LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.

salthoney · 2021-09-20T12:32:44+00:00

I have a little andecdote about this. My uncle, who lived in a rural village in a 3rd world country was pretty HV. He might have not have much to his name in terms of wealth, but he was a great guy. He always did housework and helped my aunt, especially while she was pregnant. He didn’t have to do any of it, but he insisted. Did housework, fetching water, washing, ironing, sweeping, cooking, etc… on top if his other work farming etc…

When the other ladies in the village saw this they were impressed but insisted their husbands didn‘t know how to do "women‘s work". My uncle laughed and said, yeah they did, he‘d grown up with them, they used to do these chores when they were younger.

The women then went to tell their husbands to start chipping in and act more like my uncle. Did they do that, or at least compromise? Nope, they called my uncle and had a "meeting" in which they lowkey threatened he should stop helping my aunt b/c now their wives were complaining and had discovered their "secret". LVM do not like hearing of the deeds of HVM even if they technically know how to do it as well. Doesn’t matter what part of the world. And they especially don‘t like their gfs or wives hearing/seeing things HVM do. It‘s pathetic really.

ThrowRA_lantern · 2021-09-20T11:02:50+00:00

These LVM are literally wasting all their energy putting down HVM when they could be using that time to improve themselves. The least they could do is learn and be INSPIRED by how a HVM expresses generosity, respect and consideration for others.

It’s funny these LVM refuse to grow (they would rather stagnate and try to drag down women and HVM) when I thought they’re supposed to be all about “Brotherhood” or supporting their “Kings”.

sleepysiri · 2021-09-20T10:48:48+00:00

thing is, it’s not even that hard to be HV. If anything, it takes just as much effort to NOT be HV as it does to be HV. Actually, you really have to go out of your way to be a LV. To comment pathetic comments like those guys did on that post, to just be an all around asshole that nobody but other LV people like. Whereas being HV is just so much more enriching, it’s easier because it makes you and others happy, it brings all around positivity into your life. Even being a lazy asshole takes effort. Nobody is born one, you need to put work in to perpetuate that character.

miaumiaoumicheese · 2021-09-20T11:39:44+00:00

I have literally heard many men complaining that HV men destroy relationships between men and women because they set high standards, just like LV men were totally aware that no woman would be satisfied with their LV behavior if she knew she could be treated better so they hate when someone shows HV behavior cause they want to keep women expectations low

throwaway-fds · 2021-09-20T12:27:34+00:00

Whenever I look at the comments on a vid of a guy doing something kind to a woman, it's fillleddd with those type of comments. Calling them simp, saying she's gonna cheat on him, etc. Men are such miserable little creatures

bubblegumsparkles · 2021-09-20T11:03:38+00:00

Their comeback is to call a HVM a simp usually or some other stupid name when in reality that’s who women want; a guy who treats her well and goes above that. A high value woman will do the same. The expectations are equivalent because we would have something to offer to the table as well since we would reciprocate. These losers think we’re looking for a submissive man but in reality a HVM is just someone who is dominant (in control of his life, has discipline) sweeps you off your feet and is your better half if not more.

IndigoTR · 2021-09-20T13:40:23+00:00

Oh but I thought it was only women who were nasty and jealous towards each other?? 😏

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-09-20T17:40:38+00:00

I hate how men doing the bare minimum is seen as simpy nowadays and how many young women and girls buy into it.

mesloh14 · 2021-09-20T19:00:43+00:00

Let’s be honest here. LVM hate everyone because they hate themselves deep down, and they all project it differently. That’s it.

Constant-Wanderer · 2021-09-20T13:58:01+00:00

HVM don’t compare themselves to other men, because they do what’s right, and they don’t need validation or encouragement to know what that is.

Livia_Drusila · 2021-09-20T18:32:10+00:00

They envy them yes, but they only despise us.

Thesseli · 2021-09-20T13:54:26+00:00

Elliot Rodger and other incels are perfect examples of this.

mashibeans · 2021-09-20T14:43:03+00:00

This is one of the reasons why so many men with the potential to become HV end up just being mediocre or even LVM, there's a lot of threatening from too many LVMs that they end up cracking under the pressure, or they just end up brainwashed.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-09-20T14:22:18+00:00

A lot of male posters said they hated this guy as he raised the bar of what it would take to propose to a woman

This happens soooo much when a HVM's actions makes it to the media. And it's funny that these are most likely the same men who use biology to justify they're attraction to younger women and yet they conveniently forget that natural selection through female-led mate selection is also biology. Morons.

Edit: grammar

Peak_Tree · 2021-09-20T16:03:33+00:00

And the tantrums when other men put effort into their looks. I've never listened to k pop but I support k pop fans out of spite after seeing SO MANY men complaining because those guys dress well, are on top their skin care game and grrom themselves and obviously that's atractive to women.

EDIT: and have good posture. Have you seen the "gamer's hunched back"?

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-20T15:16:15+00:00

Lvm always are the first ones to call a hvm that cares and treats good women a simp. Human decency and caring is being a simp for them, disgusting

Hhjjuuy · 2021-09-20T15:42:12+00:00

And most of all they hate themselves 😘

Sister_cat · 2021-09-20T16:01:27+00:00

It’s also very telling what men say about LVM. I’ve met a pretty HV man recently (still vetting of course), and whenever he encounters some LV behaviour, he points it out with a comment like “what a bum” (about not dressing nicely for dates for example). Or he just ignores them.

notallowed2havepizza · 2021-09-20T14:25:55+00:00

That’s why LV mob always call HV simps, white knight, etc for doing basic bare minimum. LV mob get so angry and bully HV into becoming LV like themselves.

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-09-21T07:06:39+00:00

Hence the "Simp" thing. Shame on them if they treat their partners anything other than disrespect 🙄

randomgirl34861 · 2021-09-21T07:13:35+00:00

This is why I don’t consider it a red flag if a man has no friends. (Provided he has healthy and loving relationships with at least a few family members, is able to fit in at work and be seen as professional and polite, is respectful to the people we encounter (severs, customer service on the phone, my friends, strangers, etc.) and has had friends at some point in his life.) I think a lot of high-value men realize that they are too different from their high-school and college friends to continue the friendship into adulthood, and it’s very difficult to make friends as an adult. Male/female friendships are never truly platonic, so that leaves men with the option of being friends with other men…. but most men shun high-value men. We know how hard it is to locate a high-value man to date, so I imagine it’s also very difficult for men to find high-value men for friendships.

sunologie · 2021-09-25T00:56:47+00:00

I just went viral on twitter for tweeting how my boyfriend go an amazing job offer with a salary of $225k and that he said I don’t have to work anymore if I didn’t want to, or that I can just work part time- I went viral over night and had hundreds of death and rape threats from men in my mentions and in my dms, and just all sorts of horrible negative comments from men- most of the comments from women were positive (there were a few pickmes but not many)… they insulted my boyfriend too, sent me vore in DMs etc…

Title	LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.
Author	fireforestfairy
Upvotes	1361
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Date	September 20, 2021 10:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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