I know Im preaching to the choir, but it just bugs me from time to time how much my ex worked the system and won. Adultery, deceit, financial betrayal, all of it and she came out better than most.

I pay $2500 a month in CS, she remarries to a man with a very good paying job, meanwhile she chooses to be unemployed and just golfs while the kids are in school. Continues to ask me for more money, she has an amazing house, brand new cars, great vacations, and I am still trying to rebuild.

Don’t get me wrong, I do well, have a great job, debt free, but it just bothers me so much from time to time that she can be the scum of the earth and still live an amazing life on someone else’s dime. Two someone else’s actually.

There just is no accountability for her in my case. I know the kids will eventually age out and payments will stop, but we only live once and I feel like no matter what I do, she always wins while being a vile sack of flesh.

Just need to rant, I know I have a lot to be thankful for, just stings when someone who doesnt work for any of it, gets it handed to them.