Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time?

I’m curious how different relationships tend to work out for different women. Assuming these are the main ways relationships start:

- being popular, playing a sport, or playing in a band in front of people

- being good looking and going on a date with someone or hanging out alone with them a lot

- I’ll skip money because that desire seems fake

For example, I could exist in a classroom of 300 people, but a woman might not be attracted to me until I hang out with her for a few hours. Similarly, I’ll sometimes attract people on accident if I’m outgoing.

Which relationships have you preferred? Overall, the personalities of the women attracted to me from either approach are probably completely random from my perspective, but I’m curious if women see something different.