Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?

noonewonone · 2022-08-17T18:32:25+00:00

I matched with a girl on tinder in April 2021 went out and had a great time but she said I sucked at texting and we stopped talking. A few months later after some DMs on insta we went out again and fucked for the first time.

Hooked up with a chick I met on tinder. She ghosted me the next day. We match on tinder again several months later and she apologies and hook up a few more times and she half-ghosts me this time.

I met a girl 4 years ago who confessed feelings for me but we were both seeing other people. We’re currently dating.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2022-08-17T18:19:54+00:00

Yep. It's called, "lack of options". Tread carefully.

otapita · 2022-08-17T18:16:58+00:00

Everyone gets bored and needs a safe landing lol

ThemasterofZ · 2022-08-17T18:09:31+00:00

Yeah. The spark is still there, but she ended things the first time so I'm not pushing anything until she expresses herself again

DigLucky3112 · 2022-08-17T18:11:50+00:00

Bro trust me girls come back around regulary!

TexasBoyz-713 · 2022-08-17T18:44:05+00:00

Two years ago there was a girl at my job who we started texting, then she became dry and we stopped for about a month. Still chatted at work, but nothing was happening so I said fuck it to trying to date her. A month later when I’m not thinking about her in the slightest she starts texting me again out of nowhere, I just reply to be nice. Two weeks later she asks me out

Turns out she still had a thing with her ex and only asked me out when she was sure she was done with him, ended up breaking up with me 4 months later lol

_Domi_Mochi · 2022-08-17T19:01:41+00:00

Met a girl and made out with her and got her number She was stunning and gorgeous and I made the mistake of getting too attached too fast

I text her too much

She took 3 to 8 hours to reply to text

She even said "idk if this will workout because you seem bothered by my reply speed...I don't wanna waste your time"

So I decided "screw it" and ignored her for 24 hours straight

She text me at midnight...I ignored it for 8 hours

Gave her short blunt answers, when she seemed upset about it, I'd give goofier answer

I wouldn't reply to her for about 1-3 hours

She quickly became obsessed for attention and her replies became alot more quicker and she became alot more interested

The thing is:

Attention is a man's greatest weapon Girls get attention everywhere with no effort So what do you do?

Make your attention more valuable by giving it less

libert-y · 2022-08-17T18:16:03+00:00

It happened to me more than once when I started talking with her girlfriends. She came back as fast as she could. Try it out, it never fails.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-08-17T18:06:53+00:00

Just using you for attention to feel better about herself

xracer8808 · 2022-08-17T19:09:43+00:00

She had better options at the time. Those options didn't work out, but now you find yourself back at the top of her list

sazze34 · 2022-08-17T23:10:28+00:00

Well easy

She was broke and so was I

Told me she needed some time to find herself

Meanwhile, I hustled and got rich

She came back saying she realised that she had always liked me

I told her sorry, i realised i was never interested

drewcer · 2022-08-17T22:39:59+00:00

It happens all the time, usually when you’re needy she loses attraction then when you pull away she develops it again.

WiiWynn · 2022-08-17T20:08:06+00:00

Lol absolutely. Girl in college was a bit of a hoe. She rejected me (after some hookups and a situationship scenario) and I moved on. Got a better gf. She gets jealous and tries to start a relationship. I moved on, but we stayed friends.

She was at my wedding and apparently cried, according to my cousin. It occurred to me she figured she fucked up.

aWiseLife · 2022-08-17T22:19:21+00:00

Yes. But you will know if it's because she has no other options OR because you have become of higher value

You want to be the latter, trust me. Girls will notice but that shouldn't be your mindset. You should focus on improving yourself In every aspect. Talking about career, hitting the gym, focusing on your fashion, your side hustles, your social network, your hobbies etc. But do all this for your own good and future. A byproduct of that will be girls. This is were some may start to come around when they notice. But at this point it's up to you make the call.

Girls don't always lose interest strictly because she found a better option. There are other factors you simply can't control. Timing, mood, etc.

If she was interested in before, she must have found you attractive. So it's not impossible for her to see you as such again, but now you DO have to bring more to the table, in order for her to see it again. Keep leveling up OP for your own good.

chrisdrinkbeer · 2022-08-17T20:31:16+00:00

Yep! Met a friend in college, had sex a couple times, got friendzoned for 10 years. Had sex with her last weekend!

Cronoze · 2022-08-17T20:26:34+00:00

I once was into a coworker, and long story short she basically let me down easy.

A few months later after a work event with only 1 other coworker around, she was all over me. I didn't do or change anything about myself, just kept my level up mindset.

That coworker who was witness to it all asked me if we hooked up and we didn't so I told her no. But it was very weird how she changed her mind. The no options comment someone else made makes the most sense to me. Which, the more I think about it, is just horrible to be treated that way. I might deny her next time it happens based on that alone.

DarthFarris · 2022-08-17T21:18:20+00:00

Attraction, especially for women, can be cyclical. I'd say about half the women i've been involved with turned me down or didn't seem interested but would come back months to years later.

I think I make bad first impressions haha

BigToyT · 2022-08-17T23:35:02+00:00

Me experience is that women who either weren't interested before or lost interest become interested again when you improve yourself and have drive in life. If they don't see you for awhile and you get in shape and get a better job they will be much more interested in you than before because you are making something of yourself.

2022-08-17T19:28:59+00:00

Nope. My recent experience was with someone that came on strong, went flaky but still friendly to eventually nothing.

2022-08-17T22:56:33+00:00

Yes, I would avoid this. Girls who are even average have a decent amount of options, so if they're coming back around they have something weird going on.

Lukezoftherapture777 · 2022-08-17T18:58:56+00:00

yeah. but i feel like theres a reason behind it, even if she does text "i miss you" outta nowhere. especially when your moving on successfully lol maybe your plan b and her plan a didint work out. i would get suspicious lol some ppl are ok with being second but it can definitely hurt your dignity/ego.

PartyWithArty44 · 2022-08-17T20:35:39+00:00

OP have y’all hooked up yet? If not go ahead and leave this one for the streets big dawg

JohnnyMnec · 2022-08-17T21:53:56+00:00

Hahaha a specific version of it happened more than I want to admit:) During the pandemic, I was talking with a lot of girls that I cannot meet at that time. Some of them would go radio silent at some point. Then, through other means (social media, profile pics etc) I learned that they started a serious relationship with a guy. When that ends however, they wanted to continue talking with me as if nothing changed.

Nothing against them, but I didn't give them the second chance & don't think I ever will in this situation. This excludes the ones that were honest with me and didn't ghost me.

r1bb1tTheFrog · 2022-08-17T22:59:19+00:00

Yeah. Some girls were banged on the first meet. Some girls after 5-10 years of knowing them. I wouldn’t say they necessarily lost interest.

More likely it’s that they have lots of options, and they happened to exercise another option before you. They didn’t necessarily lose interest, but girls also have a limited number of hours per day to do stuff. As long as you weren’t needy in the first place and the following interactions were “natural” or she initiated, your chances can pick back up.

However, you should never be waiting around for these girls. Otherwise they will never come back.

HopeElectronic8711 · 2022-08-17T21:46:52+00:00

I’m a girl and I don’t really belong in this community, but I like understanding this mentality better and I just wanted to share my female perspective. I’ve had that experience as a girl of being fickle. But I’ve always dated seriously, which probably isn’t the way that you date if you’re here. But from my perspective, you meet guys that you’re interested in. You date, you start to see some flaws. You start thinking about your guys’ future together. What kind of life would I have if I got attached to this guy? Could we last long-term? Is he going to break my heart? Is it worth the effort? All of those doubts can cause you to end the relationship even if you still enjoy being together. Everyone has their own dreams for the future, and most of the time other people don’t neatly fit into those expectations. Relationships are effort and compromise, romantic or otherwise. It takes time, experience, and wisdom to understand what exactly you’re looking for and what you’re willing to tolerate to get it. Girls might circle back around because they’ve gained a better understanding of all that.

froze_gold · 2022-08-18T01:01:22+00:00

Usually it's a rebound. Just happened to me the other day. They hit your line being friendly. The moment you show interest in return tells them that theyre still desirable, and that you also lack options.

Larissanne · 2022-08-17T22:07:24+00:00

It happened to my friend. She needed a few years to sort her own shit out and then they tried again and now they are in a happy relationship. They didn’t wait on each other, they just remained good friends, no expectations.

thebigfishstick17 · 2022-08-17T23:20:57+00:00

They come back around when the main guy fucks up. Just keep that in mind and have fun but don’t take it seriously. She left once and that’s all it takes.

60yearoldME · 2022-08-17T23:33:22+00:00

Read an incredible book called “The Passion Trap” - this happens for both men and women, and is based around power dynamics. This book will blow your mind, and open your eyes to your own patterns of behavior on a deeper level.

LONEWOLFF150 · 2022-08-18T06:31:37+00:00

Happened to me before. I was super interested in this girl after a painful breakup. Told her my feelings one day after she asked to speak in private, she rejected me and tried to friend zone me I didn't budge and told her plainly I wasn't interested in that at all and left.

She came back to me few weeks later hankering me as to why I didn't want to be friends she kept getting in my space and questioning me as to why I would reject even her friendship with me and told her to leave me alone and told her why.

Turns out she rejected me because she was already dating another guy that I knew and also turns out she was already pregnant with his kid at the time. She disappeared from our church group for almost a year or two. See her at a BBQ I was cooking for with our group of friends, they invited her and she came with her kid and no baby daddy. She couldn't take her eyes off me all night made me really uncomfortable and lowkey pissed off she came onto me later that night asking for my phone number. Laughed in her face and left again.

Seriously wtf.

Klokikus · 2022-08-17T19:11:00+00:00

I met a girl and we hit it off from the start, we went on a really great and honestly I thought it was a date where relationship could start, and was asking me when im free again and all that and then 3-4 days after the first date, when the 2nd date should've happened poof, ghosting by her started and slow fade, so I stopped messaging for some period I thought she wanted space and all that but nah, after I contacted her again if it's something wrong or if I did something she isnt even responding only leaving fucking seen. Honestly ghosting and leaving seen is pretty immature way to handle situation. Especially at our age (22-24). We are not middle/high school anymore for that shit. This was kinda offtopic but it was nice place to vent it out. On your topic tho, I think it's possible I've had that case where I stopped talking to her but couple weeks later she was asking me to hang out and all that but that didnt happen cause it was most likely for attention.

LaughableEgo740 · 2022-08-17T23:15:40+00:00

Usually when they ignore me, I ignore them back. Then, some of them will be interested in me again just because I didn’t give them the time of day.

pp604977 · 2022-08-18T01:17:12+00:00

Yup, this girl broke up after 3 dates via text. Then, I told her, ok, and stopping texting her. She came back after a few days and said, she still wants to see each other and gone cold again. Man - I tell you, you just gotta watch out for yourself. Let em leave, but never let ‘em come back.

Imscubbabish · 2022-08-18T03:53:51+00:00

Met a girl during my first year in college. She was cute nerdy like me. We became friends and I admitted to her I liked her but she didn't view me like that. We hung out a little bit till we lost contact. Years later we saw each other at a different school. We reconnected we told each other what we been up to, basically caught up. She told me something about me seemed different. I will admit when I was in college I was shy insecure and basically a mess but I worked on myself throughout the years. We went to her place watched a movie. I randomly asked if she wanted to make out and she quickly agreed. It was cool making out with a crush I had in the past. But nothing really came out of it. It was fun got to see something I wanted to see

iluvreddit · 2022-08-18T08:37:22+00:00

Happens all the time. It's because she tried out other d*ck and either didn't like it, or he ran away. Most likely the former.

AverageZhoe · 2022-08-18T09:41:30+00:00

Yeah then I rejected her offer to be fwb LOL

cries in regret

TigerDragon007 · 2022-08-18T12:54:04+00:00

Just wanna share something happened with me, long story short I use to be best friends with this girl, we have a lot in common and we spoke a lot, I'm always respectful with girls I won't ask them for anything and she wasn't an exception, then she tried to level things up, I accepted but then it didn't work out, I removed her from everything ( Instagram, WhatsApp, music app too ) and I stopped talking to her since we aren't on the same page anymore ( we still share one group that is full of people who are interested in books ), we just had a little chat there, then I saw her sending me a follow on IG, I mean after 4 months, exactly yesterday (17 - 08 - 2022 ) mark exactly 4 months since I stopped everything, wonder why she's back. Answering your question, and like someone in the comments said, you're moving on and doing great about yourself, so she's jealous of this, and want to be part of your life, even if it's just 1%, for me this is the case, but she won't talk or anything, I'll see what it will lead me to. So my man, always make yourself the best version ever, work hard, never give up, and you'll win in life, some girls could not handle the idea you left them, so they want back, and remember, the right girl won't play games.. Be safe folks..

OpiumVision · 2022-08-18T13:35:16+00:00

We were supposed to hang out, she changed her mind, went out with her and other friends few more times but nothing. Few months later, I'm in a relationship and then she appears again trying to catch my attention, which obviously didn't work.

Son_of_lakes · 2022-08-17T18:27:27+00:00

Yup, my ex that I was with for 8 years, I was devastated when we broke up and I chased her hard for about 2 months after. This neediness repulsed her hard. She started dating another guy and told me she was over me, messed me up pretty bad. After I processed it I told her in person face to face I was letting her go and I wasn’t gonna let her hurt me anymore. I ignored her text and calls for the next two days then she eventually invited me over and told me she dumped the other guy and was still in love with me lol.

If you love them let them go how’s that saying go again?

jeromeantoinecarter · 2022-08-17T20:58:05+00:00

Yeah once Chad dumps her ass, too late then though.

cormacru999 · 2022-08-18T01:32:08+00:00

I love all these answers. Man, this reddit is wild, I don't know how y'all survive your own world views.

Women, & men, can both have their feelings change. It can be for a variety of reasons. Sure, a woman or a man, might think they can do better, or find someone better, & then later decide they actually had a good thing. Or someone can be an active addicts or an alcoholic, or have mental health issues, they could have had no good role models growing up.

This can happen often for women, including my own daughter, because I was an absent father & her mother is abusive. She felt worthless, & the surest way to feel wanted, to feel worthy is the first guy that says they like you. Sometimes its the first man to be kind, sometimes its a man who's like their father. Women can go from 1 bad relationship to the next, trying to figure out what they want.

Men can also have some of that behavior. I lost my virginity at 17, married her, had our child, split, divorced & I also felt unloved, abandoned, worthless, so I got real cocky, made myself into the coolest, toughest guy in our scene, pretty soon I was ripping through every cute girl we knew, & I destroyed ALL of those relationships cuz I was more interested in many experiences instead of 1 solid experience. I had been burned so fuck it, I'll burn everyone.

If you're asking about a woman you were with & she left & now she's back, its impossible for any of us to tell you why & they can be many reasons why. Do your best to analyze why that might be & do your best to make a good decision. You can do whatever you want, but good choices make good consequences, & I wish I'd done things in a better way in the past.

Superb-End6273 · 2022-08-18T00:29:56+00:00

I wouldn't say lost interest... it's probably that she was just ignoring you. When a girl does ignores me(knowing that I'm still attempting to communicate with them) and becomes interested in me in the future I take it as disrespect. I've stabilized myself to the point where I don't play her or any girls fucking games anymore... if she wants to ignore me she gets cut off, if she wants to keep her a dominant ego around me she gets cut off, if she doesn't get w/ my fucking program she gets cut off. When I say "cut off" that means she doesn't have any space in my mind nor does she get a single second of attention out of me. So personally, if they "loose interest" in me I'll cut them off... I'm not gonna figure out if she's interested in the future because... guess what? I already replaced her.

Very rarely I may let her come back but she'd have to repay me in some way. Ex: massaging me, cooking for me, taking me out on a date(and paying for the food).

dzoya1266 · 2022-08-17T21:48:58+00:00

If you've let her completely walk over you then no, but if you stood up for yourself then yea, possibly.

Big-Wasabi8149 · 2022-08-17T22:07:48+00:00

She’s just horny

buick916 · 2022-08-17T22:56:34+00:00

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007upyours · 2022-08-18T02:47:32+00:00

Yes, usually once they figured out that they made a mistake. Don’t be the the sponge that soaks up the damage of their mistakes. Let them live with that mess and go find a bigger fish. Become Ahab looking for that elusive white whale.

Adorable-Mix-4002 · 2022-08-18T03:58:01+00:00

YES. Asked her out, and I got rejected. A week later, I'm flirting with another women and we agree to a date. Girl who rejected me finds out somehow and tries to date me... IDK, but she seemed Crazy. Girl I agree to date with, Bailed cuz Drama and stuff. I quit that Job cuz I was labeled a "Player" by other women and didn't like it.

Misisdriscol · 2022-08-18T04:23:49+00:00

Yeah, and when we go out and they see my interest is not the same as before they go crazy. Its nice but at the same kinda sad cuz I always get the girl when I dont like her anymore.

I used to want a relationship but it is really hard for me to see someone that way now as most ive had is girls playing with me.

The girls I like dont like me and the girls that like me I dont like.

QuelaansBlade · 2022-08-18T07:03:34+00:00

Yes, but don't count on it. Keeping your eye open to the interest in others is important for grabbing oppurtunities.

Fair_Ad1459 · 2022-08-18T11:46:38+00:00

I matched with a girl on tinder we exchanged snapchat handles and she went ghost on me, only to tell me 4 months later she been crushing we went on on my birthday and had few nights together, now she trying to ghost me again, we don't chat or talk like we used to, but anytime I post a picture of me she is always the first to see and comment.

markoid · 2022-08-18T12:18:59+00:00

Yep, happened quite a few times, they were on my Instagram (knew them IRL as well), some months passed and they sled back into my DMs.

2022-08-18T14:09:24+00:00

She’s not into you. Just give up and move onto the next girl. You don’t need fake hope from a bunch of internet strangers. Get over that oneitis…

ChipmunkResponsible4 · 2022-08-18T16:58:05+00:00

She only wants fun, that’s the hard truth man

Kobe_curry24 · 2022-08-19T05:15:11+00:00

All the time women have no awareness Better yet they stick around and wait for the winners and you should do the same with them

BusinessNet9858 · 2022-08-20T19:40:14+00:00

Oh fuck yeah, women do it all the time. They make decisions based on how they "feel" feelings change super fast. There are obviously things you can do to help influence a positive feeling towards you, but the short answer is yes. And remember women and humans in general want what they can't have, they also want what other women have so... there's that

SgtSplacker · 2022-08-17T21:31:40+00:00

Yep after she gained weight and got knocked up

TruSiris · 2022-08-17T22:14:49+00:00

Love of my life girlfriend and I broke up... SEVEN years ago. She moved to another state for the last 5 years. Moved back here at the start of '22... into her family home which is 10 minutes away from me.

At that time I had been with this other girl for 2 years. First girl and I hung out a couple times since she was in town again, she met my girlfriend, gf and i brought her to a couple concerts with us and friends.

gf and I break up 3 months ago.

I hit up love of my life to just hang out and chill (we are VERY friend zoned, although I have always felt that I still love her)

First thing she tells me is that she's moving out of state again in the beginning of August.

She came over this past Saturday night cause she was stressing tf out about her move(which happened Monday) and needed some support.

I give her lots of space to cry and feel her feelings. Then we cuddle in my back yard on a blanket and reminisce about our relationship. She asked me "Why did we ever break up??" (side note, after we both 'got over' the pain of our break up, our friendship that followed was always super easy and fun and felt like we never missed a beat, our connection has always been potent)

We start making out.

She goes home and moves out of state a day later. Merp.

I feel like the universe still has plans for us, just... not... now.

the_monstrrrr · 2022-08-18T01:37:07+00:00

A girl I was talking to and almost had a relationship with lost interest in me and stopped talking to me all of a sudden. Then she messaged me after a year. I asked her to not message me again. Edit: Grammar

ilovefootball49 · 2022-08-18T02:33:56+00:00

Yeah only the ones I don't want to hear from. And the ones I do want to hear from usually I get over it. Sometimes I wish I could go into a detox for a couple weeks and erase my bad memories with women.

dreweydecimal · 2022-08-18T03:40:44+00:00

Is a girl does that tell her you don’t live in the past.

heysoundude · 2022-08-18T03:43:00+00:00

I’m guessing that having girls who didn’t give me the time of day in high school came knocking after learning that my dad passed 6mo after my granny. I can only assume they’re gold diggers, looking for presumed inheritance monies. But I’ve also had women come back into my life after years naturally, after marriage/kids/divorce/remarriage/2nd divorce…when their options have disappeared and they’ve ridden all the other horses on the carousel. There seems to be an age where they’re deathly afraid of being alone.

aidsjohnson · 2022-08-18T03:58:58+00:00

Sort of. I feel like a couple of girls in my social media only keep me around to keep tabs on me so to speak. They don't give a shit about me really, they just keep me there in case they need someone one day. I mean, we do the same shit to them all the time. It's human nature lol

PullHerMando · 2022-08-18T05:00:36+00:00

Yes prob when they got tired of their new spring fling

moonfanatic95 · 2022-08-18T05:08:09+00:00

Yes, but it didn't go well at all and probably hates me. Let's just say that I have been having a tough time lately. She touched my chest while making a joke and I pulled away and said "don't ever fucking touch me", out of reflex. Needless to say, a man you can't even touch isn't exactly a catch; never spoke again after that.

wolfs-nacht · 2022-08-18T07:02:52+00:00

I once dated a hot girl, she dumped me after a few dates because I was „too pushy“. 2 years later, she texted me and asked if I want to got out again

Ibanez607 · 2022-08-18T07:17:48+00:00

Lol, honestly...every time.🤷

olympusblack · 2022-08-18T08:48:50+00:00

There is such a thing as timing. Sometimes she's in another relationship, sometimes you just grow on her over time and she realizes you're awesome, sometimes you just get better fitter, richer or whatever...

Organic_Armadillo_10 · 2022-08-18T12:00:52+00:00

I matched with a girl 3 years ago. Talked for 3 months but never managed to meet (in different countries). We matched again a few months ago and finally met this weekend and had an awesome time.

Left it confused though as think the distance is an issue for her when I asked if I could see her again (I'm willing to move as not settled anywhere though). Couldn't really read her though so not sure if it was a one time weekend fling kind of thing and she was letting me down easy (we had such a good connection online and not sure if she just wanted to see if we had that in person?) or if we can actually turn it into something. We got on well and she said she had a lovely time/weekend. But my head's all over the place right now.

Giving her a bit of time, and to sort out my own thoughts on what to say/ask. But hoping we can meet again and try and make it work.

burakbenxd · 2022-08-18T12:11:31+00:00

Yeah, so basically went onto a Ph.D.. a year ago I didn't have the correct mindset, nor how to act really around girls. But one girl in our cohort I've had a thing for, and still do. But I left for 2 months unannounced, back to my parents, I was going through some shit.

So, I come back here to my hometown/parents, start traveling, and partying. End up getting into a relationship, while banging my old girl frequently. But, I suddenly get a text from that girl in my Ph.D. cohort, and I respond. Then, I say, "Let's grab drinks when I come back. I'll be back Thursday." and she said "sure!", and I had her call me. Reading interest levels, seems high, but won't know until I sleep with her, which I will lol.

I ended up blocking my old girl on everything because of her neediness, and how annoying she is, and now focusing my attention on this girl.

But it was evident that I established high social value. Partying, traveling, and other girls, even a relationship. So, live your life, focus on yourself, and don't chase girls. Let them chase you.

Mundane_Natural5131 · 2022-08-18T12:53:15+00:00

This girl i liked and she liked me at one point stopped texting back what was once a 2 minite response became a 6 hour response all dry so i said oh well whats the point in pursuing someone that takes 6 hours to respond with one word linnes so i deleted her number for my own good so i can move on in life. She texted me 7 months later and sent me a follow request on instagrram she was doing a lot to come back into contact she got mad and blamed me for ghosting her lmao. Its funny how when you show high interest in a woman and she knows she has you in the bag she starts putting in less effort and doesnt care how u feel and treats u like less of a priority but once they sence that they are losing you and you are moving on their interest and the way they treat you skyrockets

2022-08-18T17:15:09+00:00

Yes, a girl i meet on Tinder, we initially had a lot of chemistry, texted every single day for like 2 months? +- we dated, everything went great, then weeks after that she suddenly ghosts me with no reason. 2 months later she for some reason, remembers that i had a trip to another country so she texts me apologizing for disappearing and tells me to go on a date with her. Against all my friends advices i still went to the date just for pure curiosity to hear what she had to say, i came back more confused than before. They do recover that interest but its better to look for other girls that really respect your time and effort.

2022-08-18T17:53:33+00:00

Happens to me a lot. It’s more to do with the girl than it is with anything you do. Let her go, let her come back

crtmammal · 2022-08-18T22:56:35+00:00

If your status changes you could become more attractive to her ex. Get a gf, job promotion, travel somewhere cool, she sees you out and about with someone who is a over her status level, shit like that

unnoticed77 · 2022-08-17T19:20:57+00:00

Never. Not once. Thought that only happened in movies.

FederalBlood · 2022-08-17T23:35:22+00:00

Happened to me with someone who friendzoned me when I went from a 230 lb chubby kid to 210 lbs jacked guy with a six pack.

2022-08-18T04:51:00+00:00

I recently had that and now it feels nice to get back with her , making my spirits high again

Son_of_Eros03 · 2022-08-18T03:51:56+00:00

It's a trap she just wants your attention because she's not getting it from the guy she really likes

keterkarker88 · 2022-08-18T02:02:33+00:00

Boy actually, all of them.. at some point.

mandalastar888 · 2022-08-18T22:36:44+00:00

“Woman”. Not girl unless you’re into kids.

Daygamesimplified · 2022-08-17T22:46:45+00:00

Never

2022-08-17T23:17:26+00:00

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Handle-me-timber · 2022-08-17T23:33:52+00:00

Yes. Other people mentioned lack of options, but it could also be because of a show of strength, or jealousy. Unless you did something bold in front of her recently, it’s probably not the good reason.

EARLY20RAG3R · 2022-08-18T00:42:13+00:00

Yea, it happens

2022-08-18T01:57:08+00:00

My ex high school girlfriend I still hookup every once in awhile.

bman0920 · 2022-08-18T02:25:16+00:00

Girls always lose interest in me and never come back.

DispatchVan · 2022-08-18T03:24:45+00:00

Friendlybikerguy · 2022-08-18T03:33:17+00:00

Been friends with this one for nearly a year. She has the same boyfriend but the relationship has been rocky as of late. I initially wanted to date her (1 year ago) but as time went on I realized we would not make a good couple. Lately our hangouts have had a lot of sexual tension, as in she’s been behaving differently/ acting interested in me despite the fact I am communicating the opposite (no interest in her) lol. Classic reverse psychology I guess.

taglem13 · 2022-08-18T11:50:17+00:00

Yeah, that happened with my ex. I met her when I was in ninth grade and she was in seventh. I tried to make her like me and I was kinda reaching that goal until I screwed it up and she lost any kind of interest in me. Then, when I was in eleventh grade and she in ninth I sent her a message to know how she was doing now that she was about to get into high school. After that, we started talking in a daily basis and she began liking and having feelings towards me, and so did I. Then we became a couple that lasted for 8 months and we split up on Valentine’s Day👍🏻

shreyashcool · 2022-08-18T12:18:50+00:00

Just start flirting again in a different way…thats it. They love flirty talks😅

The_Warrchitect · 2022-08-19T00:42:35+00:00

Nope lol

Rhinologistics · 2022-08-21T01:55:59+00:00

Happening to me right now, I got oneitis for this girl (HB8) who rejected me about a year ago.

A few weeks ago I started to ignore her snaps, and I invited some mutual friends to my birthday party.

And a friend of her asked me (on behalf of the HB8 ig), if she could also come. So pulling back really does work :)

my plan is to show no further interest in her, as it already worked well.

Title	Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?
Author	External_Lifeguard49
Upvotes	330
Comments	167
Date	August 17, 2022 6:03 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wqvorq/has_a_girl_ever_lost_interest_in_you_but_somewhat/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/has-a-girl-ever-lost-interest-in-you-but-somewhat.1251806 https://theredarchive.com/post/1251806

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