A popular example of this is when women complain about having controlling boyfriends, who get mad at what they choose to wear. Women say that men should stop being insecure, and that women should wear whatever they want.

But when a man has a indifferent attitude about what their girlfriends wear though. All of a sudden men get shit for being too "nonchalant" (with quotations marks). Somehow a man not caring about what his girlfriend wear is still a bad thing too. Therefore the boyfriend must fall victim to a shit test, whenever his girlfriend decides to go outside half naked, and he is not bother by it. This is so much of a trend in society, women made up a male archetype, the nonchalant man.

This cognitive dissonance is so common in society. In my experience women would complain about having to wear makeup due the patriarchy, or saying they don’t wear makeup for men, they wear it for themselves (which is a contradiction on it's own, but that's a post for another day though). The same women would get upset at me, whenever I said I don't care if women wear makeup or don't wear makeup, because it doesn't affect my life.

I remember getting into a lot of heated debates with pro sex work feminists about having a hypothetical daughter who does OF. And my response would usually be I don't care, if my daughter is 18, she is a grown-ass adult that can do whatever they want. Their body, their choice. Somehow this was still a hot take to have in a feminist pro sex work space.

Again it doesn't matter how much liberal women claim not to care about men. They will always be bother by male indifference though.