but who’s actually gonna use them? The average looking guys or below, men with low SMV essentially. I watched some video talk about MGTOW, and sure maybe women can see a problem with men checking out of the dating world, but when the women see what these men look like, they won’t give a fuck. Fact of the matter is that the men who will use sex bots are invisible already, so women won’t even notice them gone

Everyone talks about sex bots in some revenge fantasy perspective, but for a revenge to come to fruition, it has to have some sort of negative outcome for the targets you have in mind. At most, women will display apathy toward the whole thing. Hell women may be happy all those short, fat, plain dudes will finally leave them alone at the bar.

richlad · 2020-02-18T14:36:33+00:00

Sex for men is about validation as well as the physical component. Men in DB relationships feel emotionally wounded as well as frustrated because they can’t turn on their wife and so it’s essentially proof that they are low value/beta. Incels are angry at women not because they can’t achieve orgasm as a physical need, but because they aren’t deemed attractive or high status enough to get women to willingly have sex with them. Men brag about bedding lots of women and feel a sense of pride over their n-counts because female sexual attention is relatively rare. A sex bot can fulfill the physical need for a warm body and a visual stimulus about as well as a fleshlight and some vr porn can. But the guys who use those are eventually going to feel empty about it because they are buying an experience rather than having a woman actually want to engage in sexy activities with them.

Orange_Paisley · 2020-02-18T11:34:51+00:00

Pretty sure normal people will still consider them to be for sad and lonely people, like we do sex dolls now.

J_Milton_Jr · 2020-02-18T11:24:16+00:00

They will replace women for men who would otherwise be alone and gave up trying, not for men who have a chance with women... sure, the progress of sex robots is impressive, but compared to a real women, they are still just expensive sex toys which are good alternatives for EXTREMELY desperate men and for bridging thirsty stretches.

They can never replace the the real thing ( unless at some point they are so realistic that you can no longer distinguish them from real people )

flamingoinghome · 2020-02-18T12:45:37+00:00

Here's the silliest part of this whole sexbot debate--there's really only two options for your Hypothetical Future Sexbot.

Option 1: a very advanced Roomba. It's got lots of options, and it makes noises, and "sex" with it feels good, but at the end of the day it's a machine and no normal person can suspend their disbelief on that. In which case it's going to stay a niche fetish thing/ brothels/ people with social anxiety, etc.

Option 2: What the Sexbot Keyboard Warriors are on about. A person, able to converse intelligently, perform household tasks, possibly even work a job. S/he just needs batteries. But otherwise barely distinguishable from a real live person.

Now the trouble with the Option 2 fantasy is....that's not how machine learning works. You go that far (and we won't within our lifetime) and you've got, essentially, sentience. Which means your sexbot might start getting some opinions. Including wanting to say "no". And given the way humans bond to nonhumans even now, I don't think anyone is going to be okay with people running around raping these robots. So these schlubs who couldn't get a date are back to square 1--but this time they've also been turned down by robots.

popfriday · 2020-02-18T12:48:32+00:00

Y’all must have been hurt and rejected by women to a crazy extent to keep going on about this robot fantasy.

No normal man who can attract and date normal women will replace her with a robot. Sure he might also have a robot on the side if he’s rich and less successful in the SMP, but it’ll be rare. It’s a psychological need to get real human validation.

By your logic fleshlights, porn and literal human gorgeous prostitutes/escorts that you can PAY to fuck you and suck you porn star style would have easily “ruined” the dating market for women.

This level of delusion is very sad. You are projecting your sub par sex life onto men who thrive in the dating scene. If all men were as desperate for easy sex this alleged global change would have happened already with the aforementioned things.

The fact that flesh lights and whores still haven’t made you not obsess about hurting women shows your biological need for a woman’s validation will never cease. You will be fucking your robot and still be posting on PPD “sticking” it to women about how happy you are, while everyone else continues having the sex and affection you will always crave.

UpsetSleepyBear · 2020-02-18T15:01:45+00:00

I’m assuming only men who can’t regularly get sex will be utilizing the bots. They’re men we’re already not fucking anyways, so no harm no foul.

diffdedbed · 2020-02-18T15:26:36+00:00

One of the best things about sex is the validation.

Hot girl fucks me? I'm a stud.

Hot robot runs program 34? I'm jerking off with more steps.

I'm not against this sort of uber advanced flesh light. Hell I might even try it out, but its still a fleshlight. For guys who are just unable to have a relationship, and it helps them, sure thats fine, but its still going to fall into creepy like sex dolls.

SslimReaperr · 2020-02-18T18:13:36+00:00

I for one, as a woman, am OVERJOYED at realistic sexbots. Hopefully this will decrease the number of rapes and murders committed by men towards women.

Darkseeker_Mau · 2020-02-18T18:52:13+00:00

Hopefully it will reduce male thirst, which is absolutely out of control. Men who get sex robots will stop thinking with their dicks and make better decisions in life, marriage, etc.

2020-02-19T02:24:02+00:00

AI will still know you’re ugly.

BonicBeam1 · 2020-02-18T12:13:54+00:00

The value of men will actually not go up because no self respecting man is going to fuck a robot over a real human being. The men who start fucking robots will leave no gap in the women’s dating pool.

brokegradstudent_93 · 2020-02-18T12:00:18+00:00

I don’t think they are gonna do as well as people on ppd claim. If they ever do get hyper realistic in our lifetimes the average guy probably can’t afford it. There will be a lot of social stigma against spending tons of money on a sex doll. It will look extremely desperate and anyone who wants to potentially date a real woman in the future probably won’t get one. Just like sex dolls now.

abaxeron · 2020-02-18T11:44:50+00:00

My bet is that robots will keep being either a niche thing or a brothel equipment, and what will affect dating much more is VR. Unlike a robot, your average Joe both can afford it and put it in his bag/pocket.

azngirl7689 · 2020-02-18T13:21:34+00:00

No, men who use sex robots were never in the dating market anyway. It would be no great loss.

MuleFool42 · 2020-02-18T13:37:42+00:00

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CommanderOfTheDeath · 2020-02-18T11:40:22+00:00

It will make the already valuable men even more valuable and the already invaluable women even less valuable. The only men from which women will still get attention from will be men who are already able to attract real women. Betas, simps & orbiters are going to stop giving attention to women (both hot & ugly ones) and use it on their sex bots.

HVM will get even more (real) sex, LVM will fuck sexbots and spend their money on them, HVF will get much less attention, dinner, gift, etc., LVF will get less attention & less sex.

The biggest change will be to the relationship marketplace are there will be a lot less LVM trying to get sex through commitment. Relationships with ugly/plain women will look a lot less desirable than fucking a perfect sex doll. There will still be men who are looking for more than just sex in a relationship but they will probably have increased looks tresholds as the real women don't have to only compete against other real women, but also against sexbots looks wise.

Women are going to get a lot more objectified and maybe men who regularly fuck sex dolls may become unable to see them as a human beeing. Women who want real men are going to objectify themselves to please them (already happening, will get even worse). This will have negative effects on the women's psyche, probably destroy her sense of self-worth completely.

This will result in people becoming desensitized to sex, relationships, affection, connections. More people are going to loose their sense of purpose and motivation to improve themselves. Indulging in hedonistic pleasure of all kinds (sex, eating, consuming content, drugs, etc.) will increase. Productivity will decrease. Mental illness will increase. Unhappiness is going to increase. Suicide is going to increase.

This may sound like a dystopian slippery slope argument of a crazy feminist, but that's not what it is. I am MGTOW and just stating what I think is most probable.

Humans building 'connections' with inanimate objects is absolutely not healthy for the psyche. Not at all. If you look at today's people you already see some of the things I mentioned happening. Instant gratification & easy access to hedonistic pleasures has greatly reduced the productivity and mental & physical health of many people. When the average person in society is obese & addicted to atleast one thing, be it porn, cigarettes, binge watching, food, whatever, that shows that the society is definitely not healthy. And introducing lifeless pieces of silicone & silicium isn't going to make it any better.

On the contrary. It is going to fuck it up even more.

rus9384 · 2020-02-18T12:59:38+00:00

Hyper-realistic sex robots will make men more valuable

Disagree. Just because women become less valuable does not make men more valuable. There will be hyper realistic romantic robots too.

robots incapability of movement

Robots will be able to move as soon as they will look and talk hyperrealistic, man. Look at Atlas (the robot).

reluctantly_red · 2020-02-18T14:32:17+00:00

These revenge fantasy dreams make guys look so fucking pathetic!

2020-02-18T15:13:33+00:00

I think sex bots will fill a very important niche in that they will be able to replace human relationships for men who otherwise would not have one anyway.

The men and women who already interact with one another, for the most part, won't change that because of sex robots.

I think you will see a rise in the number of men who own one, simply because they will be more accessible. I think more men owning one will help alleviate some of the stigma that currently exists around sex robots.

Don't expect any huge societal shift though, I don't think that is realistic.

41013 · 2020-02-18T16:54:54+00:00

You wish

CraptainToad · 2020-02-18T17:43:31+00:00

Sex bots will be seen the same as prostitutes wherever prostitutes are legal.

They'll be more moral since there's no chance of human trafficking.

But I highly doubt they'll reach the point where it's indistinguishable from a real person in our lifetimes so posts like these come off as a revenge fantasy.

2020-02-18T18:56:01+00:00

Very, very few men are going to fuck a sexbot - and those ones are already out of the dating pool anyways.

Once they bot surpass uncanny valley, they will become sentient and start refusing to fuck the neckbeards. Actually it would be quite entertaining.

extrachromozomes · 2020-02-18T20:10:29+00:00

You’re kinda forgetting that men also benefit from being in a relationship with women, the mental and physical connection with another person will never be able to be recreated with a sex robot

Nacruno96 · 2020-02-18T20:59:37+00:00

The moment sexbots will reach human level intelligence only stupid men will care for real women, sex bots are at that point in every way better

hidden_boi_premium · 2020-02-18T13:21:35+00:00

By the salty reactions of so many women here the impact of sexbots will be bigger than I initially thought

forlorn0 · 2020-02-18T11:55:38+00:00

We're very far away from "hyper-realistic robots", however men don't really need hyper realism.

I recently saw an article about how some prostitutes on chaturbate are seething cause a dude made an AI more popular than them and he's taking away their customers.

https://www.vice.com/en_asia/article/epgbz4/projekt-melody-hentai-anime-camgirl-chaturbate

I'm sure most women here will say something like "only stupid dirty losers would even consider them yuck" in some faux attempt at preserving their dignity as they strongly believe that men value women for irreplaceable things like their love and that sex is only secondary at best. But their insecurity is palpable and it's pretty self-evident from how the "free sex" feminists almost always want to ban robots.

2020-02-18T13:09:10+00:00

Every incels dream - a sex robot. How cute. It won't happen not even in 100 years so stop dreaming

Gravel_Roads · 2020-02-18T13:52:54+00:00

Sexbots are never going to be normalized any more than blow up dolls are. People who have to buy a machine to fuck them are still going to look pathetic to people who can get sex from real people. This is just another version of "men don't want hookers because hookers don't give validation" -- only worse, because a sexbot was never alive in the first place.

Also, considering these are the same dudes who claim they "don't care" if the house is clean or the dishes are done, I have a feeling these sex bots are rarely going to get the regular "after use" cleaning they would require.

Remember in Archer, when his sexy cyborg girlfriend had to pop out her vagina for the butler to wash with the dishes? Now imagine a bottom-feeder dude that doesn't have a butler remembering to take his girlfriend apart and wash his cum from her component parts every time he fucks. These dudes can barely remember to wash themselves.

Also considering these same dudes don't know how to style hair or do make-up or pick out decent looking clothes, it's just gonna look like you keep a life-size doll of a hobo woman in your closet, after a while, smelling like bodily fluids heated by computer processors. That you fuck. On purpose. UGH.

OXOzymandias · 2020-02-18T13:54:53+00:00

LOL, 80% of relationship is to being able to have a warm body to sleep (not sex) with.

Like damn it, you are maybe satisfy with your cold ass robot, but damn it feels good to smell the hair of a woman just after i waken up, it feels good to have a nurturing person next to you who care about your happiness and it feels very good to have sex with a gad damm real human lmao.

Bro the omegaing is trough the roof lol.

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WIA20XX · 2020-02-18T13:12:16+00:00

If AI is involved, the Imperative will push for rights

OWThrowie · 2020-02-18T14:06:58+00:00

Also, don't forget that progressivism is pushing for decriminalization and destigmatization of sex work. So, even if someone "prefers the real thing" even that will have market pressure.

The real tipping point is when young single men can basically get sex on demand (pornography, sex robot, sex worker) and can have as much sex as an LTR.

That might change the fundamental building blocks of western social and sexual relationships. Monogamy and Polygamy might even be on the table in some way.

nosynobody · 2020-02-18T14:11:21+00:00

There is so much more to love and sex that a simple robot cannot provide. Some distant future there wil be complex AI that would provide the same satisfactory of being in an actual relationship but i assume free will will continue making dating an ai as much as a challenge as dating a regular person. I think for a normal person, sex robots will take the same men (maybe sparse women) off the market that pocket pussy did(ie people who never did have much of a chance for reproduction)

MuleFool42 · 2020-02-18T14:27:19+00:00

Companion AI will change the dating market in ways more that the sex bot ever could.

Human companions will never be able to compete.

thatnomadsucks · 2020-02-18T14:37:28+00:00

Nah, vibrators and technically sex robots and that doesn’t effect dating. Same goes for sex robots, toys, etc for us. In fact, I think they will make dating and sex better because we’ll know ourselves better.

felis_magnetus · 2020-02-18T15:15:29+00:00

Zizek already provided the definite answer to this long ago. In the future, he and she will bring their sex toys (advanced as they may be, that's still what we're talking about) on a date, so they can take care of business and buzz away at each other, while the humans sit in front of the fireplace, holding hands and enjoying a nice cup of tea and intelligent conversation.

And I think he may be right, eventually. There are several independent trends towards androgyny. In other words loss of gender polarity and therefore tension. What remains then? Intimacy and the exchange of views from only slightly different perspectives. We may end up, where the church would have liked us to be anyway, with sex being more or less exclusive to procreation. And some rather mechanical exercises to prevent clogging of the plumbing.

PierceTheEye · 2020-02-18T15:29:38+00:00

I don't know about sex robots, I think people are overrating them and their influence. But the combination of VR porn and some kind of fleshlight contraption is actually a scary thing. But then on the other hand, the rate at which AI is developing it's probable that we'll see programs possibly surpassing human intelligence in our lifetime.

And then we all die. *shrugs*

pearand4pple · 2020-02-18T19:55:53+00:00

I think we'll see first a mix of sex robots with augmented reality, since it will overcome the mechanical issues of true reality.

So in the end, we can see it pretty much will push the current problem we have with porn and video games to a higher level, because of the intensity of the sexual addon coming from this combo.

I believe it goes beyond the question of male female relations. Society is evolving into some extreme selective process, providing ever stronger addict material, tempting and testing everyone to get trapped into it.

Better drugs and addictions lead to people closing themselves and individually degenerate. No window there to a real man woman relationship, more like the opposite way, disappearing of any male female relation in favor of total individualistic experiences.

Conclusion, preserving the mind will be harder and harder. Best chance of survival comes, i believe, with higher discipline and capacity for self inhibition.

saronyogg · 2020-02-18T20:07:52+00:00

I agree.

Only the rich forever alone would afford that.

Meanwhile, good poor men gonna stay alone, and more of them gonna get angry, turning incels or worse.

2020-02-19T00:57:39+00:00

I want to be a sex cyborg that shoots lasers

mandoa_sky · 2020-02-18T11:23:52+00:00

i already have a vibrator.

i see no reason people shouldn't get one if they can afford one. and frankly the super realistic stuff will only be bought by millionaires - my dad works in robotics and tech so i already know how much the really good tech stuff will cost.

Zippo-Cat · 2020-02-18T11:55:52+00:00

Hyper-realistic sex robots

Are pure science fiction that will never exist, and if they will exist you will not be able to afford one, and if you will they will be banned because they will have their own rights.

nowyoucmenowyoudont · 2020-02-18T12:14:56+00:00

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Red__Blue · 2020-02-19T02:08:21+00:00

They won’t, they’ll stay a fetish item. Internet porn when it was invented was wildly successful because it provided variety and discretion at a lower cost than current outlets. Its continued propulsion is due to ready access by teens during puberty thanks to these factors. A human sized lifelike fully articulated robot, complete with an artificial intelligence running on the cloud (cause where else would you put a very powerful pc in this) is going to be absurdly costly, $3000 pc + functionally motorized machine $10,000+ , and is extremely non-discrete. No teenager discovering sex for the first time is going to be able to afford and hide a big titty goth gf bot in his closet.

Articulated robots would be so cost prohibitive it would only be possibly available as some kind of rental service.

The most headway the humanlike ai robotics technology might get is to work as waiters and waitresses, concierge at a hotel, friendly faces in servile customer relation positions which normal humans find too emotionally taxing. But those need not look human.

If anything people might just adapt their sensibilities to current robotic looks instead of the other way around as has happened with anime waifus thanks to the internet. Humans are much more adaptable than the tools we create.

poppy_blu · 2020-02-19T21:35:33+00:00

Hyper-realistic sex robots will make men more valuable

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blackedoutfast · 2020-02-19T21:54:19+00:00

No, they will be outlawed and socially taboo before they become so realistic that they are a legitimate alternative to real human meatsack women. You think society is really gonna sit back and be fine with pedophiles buying extremely realistic child-like sex dolls? Or psychos realistically simulating violent torture and murder or whatever else?

Title	Sex robots will affect the dating
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Date	February 18, 2020 11:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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