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PaleoPimp · 2022-07-15T22:41:49+00:00

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Time_4Change · 2022-07-15T23:00:12+00:00

Where are y'all finding a house for $200k??

Lit-Up · 2022-07-15T22:34:24+00:00

Yes it does, but it doesn't make anything completely impossible. This guy who says you need to spend 200k on a house before you get pussy is an idiot lol

rfd007694 · 2022-07-16T02:20:32+00:00

Dude you are doing the best decision, money/your future should come before girls, if you manage to meet a girl that understands it you will get everything! if not the future you will thank you

RideTheRim · 2022-07-16T00:09:00+00:00

I lived at home til 30. It certainly made things harder but I still found women that had their own places and didn't mind I didn't. That being said, now that I'm moved out, it's much easier. I hated bringing someone I wasn't dating seriously around my family and having no privacy.

ikeepon · 2022-07-16T00:10:01+00:00

Nah, who cares. If she’s attracted enough she won’t care. Just make sure she doesn’t live at home. Or has a car. Then you can smash.

nordik1 · 2022-07-15T23:44:32+00:00

Just find a girl that also lives with her parents🤣🤣

DoomKnight45 · 2022-07-16T00:06:04+00:00

Just meet at her place, you’re not going to be missing out on that much. Trust your gut on what to do financially.

cormacru999 · 2022-07-16T02:04:04+00:00

I mean, depending on the details, it can but doesn't have to. Yes, most women, especially in their 30's & up, expect a man to be on his own. But the fact is, in America, 80% of the population is poor or lives in poverty. If you were living at home & playing video games all day long, then you weren't get far in a relationship, but it sounds like you are working towards a future you want in a way that might be best for you. I think as long as you're upfront about that, you'll both lose anyone who can't see the sense of that, & any woman like that wouldn't be the best partner, & other women will see that you're responsible & planning.

The key thing here is that you should use your car & $ to create great dates, because you would be using those activities to show what kind of partner you can be, because its less likely that you want to hang out at home with her. Again, if this is a deal breaker, than I'd see that as a positive, good, that woman let you know right away she can't deal with this, but MANY women would.

Men get real upset when I talk about women's preferences & experiences in reality, as opposed to what men tell each other about women, but the sad fact is that if you can be aware of what women deal with from men all the time, you can really shine as a man by not doing all those things & a woman will cheerfully stand by you while you save $ & look for the right first new place to live.

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angie-1964 · 2022-07-16T03:05:50+00:00

Depends...If you are working part time at Taco Bell...then at your age that is a turn off. If you have a solid job, and are living at home to save cash for the future..thats actually a bit of a turn on.

EquivalentAd9241 · 2022-07-16T02:19:41+00:00

Naw hoes will fuck on a back porch if they want to fuck bad enough

2022-07-16T02:19:48+00:00

Yea girls don’t care as much as you’d think. Life’s hard. Living with the parents is fun especially if the house is nice.

TwoTomatoMe · 2022-07-16T05:19:23+00:00

Anyone telling you it’s a deal breaker has no idea what they’re talking about and obviously don’t get out much or have any game themselves. If you have a decent job, a car, and your reasonably good looking, you’re already set because those are honestly more important to most women. When I dated at your age, most often I’d go back to the girl’s place even though I had my own place. I honestly think women just feel more comfortable hooking up with someone they just met at their own place instead of going to the home of someone they just met. At your age, there is no shame in living at home as long as you let them know it’s temporary, just in between places, and you have your shit together. Yes, there is a small chance it might be a deal breaker for some girls, but honestly they’re definitely not worth your time. Honestly this sub gives the worst advice sometimes, and people bringing down your confidence telling you it’s a deal breaker are not worth your time either.

gmos905 · 2022-07-16T00:20:59+00:00

lol I used to live at my parents house in the forest. I'd be pulling girls from the bar, driving 45 minutes until we're outside of civilization and there stops being streetlights, then we just drive in the shadows until we arrive at my mama house.

Girls will literally risk their lives to go home with you, don't overthink and just pull to mom and dads.

Also disclaimer, this usually wouldn't be first night pulls. I would usually meet girls at the bar then go on a date and then make the forest drive after the date or I'd meet them out at the bars on the weekend. The point is simply that living at your parents house doesn't really effect much

2022-07-16T02:15:38+00:00

No, plenty of couples live at their parents house before they have enough money to move in together. But as for dating, you'll find someone that understands your situation.

Aquix · 2022-07-16T02:51:35+00:00

No. I got laid regularly living at home in my late 20's. Bring her to your bedroom and fuck her. Stop being a self-conscious pussy about it. Your status or value as a man has no relation to the way the lower 99% is being exploited for labor. You live at home because that's how life is right now in a capitalist society, not because there's anything to be shameful about. Capeesh?

dirtythirty1864 · 2022-07-16T05:30:39+00:00

Don't mention it when first meeting them. Just mention it on the first actual date. Also quickly tell them the reason, that you work, help pay bills, etc. I phrase it as "I'm helping to take care of my grandparents." Because that is what I'm doing technically. When you're out and someone wants to go home with you, just say "I've got people at my house sleeping, can we go to your place instead?" Don't explain who the people are, just say people for now until you have an actual date.

To those out there turned off by a guy living at home. Look around, take a look at rent prices, housing prices. I would rather live with my safe grandparents than live in meth central just to have a place of my own. And nowadays I can't even afford meth central in my area.

Stunning-Low-6306 · 2022-07-16T05:40:48+00:00

None of the females ever cared about getting pounded at my parents it was all in my mind.

Floatingtothemoon · 2022-07-16T02:05:52+00:00

Of course it does

It's either neutral or a turn off

It completely messes up the logistics of brining one back home

You gotta make sure everyone is in their room. You can't be too loud, say what you wanna say, make it sexual, etc. Cuz people could hear you. It's awkward in so many ways. Totally kills the vibe

Just like being 120lbs overweight doesn't mean you csnt get a girl, living at home doesn't mean you csnt get a girl. It just makes it much harder and is 1 more hurdle you have to overcome

Everlast23 · 2022-07-16T00:35:55+00:00

It's mostly a logistics issue. Even if you meet someone awesome and the date is going well, it's hard to take them back to parents house because it's embarrassing.

That being said: My best friend slept on a blow up mattress in his parents living room of their 1 bedroom apartment. His brother also shared the living room. They were in their late 20s and completely broke.

My friend would bring back women all the time from the bar down the street, and then bang them in his parents living room on his blow up mattress with his brother trying to sleep on the other side of the room.

Completely shameless, lol.

So yeah, life finds a way even in adversity.

Ottobre14 · 2022-07-16T03:55:14+00:00

25 in NYC and living with my parents because rent is next level expensive, met a girl who is 22 and living with her parents because rent is expensive, shit I met a girl who was 29 and living with her parents because it was expensive.

It is a red flag to be living with your parents, well to some yes and to others no. It also depends if you are trying to get out of your current situation, I just graduated with my associates and plan on getting my bachelors then I’m leaving the nest.

If a girl doesn’t like that you live with your parents move on find someone who is more understanding, you will find one.

NewCommonSensei · 2022-07-16T05:47:10+00:00

For the wrong chicks it certainly is a turn off. Those tend to be the ones who I don’t want to date anyway.

rallyechallenger · 2022-07-16T07:14:48+00:00

Don’t b sorry for ur parents being good parents & not kicking u out at 18 for some “tough guy mentality” real parents help ther children for life. Anyone that say no they clearly don’t like ther kids or want them away for some time they “parents” like time alone. Stack money give money to ur parents instead of rent & give some stranger douche land lord $3k a month. I live by San Jose. San Jose is so expensive I know ppl that own a house & each person helps & each person save so much. Some ppl live alone & struggle. Team work makes the dream work. Solo ppl keep going do ur thing ur tough but some r tougher together so let it b don’t hate appreciate each other up rising. Stack money

Allysa209 · 2022-07-16T01:03:37+00:00

I met my husband when he was 27 and still living at with his parents. He had a job, a car, and whatever else responsible adults needed to have. We never hooked up at his parent's house though so maybe it's best to find your own place before doing that, but for the most part, I fell in love with him regardless of his living conditions.

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waverunnr · 2022-07-16T02:20:04+00:00

If you date girls younger than you who are in the same situation, it probably won’t matter if you follow rules 1,2,3,4,5

Ho_KoganV1 · 2022-07-16T04:56:44+00:00

Lol no, as long as she sees ur independent and aren’t yelling at ur mom being a man child, ur good

Just tell her to say hi to anyone she sees on the way in

dogtitts · 2022-07-16T05:03:28+00:00

Not all girls

Radners · 2022-07-16T05:19:56+00:00

Dating ain’t worth saving rent upwards of 600$

majestic-mare · 2022-07-16T07:25:33+00:00

It’s more about how you feel about living at home than the fact that you’re actually living at home that may be holding you back.

Sabres26 · 2022-07-16T08:58:40+00:00

I never had an issue while finishing my degree but I had the basement to myself

TheNextBigCrash · 2022-07-16T17:42:41+00:00

Depends on the relationship you have with parents/people you live with.

I’m 25, and moved back home after leaving my old job in March. It’s only me and 1 parent in my house and she’s quite relaxed about me bringing people over. She just says hello and gets back to whatever she’s doing, there’s no sit-down dinner, awkward chat, door-open rules etc. It’s not lost me any dates so far.

A lot of my mates are in quite successful relationships and they also live with parents. It’s not uncommon for people our age to still live at home, and you can just frame it as “saving up for my own place”. Everyone I’ve ever met that rents is miserable as sin and they’re spending half their salary just so they can pay off someone else’s mortgage, but it’s ok because “at least I don’t live with my parents”. What a weird timeline we live in where spending HALF your money on some shithole apartment that you don’t even own is more appealing than living with your OWN FAMILY.

If your family is quite full on, just sit them down and say you are seeing people and for your relationships to work you’d like to bring them over, and just ask your parents to be cool about it. Mileage may vary. If your parents are strict and still treat you like a kid, maybe stick to going to her place.

thegreatiyas · 2022-07-16T18:20:20+00:00

As long as your confident in what you believe in, you’ll find WOMEN that won’t care or find it inspiring what you’re doing. You believe it’s ridiculous to live on your own and want to save up some cash for your future? That’s an honorable thing and as long as you’re confident that you’re doing the right thing, everyone will believe you’re doing the right thing. Confidence is key. If you’re not confident about your own decisions, that’s the turn off.

After_Pickle6293 · 2022-07-16T19:04:41+00:00

i dont rlly think its a big deal as long as u are working hard, its so hard to live anywhere now n days so i dont blame u

Khower · 2022-07-16T22:14:13+00:00

I lived with my dad for an entire year and I never brought a girl home but it never stopped me much

AngelRipper01 · 2022-07-17T01:27:36+00:00

No. Women sleep with losers that still live with mom all the time (criminals, drug dealers, murderers).

CanUnusual8729 · 2022-07-15T23:31:21+00:00

Yes. If you’re living at home so that you can set more money aside to advance your financial situation (investing, getting out of debt, etc) then keep your head down and keep grinding. If you’re living at home because you’re comfortable or you can’t afford your own place, invest in a more lucrative skillset, learn financial literacy and leave the nest.

zzzrecruit · 2022-07-16T01:33:15+00:00

Gonna be honest. It is 100% a turn off. I would never go out with a man who still lived at home with his parents.

GreenHoodie808 · 2022-07-16T00:25:59+00:00

Can you afford a motel?

mfposgbcs · 2022-07-16T02:08:56+00:00

I have several hundred thousand net worth in cash, crypto and business assets. I don't have any girls after me. Anyone saying you need money is lying, probably only gold diggers want that. Oh and yeah I still live with my family under one roof.

grindforthegold · 2022-07-16T02:22:41+00:00

honestly i’ve fucked lots of girls at my crib and just had a gf. that being said it does hurt but only on the first bang. take them to a hotel or rent a place with a bunch of friends to cut cost. either way this is not a bad time to not be living out cuz prices are sky high and lots of girls are living with their parents. it’s very understandable right now to be saving money

also my friend has never lived alone and fucked like 35-40 girls. try to go for younger girls older ones i think asume you have a place

BreakDance4cash · 2022-07-16T00:26:13+00:00

What do u want casual hook ups or a relationship? If u just want a gf then she should be ok with u living with ur parents and understandable, if not then she's not gf material, try to get a gf who like u for what u got rn, not a gf who likes u just because u got ur own crib. As for hook ups, ur going to need to step ur game up with the logistics son, try renting out a camper van, park it near the club, dont say u rented it, say ur uncle is in town and let u borrow it, stock up the van with liquor good vibes and good music, chat her up and then escalate, the best thing about the van is that u can take it anywhere 🥰

2022-07-15T22:25:06+00:00

elder player here and PUA. the number one rule before everything is; logistics. no privacy = no pussy. it sucks i know. women dont need to shell out 200k for dick but you do for pussy

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-07-15T23:12:13+00:00

TobididiT · 2022-07-16T00:36:39+00:00

No way having a girl over should weigh more than the solid financial decision you’re making rn. I wouldn’t rush into any decision. I recently moved with my brother I save up for a home and that’s going to be more of a profitable decision than “having a place to take a girl”. Most girls also at your age have their own places cos they “need the freedom”, if you’re relatively good looking with solid know how’s on picking up women you shouldn’t struggle at all with that.

wzd_cracks · 2022-07-16T01:26:28+00:00

The girls that care about that still live with their parents.

Jackietan · 2022-07-16T01:51:20+00:00

In my experience not really. I’m a nurse and lived with my mom until 32. I just tell them that I like to wake up to free meals and be tucked in in bed most of the time. Ofcourse with a serious/joke tone at the same time. Just have to own it and act confident. Although I had a reason to be at home since my youngest sister was still in highschool and my mom was also a nurse working third. So if my sister needed a meeting in the am I can take over but I feel like even without a real reason if you can own it and make a joke out of it its fine. Especially these days

Catharsistic · 2022-07-16T02:28:46+00:00

Depends , do you live in California? If so. Where in California do you live? Chances are you stay with your parents still.

I had 350k by the age of 22.. Im 27 and still live with my Dad, granted he had cancer around the age of 45 and is now 65... and I never really got around to understanding or having a person in my life teach me financial responsibility or how to buy a house/property.

We live on section 8 , my dad has been disabled for as long as I can remember and I guess in a way for this part of my family I've been the one given both the blessing and burden of breaking the poverty cycle.

Some days I really truly do feel like life is passing me by and my dreams are fading away though...

ComedianSquare2839 · 2022-07-16T09:44:00+00:00

Yes , it is.

You are not considered to be independent.
Girl won't feel free at your place as it's been shared with your parents.
I know it's hard but you need to make choice to save money or having life.

lil_investor8 · 2022-07-16T00:32:51+00:00

Brother I am on the same situation at the moment. Its cool that posted this.

I am great with girls (interacting, dancing, making out ) but I cant close due not being able to bring them home.

Mind if we become friends? Lol

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-07-16T01:19:10+00:00

It is kinda a turn off and weird to bring a girl home to your parents house to have sex. But 26 is young…I wouldn’t write a 26 year old off for still living at home. If he was 30 and still doing it for no good reason, then that’s different. Maybe suggest her place to go back to?

Pain_Tough · 2022-07-16T01:12:34+00:00

I was single until I was 24, LDR and flying to see her and traveling so didn’t affect anything.

PTSDrazor · 2022-07-16T01:38:26+00:00

This post gave me a cold dose at reality

Gianniis_ · 2022-07-16T02:36:52+00:00

Same here, 22yo and find it disrespectful to my parents to bring a girl over. Waiting to get a room in my universities city before i start online dating or ONS

throwaway_6196190012 · 2022-07-16T02:57:23+00:00

Yes, move out. Women like independent men

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-16T04:20:30+00:00

When do you plan on moving out? When you are 40? When you get married? When your parents finally get sick of you and kick you out?

X-Tragic · 2022-07-16T06:23:33+00:00

Yeah girls don’t like being trapped in bedroom 24/7 nor looking over their shoulder thinking what to say to your family Lol.

Spend time looking for a good deal on a house, Buy a house because rent is more then a mortgage. and study how to save by yourself ? bro you got this

RecognitionMajestic · 2022-07-16T11:31:50+00:00

How are you going to make a girl moan when you live at home 😉

pinktuliplover · 2022-07-16T14:47:09+00:00

It’s definitely a turn off. It makes you look unstable financially.

Jonathanwennstroem · 2022-07-16T15:05:01+00:00

Everyone who says it doesn’t is lying or just doesn’t know what they are talking about.

Being almost 30 and living at home would, like in your case, simply bring down the confidence as „bringing someone home“ just isn’t as simple as it would be if you‘d live by yourself. You‘ll always have something „living at home“ to blame instead of working on yourself. We humans tend to look for excuses.

That being said, dating and hooking up with someone are 2 different things. If you‘d like to date, you‘ll most likely meet them outside to meet, grab food/drinks or do an activity…. And you do that the first 1-3+ times you meet. So it‘s irrelevant where you live as long as it doesn’t affect your mental health.
After that she has a place where you could go or you‘ll just have to have the confidence to bring people into your parents place :)

Hararger · 2022-07-16T15:27:54+00:00

Yeah it does. Move out, you’re 26

2022-07-16T21:03:55+00:00

I’m going to be honest and say Yes that’s such a fucking turn off. Like bro, I don’t want my future mother in law to hear me having sex with their son lol. My man has multiple incomes and we’re also 26. One of them is that he’s a property manager so he doesn’t pay rent. Maybe start looking for other sources of income so you can be OTB (Out that bitch) and get your own place already.

Hortos · 2022-07-16T00:33:06+00:00

You're better off spending the money on saving up to get your own place rather than blowing it on dates you don't have any place to take them back to.

2022-07-16T02:42:35+00:00

You bet your ass it does, grow up.

urmumsundies1 · 2022-07-16T02:55:13+00:00

Your 26. When did you start saving money? When did you first get a job? I know 17 year Olds about to move out on their own and get married. He has 10k saved up. And he works at mcdonalds. What's your excuse?

loosetingles · 2022-07-16T02:23:40+00:00

I think it depends on the circumstances of living at your parents. Are you in the basement or attic, are your parents cool, is the house big, is your room right next to theirs?

Mediocre-Ebb9862 · 2022-07-16T02:34:08+00:00

Dude I totally get you but most people think that those living with parents are 90% losers and ambition-less bums, and they ain’t gonna take a chance you are smart motivated and financially savvy guy who gathers down payment money.

big_dong_de_jong · 2022-07-16T03:22:13+00:00

Following

Yesu777 · 2022-07-16T03:23:22+00:00

Makes it harder but not impossible

Jacob_Soda · 2022-07-16T03:26:49+00:00

If you're in a relationship with someone say Muslim. It might be more acceptable due to family ties and to avoid temptations it might work in your favor. If you have a reason with a full time job, it's okay. The economy is shit now.

lilfishbowl · 2022-07-16T03:35:07+00:00

I still live at home. I may not have any acres but I sho'nuff got the inches to make up for it. ☻️💪

emkehh · 2022-07-16T03:45:42+00:00

Doesn’t bother me. Granted, I don’t want a nesting partner, but I really couldn’t care less if you’re living at home. Good for you for saving money! Might make fuckin’ more difficult but you’ll just have to get creative.

great_account · 2022-07-16T04:07:27+00:00

It's nobody's fault you live at home. This is just the reality. You can still find women to date, just don't come off as a deadbeat.

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Fantastic_Sale_7940 · 2022-07-16T04:30:50+00:00

U stupid noob 🤣

Expert-Lemmon · 2022-07-16T04:46:15+00:00

Yes I'm 24 and my main goal is to get out of my dad's house. Girls like freedom, the more you have the better

morchorchorman · 2022-07-16T05:15:54+00:00

Depends entirely on the reason and the living situation itself. If you live in a big finished basement and are saving up for a house, or just saving in general then I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. If you are living in the same bedroom you grew up in then yeah bro you gotta find some roommates and bounce. Considering you got a decent job and a car this shouldn’t be that big of a problem.

bellusbestia1 · 2022-07-16T06:25:54+00:00

I’m almost 30 years old and have been living with extended family aka grandparents and an auntie since I moved out of my parents house at 19. So basically the same since they treat me like their son. I’m not super good looking by any means and I’m also short since that matter a lot it seems. However, my personality is nice and I’m funny. I dress well and have a good job. I’ve been in long term relationships and the girls don’t seem to care very much because they have their own apartments even at 25. The girls I date have nice features (nice asses) haha but they’re not butter faces and have personality. The girl I’m with now is prettier than my last and has an amazing personality. She supports me saving money at home. Also I’m not a deadbeat. I have consistently been leveling up in my career(I’m not rich). I make over 6 figures but my cost of living is expensive. Probably among the highest in the nation. These girls I meet at work, which might not be the best idea since I almost got HR on my case and threw my career out but I’m doing well haha so take give you a short answer, it takes a lot of patience since I’ve also been single for years at a time but I’ve also been in 2+ year long relationships with quality women.

malcolmfreex · 2022-07-16T06:47:36+00:00

as 25F, i’ll be honest it’s a dealbreaker for me

Gaydame · 2022-07-16T07:33:51+00:00

Go back to hers

Imaginary-Loan4926 · 2022-07-16T08:03:56+00:00

2022-07-16T08:05:43+00:00

Only 1 way to know. Go rent a house and live independent for a month or two. If you are happy living solo and also getting girls to come over, then cool it worked out for you. BTW, most people move out of their parents home to become more independent and learn life the hard way. Don't move out just because you want to get girls come over. There are MANY men who are living solo and independent and still finding it hard to get girls to like them/come over.

2022-07-16T09:00:35+00:00

I’m 24F and recently returned home after moving out at 18 (need to save for a deposit)

I wouldn’t mind a man that lived at home, would be logistically a bit difficult (lots of hotel visits and holidays I guess). With the very important caveat that they are at home to SAVE A DEPOSIT, not because they are a deadbeat.

I wouldn’t go back to someone’s parents house for a hookup though. It would have to be more a dating/girlfriend situation (where I’m not hiding in your room because they know I’m your girlfriend so I can freely move around the house).

ErenYDidNothingWrong · 2022-07-16T09:10:22+00:00

Why don’t you go after women in college or women with their own place? I’ve hooked up plenty and 95% of the time it was at the women’s place.

blue23454 · 2022-07-16T09:20:38+00:00

Answering as a gay man

Can’t say if it’s a turn off for girls but I imagine it’s a similar experience

Living at home is weird for hookups like most of the time I was hooking up I lived at home but never when parents were home so either their parents weren’t home or they lived alone. Even with a roommate hook ups got weird a lot of dudes wanted me to sneak in (although in retrospect their “roommates” were probably parents).

In terms of dating it never got weird though. We live in a time where it’s embarrassing to live with our parents into our 20s and yet at the same time it’s commonplace enough that it shouldn’t be. Most of the dudes I dated either lived with their parents or were like “yeah that’s totally normal in our generation”

I lived at home all the way until I was 27

Plenty of dating, plenty of fucking

The dating took place at home often, the fucking? Not so much.

2022-07-16T09:27:48+00:00

same here bro

Un_Common · 2022-07-16T09:58:11+00:00

Absolutely it does....

Domin8u315 · 2022-07-16T10:25:45+00:00

20ftScarf · 2022-07-16T10:51:13+00:00

earsurgery9 · 2022-07-16T10:52:33+00:00

irrelevant for getting laid

Matter if you're trying to get a relationship

shadowwarrior360 · 2022-07-16T12:20:15+00:00

Get a hotel close to downtown or nearest your favorite bars on weekends where the temperatures will be hot. Then you guys got a place to go after being out. You can just say you’re from out of town for a one night stand or that you have been in the hotel for a week while you wait patiently wait for your new condo to be finished haha.

AGROCRAG004 · 2022-07-16T12:59:54+00:00

Although not a complete deal-breaker it’s also not exactly a plus or turn on lol I’ve missed out on a few really attractive girls due to this.

On the other hand I figure if you meet a girl who believes in you now, then when you do make it she deserves all the shared success for sticking with you through the lows on the way up.

2022-07-16T13:00:22+00:00

what if you're 30 and living with parents and making slightly under 40k? curious what people think

2022-07-16T13:39:21+00:00

reddunt3 · 2022-07-16T13:58:00+00:00

(25) For me, it’s not that it turns girls off (I think most half decent girls understand there are many valid reasons to be at home in your 20s), but it’s a logistical nightmare. I can’t really pull girls back to mine, so unless she’s got her own place and a living situation conducive to bringing a guy over, my car is the only option. If she also lives at home, which is increasingly common at my age because inflation, then we just flat out aren’t compatible.

But I live at home because my parents are financially struggling (need my rent money and help paying bills) and my mother has health conditions that have her with likely less than 5 years to live, so I’m not moving out and abandoning family to increase my chances of getting laid. I’ll live it up in my 30s.

reddunt3 · 2022-07-16T14:06:24+00:00

It surely helps if you have a flat, if you wanna smash. If she still lives at home too, your kinda fucked. Other than that, attraction is what you need for hookups. If she wants you, you'll bang her no matter what.

If relationship is the goal - it is a deal breaker for some people. Doesn't have to tho

2022-07-16T15:53:19+00:00

Go back home with them😂 that's what i've done hahaha

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