EDIT: English is not my first language. I actually didn't mean compliant but cooperative, non-disagreeable. I was unaware it has a different meaning in a different context. I thank the commentor who made the effort to try to find a more suitable word.

There are these types of women who just generally "shit test" a lot. Some are benign and just childish some are more toxic. I believe that only a certain type of man can pass these shit tests constantly (after all, what counts as a pass is defined by the woman). And to a lot of guys (at least for me) it shows that this type of woman is not relationship material and I think if guys see that behavior they disqualify her as relationship material and will only sleep with them at best w/o commitment.

Example: A woman who is constantly non-compliant disagreeable, makes unpleasant remarks (which of course you have to counter), difficult to handle, crosses boundaries & is unfriendly on purpose just to see how you will react to it. (and maybe she even mistakes kindness for weakness and that turns her off). So it takes a certain type of man to even pass ALL her shit test.

I think a lot of women don't realize that men want a compliant cooperative, friendly, feminine woman as an companion and are unaware that their "behavior" might disqualify them as relationship material in the eye of the man and the only men who are able to pass these (sometimes extremely difficult to pass) tests exhibit some type of abusive, narcisstic behavior.

Then these types of women only experience toxic guys who just use them for sex and say "men are trash". It's easy for women to get sexual attention & attention in general and the average woman is approached without doing anything about it. This gives no space to self-reflect and to change their behavior. They think that "men just want them anyway" and that they can get away with bad behavior which is true for a lot of men because they are desperate with no standards + a lot of men classify them as "sex only" and still give them attention to try to get them to like them. That's why they have the impression to get away with it. On the other hand there are women who men want as a companion which are feminine, compliant & pleasant to be around and thus have no problem getting into a stable relationship.