First I wanna say the fear of sexual assault and violence isn’t a dating problem. It’s problem of living in a patriarchal society where a lot of men feel they are so entitled to a woman’s time and body that they respond violently. There’s no reason to have any more fear on a first date than walking home from work/school or getting gas from a gas station.

One of the few aspects of life that women have an upper hand in is dating, sex, and relationships. Many women feel that they aren’t privileged in this one area because women, they are near the front of the class, they can’t see how the people behind them live. They can however see the only people in front of them. High SMV men. These men live the high life, sex when they want it, dates when they want it, a relationship when they want it. It’s easy.

Women only have 2/3 of those things and a easier access to the last than a matching guy. I see the metaphor that they have a buffet of poisoned food while men starve and I don’t think that’s right. If it was it wouldn’t be worth the trouble to date. The majority of food, is good food that women don’t like. However many women live the poisoned food and taste that, but then label the whole buffet poisoned after they feel I’ll.

They’re given the luxury of choice while men need to be chosen. Women also highly downplay how good women are. Women also suck sometimes, just like guys do. Guys have to wade through women who aren’t great options and men do not find interest in every single woman. Women are at least able to get through a lot of guys they aren’t interested in quickly.

Why else do they think most guys are so desperate and will refuse to take hints. If one girl drops us, there’s a chance some of us won’t talk to another woman romantically for another 6 months, while women only have hiatuses like that if they do choose.

And that’s what it boils down to. Women have choice in every aspect of dating. Most Men do not. We are slaves to the whims of those we desire.