I keep seeing again and again news about how Ukraine is lacking people on the front because most are either dead, injured or exhausted.

All those posts are saying the same thing. That the government should find a way to make sure that enough able bodied men are sent there to replace those people, that the best way would be to find volunteers, but that now most men are unwilling to go due to the high death rate and feedbacks of the very harsh conditions on the front. They then proceed to explain that the goverement has no other way to enforce the draft on able bodied men even more strictly than before, since many men found ways around it, that it is something tough to do but that there is absolutely no other way to meet the high need for people on the front.

Everytime it makes me wonder, since the need of people is so vital for the country, why is the idea of extending the draft to young abled women never even considered an option?
I understand that women are supposed to stay in order to take care of the familly/children but nowadays, thanks to feminism, many women choose to follow a career and not to marry/have children, so i dont understand why a healthy and fit 20-30 year woman with no children/familly obligations would be able to travel to a safe country and recieve support to live there while her country is in desperate need for help ? And why is it considered a better option to send an out of shape, late-30 man that might have children ?
Since today war is no more hand-to-hand combat, physical strength is not anymore a priority to fight in a war. Cardio, general fitness and environmental awarness are way more important and nothing prevent women to be as good in those as men. I also dont think there are any reason why women would be less able to learn to use and shoot firearms and any other kind of weapon.

So to summerize i'am asking that in a time where there is a critical need of people to be drafted for the survival of the country why the idea of extending the draft to able bodied women with no familly obligation not considered?

I dont know if there is something wrong with asking this question? Because everytime i comment asking those questions, i get alot of angry comments(from both men and women) and downvoted to death. Even got a warning for not following guidelines because i was posting "hateful content" (not on reddit but on another app). So i'am asking is there something wrong in my reasoning?
What do you think?