Expose them early and often!

peaches88888 · 2021-08-27T02:01:31+00:00

That’s such a huge turn off ewwww. Is this a redpill tactic? Pathetic.

jupitarianrise · 2021-08-27T02:03:03+00:00

Lmaoo he wanted you to chase him. He’s a clown.

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-08-27T02:16:45+00:00

Even with friends, if they’re the ones to initiate the plans I assume nothings happening until they give me a specific day, time, and place and then follow up the day of. Sounds like this man wanted you to make the plans for him so he could get by with minimal effort then he got mad when you didn’t bite. He has nothing but the audacity🤡

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-27T01:19:31+00:00

This is game. He’s trying to put you on the defensive to make you more compliant and see how desperate you are to go out with him.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-08-27T01:17:30+00:00

It's not fine that he didn't have any intention of taking you on a date. He wasted your time and time is precious. I hope you blocked him sis.

rainbowshummingbird · 2021-08-27T01:20:39+00:00

Clown, he is.

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-27T02:28:44+00:00

Old boy thought he was the prize lol

bombas- · 2021-08-27T02:34:12+00:00

He’s so mad you didn’t chase him

purasangria · 2021-08-27T03:44:05+00:00

So common these days: Men that want to be chased. The want YOU to call them. They want YOU to plan the date.

Seriously, I can't even with this garbage. Either man up and plan the date -- a date is a time, a place, and an activity -- and communicate those plans to me in a timely manner or don't bother me with your nonsense.

oddcharm · 2021-08-27T02:30:41+00:00

This happened to me last week too! Lmao all the talks of sushi dinner for Thursday but the loser dies on Monday 😂 why can’t they just leave us alone? I have no time for games or you trying to see if I’ll chase you 🙄

I get so annoyed thinking about how this must have worked on another woman too smh, why else would they bother with this nonsense?

riricide · 2021-08-27T03:10:10+00:00

Forget Wednesday, he should have made proper plans atleast a couple days in advance. Unless a clear plan is made why should he assume you're going to keep your calendar free. It's highly disrespectful of your time. If he asked you out, it's his job to plan the date. Lack of accountability is a major repellent. I had a similar thing happen with a guy and when I told him I wasn't interested in seeing him he went "glad you found someone else", as if my decision and his actions were completely unrelated.

aspermyprevious · 2021-08-27T01:18:06+00:00

He’s trying to see how much emotional labor he can manipulate you into taking on. Don’t fall for it, ever! Block and delete.

quasarbar · 2021-08-27T04:51:59+00:00

“You know my phone rings too, right?”

Oh, does it? Okay. Then I'll call you when I give a fuck. Goodbye.

08__80 · 2021-08-27T05:41:09+00:00

We really need a flair that says "Scrotes cockblocking themselves."

Literally all this clown had to do was call you, set up a date, and take you on the date. Instead, he chose to do this.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-08-27T02:47:34+00:00

Going off on a tangent about exposure to something else: Honestly, expose them to yourself and leave quietly. If you go down that rabbit hole of trying to find answers to crap that doesn’t add up or you just try to get down to the bottom of it—— it’s dangerous. I kinda regret getting proof and going as hard as I did. But meh, what’s done is done. The first five minutes was enough of a trial for me. Just walk away and don’t bother trying to see wtf happened and who all was involved. But for what happened to you, girl take your fine ass somewhere nice and enjoy your day. These people lack logic and are surprised when you are aware of stuff like cause and effect, one of these things is not like the other, and other pointless mind games.

raindropsonnoses · 2021-08-27T03:11:13+00:00

If anyone is being rude to you and making you feel uncomfortable, instead of internalizing it, externalize it and fling the poison back at their faces.

If you truly want to adopt an 'I don't give a fuck' attitude, it comes with being less reactive to what happens in your external environment. Not caring means to remain unaffected or stoic, not flinging your arms in the air, pushing or shoving everything out of your way and saying out loud that 'You don't care'- this is what social media and OLD portrays what not caring means on top of trying to portray or maintain a certain image.

If you do react, there is a high likelihood that you have unresolved issues or trauma within you that is causing you to react strongly. The only time to ever respond with action is in a fight or flight situation.

There will be creeps and creepers everywhere. The first step is to have a strong fortitude of mind. Having a strong mentality and being reserved does not equate to being a cold unfriendly bitch, nor does it mean you're mean or boring.

cozygoblingirl · 2021-08-27T02:11:58+00:00

These men stay doing the least

CroneRaisedMaiden · 2021-08-27T03:54:13+00:00

What an absolute barnacle

fancypantsdance92 · 2021-08-27T06:17:21+00:00

I love that so much.

"When are you free?"

"Next Friday"

"Ok what do you want to do?"

Excuse me home boy but you asked me out. What exactly do you want with my time?

Technusgirl · 2021-08-27T01:54:20+00:00

Wow, wtf, what an entitled douche, the nerve of the guy

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-08-27T06:34:19+00:00

Damn these idiots are really playing themselves by sucking up all this manosphere crap. 😂

quasarbar · 2021-08-27T04:46:51+00:00

Hahahahahaha

Bullet dodged. Glad you didn't waste an evening with this loser.

Severe-Bookkeeper5 · 2021-08-27T03:01:30+00:00

For fun you really should have just texted back: new phone, who dis

aoi4eg · 2021-08-27T07:36:54+00:00

It's extremely hilarious because he played himself in the end :D I mean, if he really had some other dates and decided to ghost you, it's one thing. But he just sat by the phone the whole Wednesday, waiting for you to call and then waited more, till the next day, to call you and complain?? What a clown indeed.

ccro7 · 2021-08-27T11:56:31+00:00

I remember years ago I asked out a friend of a friend and he turned me down with a loud yawn saying he was tired from work. I was disappointed and kind of shocked because I'd never been confident enough to ask someone out before and I figured 'Oh well, I guess he's not interested in me.' It's certainly an ego-check to have someone you're interested in respond to you with an actual, audible yawn.

About a month later, the mutual friend told me this guy was annoyed with me for never calling back to ask him out again!

🤡 😆

Ironsculpture · 2021-08-27T09:28:18+00:00

When men think they're the prize and hurt themselves in their confusion.

FodderFigureIllushun · 2021-08-27T10:06:43+00:00

Block them if they make plans with you and never follow up. They're setting poor precedent for how they'll treat you in the future so make sure there isn't one.

theredwolf07 · 2021-08-27T10:45:47+00:00

I just got out of a year and a half long relationship with an emotionally/mentally abusive man.

This sent up alarm bells for me. You dodged a bullet.

Momcella · 2021-08-27T10:04:35+00:00

Well that explains why my self proclaimed Alpha male friend asked me out for coffee & didn't follow up with plans. I let it go, didn't even question him about it. Months later, he asked again, I said no (thanks FDS), he eventually started to lose interest in our friendship. I blocked & deleted before his next lame attempt. During our conversations, I'd ask as many questions as I could to get an idea of the scrote logic he was spewing,. He was offended one of his female acquaintances thought he was gay, he asked for my opinion, I said "You never know." His own mother even said she thought he was gay, so now he brags about all the women he's slept with. Proud of being community dick. Yuck!
He said his ex wife wants him back, even though they got divorced cause she's crazy & bipolar. Well that sounds familiar. The more he went on about how much she wants him back, the more off the story seemed. I'm thinking he was just looking for my reaction. But why if our friendship was just platonic?

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-27T09:11:20+00:00

Lazy mofo

Hippofuzz · 2021-08-27T10:34:38+00:00

Why would he think that works 🤣 pathetic

Title	Expose them early and often!
Author	xdecadent
Upvotes	922
Comments	79
Date	August 27, 2021 1:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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