How do you get as many hookups as possible?

Wean1eHu11 · 2025-02-04T04:30:13+00:00

Hook ups are a numbers game. Just talk to as many girls as possible and be open about what you’re after. There isn’t a secret conversation that will make her want to have sex with you, but most girls know what “do you want to come over and watch a movie together” means, especially if you have been flirting and escalating with her.

If you want an edge to really bump up your numbers, lower your standards. The guys I’ve known in my life who have the highest hookup count would sleep with just about anyone

Yamochao · 2025-02-04T05:42:00+00:00

Real answer:

Significantly lower your standards

Then eventually realize that this isn’t actually what you want

slice888 · 2025-02-04T05:07:36+00:00

Go work at a restaurant as a waiter. Sleep with every waitress and some customers too.

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-02-04T04:07:18+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bxsWRFMljk&ab\_channel=nexus.

Kidding...

College should be easy.

Easiest time to be social: intramural clubs, dorms, house parties, classes, etc...

Meet as many people as possible. Talk to people. Hang out.

Friends and women are everywhere.

Mc_Dickles · 2025-02-04T05:10:01+00:00

Talk to a lot of girls, cute and ugly. At least 1 date. Then you tell them to come over, and they should know what that means.

Nanashi_x01 · 2025-02-04T04:16:34+00:00

Go to college parties. Cold approach the hottest girl there. Since it is a college party, usually she will be receptive. Talk and escalate. If she is not receptive, has a bf, etc then cold approach the second hottest girl and so on. Do NOT EJECT THE SET until you get rejected by her or ignored by her. If you do this shit half-heartedly, like opening her and then ejecting and then moving on to another girl, some girls might start hating you and consider you a playboy (some will like you tho).

Anyway, so assume the girl is receptive -> You talk -> Try to escalate -> If she is going along -> You try to pull. DO NOT UNDER any circumstances ask to go on a date with her in a party and take her phone number. Only take her phone number if the logisitics are not in your favor (basically she can't come with you because of her friends or something). Strike while the iron is hot or she will flake.

I haven't done daygame in college much. But I think it is not different than doing daygame anywhere else in the city. So being in college doesn't help with daygame but it helps with nightgame (in college parties), or in classes, or college clubs, etc

Now, how do you approach girls in college when you are a beginner with massive massive approach anxiety? Easy solution. Go practice daygame and nightgame in your city with random girls who you won't meet a second time (unless you succeed in seducing them).

Btw this is coming from a guy who started from 0. I never was blessed with social skills. I had to learn them like how I had to learn math except way harder due to reasons like social pressure, humiliation, rejection, etc (I am good at math). At least I can do math without any humiliation lol

Also, don't worry about your reputation. Even if you approach all the girls in a college party (don't do it, as I said, you can't do this shit half-heartedly so do not eject after opening), 90% girls/guys won't give a shit about you. There will be those 10% girls/guys who might be nosy and judge you or hate you but it won't be a big deal.

Literally_Autistic · 2025-02-04T12:53:45+00:00

Travel. Women treat hookups like they treat desserts: it’s a special occasion treat. Women treat themselves on holiday.

They’re also horniest in warm weather when they’ve been next to a body of water surrounded by people in swimsuits all day.

6 month trip to Southeast Asia I came back with 30 more bodies (western backpackers, not locals. I’m not a passport bro). And this was me trying to maintain a standard of actually finding the girls I slept with attractive (beer notwithstanding). Hotter guys than me with lower standards were hooking up with a new girl every night.

Sandvicheater · 2025-02-04T05:59:48+00:00

Careful doing the seduction game in college as word gets around faster than covid. Pretty soon every girl will know you as the gigolo fuck boi who bangs anyone with a heartbeat.

MisterMisfit · 2025-02-04T06:05:19+00:00

From an older guy, it's not worth it buddy. Go for quality women and if it doesn't work so be it, on to the next one. Just do your part first i.e. get in shape, dress well, and speak well.

Trust me, you will never look back and think highly of the times you were going for 2s and 3s just to get some action.

everydayguy_ · 2025-02-04T09:15:22+00:00

Don’t get so fixated on body count numbers and tying it up with your self worth. Just put your best foot forward and whatever happens happens. Seduction is a dance, focus on enjoying it and forget about trying to cram in numbers like an accountant.

empaige011 · 2025-02-04T20:17:25+00:00

As a woman, I can definitely feel a certain vibe a guy gives off when he’s just trying to fuck anything that walks, and it’s really off putting. It feels desperate. Women are attracted to confidence, so embody that on top of taking care of yourself and being funny and respectful and you won’t have to work so hard.

epimpstyle · 2025-02-04T09:16:20+00:00

You need to be in the right place at the right time and with just a little bit of experience you can spot them based on their body language, how they talk/laugh, the way they look at other people but they also need assurance from you that you don't have a big mouth telling everyone about them - in fact, this is their biggest fear.

In short, you need to spot them, you need to tell them what they want to hear, you need to match their energy level, escalate fast, give them a good reason why they should go to another place with you....

FreeTheMarket · 2025-02-04T04:27:23+00:00

I generally try to balance quality and quantity, and I take long breaks of celibacy (4 months at a time sometimes), but my go to is Hinge and Feeld in NYC.

I’m just super honest on both. “Looking for something casual and short term, great if it turns into more”

SuperPoop · 2025-02-04T11:23:56+00:00

You’ll need to calibrate and get good on gauging when a girl is DTF. It’s a numbers game after that.

_SKUL_ · 2025-02-04T04:59:22+00:00

You want endless hookups go for 2/10s.

Occasionally theres gonna be an 8/10 who is an absolute whore, Im at a college where the bad bitches are at a 1:20 ratio.

The way I got my hookup was seeing her at UNI gym, she was in shorts and a tanktop, in my opinion if a girl is dressed like that at the gym, she’ll be down for a hookup.

Lit-Up · 2025-02-04T08:14:43+00:00

Another teenager post. It's easy to do this at any point in life: approach the least attractive women.

Why would you want to do that, though? Focus on quality over quantity.

Mean_Bumblebee1945 · 2025-02-04T11:58:32+00:00

I did a ton of hook ups during the last 10 years. I was not really attracted to any of them, since I had to lower my standards drastically to even have a chance for intimacy. Usually girls will sleep casislly with guys out of their league and do more serious dates/relationships with those on their level.

dodalou · 2025-02-04T14:15:26+00:00

Focus on yourself because everyone is focusing on everyone else. When girls see this they naturally become intrigued. You’re gonna have to put yourself around girls and only do things you NEED to do. Can’t fake it.

I’ll elaborate more if you have questions.

quinnstorms · 2025-02-04T08:22:39+00:00

If you are already approaching make Shure the conversation leads to the bedroom. If you are lucky she might even want to go with you right then. But don't be a creep about it and do be ready for rejections. Out of 10 you may sleep with 2 girls

Sabatzis · 2025-02-04T14:54:55+00:00

If you just wanna just wanna have sex with girls, let me tell you, it’s fun, but I would always go with the goal of meeting someone. Doesn’t have to be a full-fledged relationship or anything but meaningful sex is always the best.

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-02-04T11:45:37+00:00

How do you get as many hookups as possible?

1 Lower your standards like a ton.

2 spend and unneeded amount of time learning studding and practicing (like 2 decades) to be able to pull a magical trick out of your ass for every situation.

3 Do what my dad did and be the king of the university - it has limits.

In all cases you will realise it isn’t really worth it. And then feel bad about it.

I’m in college and want to go through my hoe phase and even though I do cold approach a lot of girls I still get envy of guys who get laid all the time and.

Ooo - option 1.

Option 2 is too long and Option 3 is now impossible or very hard if you didn’t start working on it from day one.

Just enjoy collage, get occasional pussy and have fun - the hoe phase is stupid anyway.

YinMaestro · 2025-02-04T14:10:23+00:00

You won't be happier or fulfilled lil bro

Medical_Tutor_7749 · 2025-02-04T15:51:53+00:00

Don't listen to the people that tell you it's not worth it and that you shouldn't do it. There's nothing worse than growing old and living with the regret of not doing something when you had the chance.

Sonicmantis · 2025-02-04T08:30:50+00:00

Be your best self, and talk to everyone. Girls, guys, bring everyone into your world

astrothunderp · 2025-02-04T21:40:16+00:00

Someone said it already, it’s a numbers game. Talk to them and win them over by being yourself. For one night stands, that comes with luck and reading her body language. Read it right, be authentic and hope she’s into the same thing, then you got yourself a one nighter kid

YeaButDoYouSmashTho · 2025-02-04T06:50:58+00:00

Be attractive

Disastrous_Meet8146 · 2025-02-04T07:36:46+00:00

Ditch the college girls and start hitting up some older ladies. They’ll teach you a thing or two and most of them appreciate a young man’s energy. 😉

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2025-02-04T13:03:03+00:00

If you're looking for a quantity of hook-ups, just lower your standards.

rocknrico666 · 2025-02-04T16:12:40+00:00

Find the easiest girls you can. Typically lower on the hot list. Usually fugly, lower intelligence, More annoying.

Simple my guy. Hammer down

Zestyclose_Tea_3111 · 2025-02-07T12:22:33+00:00

Flirt with everyone, be ultra extroverted. Push yourself and just talk to everyone, you meet people in bus? Talk to them. Guy, woman, old, homeless whatever. Just try to "flirt" which means that charm them, make them laugh, experience translates, so it doesn't matter if its beatiful woman or senior sitting on bench feeding pigeons.
You should have atleast 2-3 very social friends. There are people which know a lot of people. You should hangout with them. They meet new people often and they naturally bring new people into your life. But they are rare, most of people nowadays are not social.
Make social circle around you. This is great hack. Introduce people to people. Make dinner parties. Invite people to party outside. Besides your life being more fullfiling you would naturally attract woman, because they will see that you are popular.
Become part of communities. Debaters, yoga classes, climbers, young entepreneurs, sharing know how etc. if there is some missing again create one.

No-Wolverine7793 · 2025-02-04T08:20:38+00:00

Talk about everything but sex Be confident and charismatic Compliment on effort But in all honesty once you go this road it's really hard to get back into healthy relationships after a certain point

99Nvrmnd · 2025-02-04T08:32:52+00:00

Stop asking on reddit and just get out there and talk to women

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2025-02-04T15:21:15+00:00

Parties, clubs, class

RevolutionaryFuel475 · 2025-02-04T16:05:19+00:00

What you will probably learn is that its a total hit and miss, and it doesn't mean anything, isn't memorable and doesn't feel like you thought it would........ but with the right person it just keeps getting better, and the longer you go without, the better it gets... and the best it gets is probably somewhere between the 100th and 300th time... and after that you'll be the one who don't want to do it as much anymore....

6ksplit · 2025-02-04T16:56:56+00:00

just put yourself out there.

be as outgoing as possible, talk to everyone and make friends with everyone.

you’ll just end up knowing girls. then it’s just flirting and letting your intentions be known. easy work.

keep cold approaching like you’re doing.

watch some coach kyle maybe (but don’t think about it too much)

and keep the fundamentals down obviously. gym everyday, style, haircuts, all that

go get em tiger

Upstairs-Ad8823 · 2025-02-05T04:25:03+00:00

If you have to ask then you’re in trouble. It happens pretty naturally for those who have “it.”

pindarico · 2025-02-05T08:21:52+00:00

Dude, simply enjoy life! Go out there and let life unfold!

es_programming · 2025-02-05T17:29:25+00:00

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Simple

mow_foe · 2025-02-05T17:50:01+00:00

Ok so college is a specific time, but it's pretty easy. Goes like this: 1) Join a group. Greek life is easiest, sports or clubs are fine too. They come with a built in social network, plenty of people who are supposed to meet you.

2) Go to parties. No place is easier to get laid than a college party. Talk to girls, take them home.

3) Host parties: it's critical that this party is good - lots of women, good music, fun activities. Forget approaching women, they'll approach you.

4) Be good at sex: I can't understate how critical this is. In a smallish network, word gets around of who you slept with and how it was. Women who want casual hookups will gravitate towards you if they think it's worth their while. Pay attention. Don't get too drunk.

5) Acknowledge your man ho status: If a girl asks if you're trouble, say yes. It may sound counter intuitive, but the bad boy reputation will get you laid more.

6) Lower your standards: the catch-22 is that some women will find you sleazy and steer clear. You're going to find women attracted to you who are into that, and quality varies. If you want variety and consistency, take what you can get. Often the more promiscuous women are very vocal about who they slept with and how it was (see #4)

7) Revisit girls from high school: No, I'm not talking about people IN high school, just the ones you knew when you were there. You'll bump into someone at a party who says "I used to have a crush on you." That crush never went away. Use your newfound confidence and skills

8) Know when to stop: Honestly, sometimes you'll find someone you're really into. Don't skip a relationship because you're committed to the game, like a dufus.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-02-06T15:13:53+00:00

Approach as much as possible + build an optimized OLD profile

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-02-09T18:09:43+00:00

To really have sexual abundance, you need to have funnels in place, as well as methods to convert your "leads " into lays consistently. What is your main challenge so far when it comes to having sex with a lot of women? Also feel free to DM me as I feel it will be a deep discussion and I get lost in all those threads.

suripanto · 2025-02-04T15:37:12+00:00

Go bisexual and download Grindr. Doing this gave me a major confidence boost in general and as a result have been with way more women since I started playing for both sides.

Away_End_4408 · 2025-02-04T07:15:53+00:00

Bro if you want to become king, lookup liquid alchemy labs pheromones. Bad Wolf in particular. It's next level shit there's a community of bros been at this for 10+ years so you can be assured it works. There's a subreddit also you can't miss it. Total game changer though.

Very_un-original · 2025-02-04T12:56:17+00:00

My best line is “have you met my friend decal1210?”

Then I have no 2nd line.

apefist · 2025-02-04T23:20:18+00:00

Low standards and have sex with women you aren’t attracted to but yuck

Title	How do you get as many hookups as possible?
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